u/Any-Astronauts

i had a domme once who was working on reprogramming to be more accepting of findom and to go deeper into it. she was using classical conditioning to only allow me to watch porn while im sending to her so that id associate sending with sexual pleasure. it really worked on me because now i cant even watch porn without feeling the urge to send even tho shes not my domme anymore. i feel guilty to even watch porn now if im not sending too

one of my fave things about being in a dynamic (which im not in one currently) is having an open and transparent dynamic with a domme. it hits home hardest on financial issues like my income, expenses, savings, investments, etc. it feels really good for a domme to know this sensitive info about me and have control over it. its one of the things i miss the most

she is someone who can use psychology and findom to help me overcome or cope with the lonliness of having no gf or physical intimacy. some who can reprogram or recondition me. even manipulate, brainwash or hypnotize me if shes good at that. someone who can break a sub down and take control

are there any dommes who specialize in the psychological aspects of findom like reconditioning, reprogramming, control, manipulation even, or even hypno? those are the type of dommes ive connected with the most

do you have any biggest recurring fantasies that keep coming back to you? maybe that you've dabbled in or never had the chance to try? for me its TPE. i always think of it and keep coming back to it even when im on break or trying to quit. ive never had a chance to actually try it but i can never stop thinking of it