Just wanted to send a shoutout and huge appreciation for hairy women.
The ones that keep it natural.
Wether it is the pits, the legs, the bush, something else ... i think it's VERY feminine and powerful.
You are seen. And very much appreciated 🫶
I’m a loser paypig fincuck officially. I have no usefulness outside of paying. I will most likely never have sex, so I devote myself to being a paypig
Im finding it hard to be a faceless domme because all the subs I talk to think im not who I claim to be. I send them videos of my day and what im doing in the moment with me talking, and it still isn’t enough. what do i do? or any help is wanted
My Throne is packed with all kinds of things clothes, purses, shoes, makeup, and little things I want but somehow my most purchased category is always my cash gifts/tips or drink funds. So now I’m curious what do you actually prefer most? Picking out items from my wishlist, or sending cash gifts because it’s easier and more direct? Which one turns you on more when you spoil?
I work as an accountant. What about you guys? I'd love to hear what everyone does for work. Subs and dommes
this is not an add, its genuine question. do other paypigs also have this hard time finding a domme, ive talked to few but all were far away from my type or our ideal dynamics didnt match
Dommes do you like “hunting” subs or do you prefer when a sub approaches you first on their own? Does hunting a sub give you an excitement or thrill? Does hunting subs only happen when there’s a shortage of subs or when you desire more?
Viceversa,
Subs do you like it when a Domme messages you first or “hunts” you? Does it make you nervous? Do you prefer to approach on your own when you’re ready or does a Domme “hunting” you make it easier to engage with them if you’re always too shy/nervous to approach them first?
This isn’t a rant letter, it’s not targeted one way or another. it’s to any switch or anyone that leans dom in this ”community”
Subs generally speaking do not like having their lives ruined because they sent a dom thousands of dollars in a week when they were horny.
When male subs get horny, it often makes us more mushy, more easy to convince to do stupid shit. it’s why you see so many dumbass political sex scandals. As my dad said, dick makes you stupid.
Now, OBVIOUSLY subs need to be able to say no to doms trying to literally drain every penny. This is less stop being an asshole and more about expectations.
Because most subs dont want to actively ruin their lives most subs aren’t gonna dump thousands on you a week. my current goddess takes about 12000 in mandatory spending a year. That’s “only” 230 dollars per week. Then theres punishment sends and when I want her to feel better after a long previous day so I get her coffee.
I find a lot of doms are doing the stereotypical spoiled dating girl routine of “man has to make xyz to have access to me” and xyz is some absurd amount.
im not saying paying auto buys access, but I don’t think (unless agreed upon prior obviously) that it should fully freeze subs out. A LOT of yall are small time and aint chatting with like 5-10 truly long term subs that aren’t going to delete their accounts after nutting in 4 hours. Be real (if you are then you go girl, you’re Ina different rule set).
I think the way each dynamic SHOULD start is “here’s what I make a year approximately, here’s what I want out of this, can I afford it?”
Anyways, in a nutshell, most subs are average people, average people can’t afford a gazillion dollar send a lot.
This all being said, I’m EXCEEDINGLY excited to be drained by her Monday🥰. Drainings are hotter when someone’s life isn’t being actually fucked.
“Hi” I am Randy. Where do i send my pictures to ?
lil losers haven’t even given away half ur paycheck yet to a hot dom?!! confess in the comments, punishments in my dms.
I’ve just had a message from my sub that he can’t serve me anymore given some circumstances with his mum? I didn’t pry as it’s not my place, I just gave him comfort during this difficult time:
The one thing that makes me sad is having to let subs go, especially when they state they want a long term dynamic.. I do care about those who serve me 🥹
He said he’d pay off my credit card.. but he hasn’t, I don’t hold grudges but I’m just finding it hard to trust anyone 🥰
Dommes, What are your favorite tasks you have your subs do?
I think this is something I’ve always possibly known in the back of my head but I’ve just connected the dots. As much as kink shaming is “not acceptable” behaviour, the energy of it comes through in most degradation in healthy ways. The way it triggers my sub space when someone is surprised at the fact that I’m into a certain kink or fetish…
*Omg that’s so nasty! I never would have expected that from you*
Like it’s not inherently shaming me, but the idea that something is so filthy that it shocks people I think are loosely tied. The concept that I (or the way I present myself in vanilla life) shouldn’t be into something just SENDS me into it more.
Probably not the best articulation of that thought pattern but yeah
I miss morning dommes or very late night dommes.
It's always a pity to have no one online for some fun when we wake up.
Happy saturday by the way <3
ASSEMBLE!
Good morning to anyone waking up now orrrr hasn’t slept how was everyone’s Friday night and any Saturday plans? The weather is amazing here in the UK
Good morning everyone ! Woke up at 6am on day off😒 , pissed off , but thats mean more free time . So how is everyone doing . Any exciting plans for weekend ?