obsessed with validation from older guys

I have a boyfriend about a decade older than me (i’m 20) and it makes me so happy to know that his older friends are also attracted to me. I feel like when a girl posts a selfie or something online and she gets “gross” comments from guys she feels upset by it, but I personally love it and take it as a compliment! But I usually have to pretend I don’t love older guys who are shamelessly attracted to me around most of my friends 🥲

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u/Ok-Watercress9671 — 9 days ago

how attractive do you have to be to get hired?

every time i've seen any stripper they're beautiful, but i can't tell if i'm conventionally attractive enough to be one. I've auditioned at 1 club in MN before 2 years ago when I had a shit ton of piercings and dyed hair, they said no. but it could have been my lack of confidence while dancing too i've had decent success in other
forms of sex work but i really don't know/cant tell if I'm attractive enough to make a decent living.

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u/Ok-Watercress9671 — 10 days ago

How attractive do you have to be?

every time i’ve seen any stripper they’re beautiful, but i can’t tell if i’m conventionally attractive enough to be one. I’ve auditioned at 1 club in MN before 2 years ago when I had a shit ton of piercings and dyed hair, they said no. but it could have been my lack of confidence while dancing too 😭 i’ve had decent success in other forms of sex work but i really don’t know/cant tell if I’m attractive enough for it to be worth it to go out and audition and get new outfits etc.

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u/Ok-Watercress9671 — 10 days ago

client didn’t pay at all

we settled on an hour as we have in the past he didn’t end up staying the full hour last time but still paid me in full for the time we did spend together. this time he only stayed for 25 minutes but action was still involved he said he wasn’t comfortable with paying and left but i just asked him for partial payment is this reasonable?

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u/Ok-Watercress9671 — 2 months ago