r/paypigs2

Feels like this whole page is run and policed by the same three dommes and one sub masquerading as a domme.

I get they have been here longer than most, but they are fucking annoying. Some posts are informative and great, but a lot of just them commenting under everyone’s shit either telling them they are domming wrong or how to do it better blah blah blah they give off an air of entitlement that not fond of.

If someone is asking for advice or help sure throw em a bone- but damn can’t yall just let people do their own thing without getting into EVERYONES’S business?

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I’ve been getting a lot of messages from dommes and subs alike THANKING me for having the balls to say something. Clearly I’m not the only one sooooooo think on that one for me.

I’m mostly seeing hetero relationship talks in here but what are your experiences with the same sex?

Often times this community feels like a wasteland.

Domme’s angry at a lack of subs, subs angry about being used as ATMs, Gremlin throwing shade at everyone, and some sub who has me blocked for no reason (honestly what did I do?)

But there is success to be found amongst the burned out cars and deserted buildings

I found one here that truly gave me a magical experience. A REAL Domme, not a Tik Tok or half assed “send pig” Domme.

One that made me grow as a sub, one that made every penny of sending feel good, one that provides an actual D/s experience

So don’t fret, the good one’s do exist here, and when you find one, protect her. Because they have feelings too.

Keep searching my sub friends, it’s worth it in the end.

But I’m struggling to find things that I’d actually enjoy or find useful. I guess because of my age (31) and where I’m at in life, I no longer feel the need to overconsume.

What are some items you have on your list that you find useful and that are worth it? Give me some ideas!

I get that people in this space (findom reddit, not just this subreddit) either love or hate me. That's why I'm no longer surprised when every single post and comment I make immediately get hit with a downvote.

But yesterday I made a post in a different subreddit about my mental health. A few people responded positively, being very supportive. And every single person got downvoted.

Why is it that if you hate one person suddenly you feel the need to downvote anyone who's being nice to them? Do y'all not have something better to do with your life?

One of my followers I assume is the person who downvotes everything I say within seconds of posting because it happens even if I post to my own page.

So I'm assuming you're reading this. Get a fucking life. If you hate me, hate me. But if it brings you joy to downvote people who just... exist in my proximity? You need therapy and to touch grass.

I love when I notice I’ve got a sub lurking Me and My profile.

But for those who do lurk, what more are you looking out for? Are you just waiting to approach, or hoping to get noticed and be hunted so I’ve heard? What usually triggers you while lurking to finally make your approach?

What’s the most funniest dm a sub has sent you and how did you respond?

I remember having such a terrible day a couple days ago and I had a request from someone stating: “Hey goddess , rate my asshole 🤤” nearly ended it x

Bla bla subs are bad this

Bla bla baby Dom's that

Blah...blah....blahhhh.

Who has ACTUAL questions? Who wants ACTUAL advice from others. What's a question YOU as a sub/Dom have that you genuinely want answers for?!

I'll start- how many submissives and Dom's consume cottage cheese?! Do you feel like consuming cottage cheese makes you a better sub/Dom?!

Dommes: What is your dream to be able to achieve for findomme? Like something you hope will happen one day.

Subs: What is your dream send?

My dream is one day for a sub to give me enough money to buy my dream dog just because they feel like it out of nowhere.

By this, I mean the games where you have to pay a an amount per comment and like. As a sub, I just don’t see the appeal at all. It feels impersonal and pointless. I had a domme that talked me into doing one once and it just felt meaningless. I love sending in the right circumstances and with the right person but not because some random people keep commenting “ruin him”, “drain him”, “make him pay” 🙄.

So, please explain the attraction. It clearly appeals to many of you.

Every once in awhile I come across this kind of finsub. The overachiever, the striving to get a better job, bigger raise sub. All to impress their Domme, not to make more money for themselves. There is something so hot about being successful on the outside and then being depraved and broke just for me. I feel like it's on the same vibe as how I fucking love tall/big men that sub for me. Like climbing a mountain.

Since there has been a fresh restock of new Dommes and subs in the group recently (and some old familiar faces but just rebranded under new names) I feel that something should be addressed when searching for a new partner.

Do not trust only what you see publicly in comments.

This is an echo chamber. People just agree if they see a conversation going a certain way. They fear conflict and also are trying to get engagement.

There can be a post about the hazards of findom and how some subs mental health can be a struggle because of it.

Ten Dommes in the comments: "oh my goodness yes I always take care of my subs, etc".

"Oh yes there are such bad Dommes! We hate those Dommes. I'm not like them" etc etc.

But a quick trip to their profile is a different story.

"I love fucking with my subs heads and making them think I'm in love with them. Haha. But I just use them up and throw them away." Etc etc

Now one could say their profile posts are advertising.

And trying to appeal to subs seeking a more manipulative dynamic.

Or they aren't? You don't know which story is real and which is performative. Only they do.

Tldr: don't believe everything you read. Much of what is here is fantasy word salad vomit. But do know the echo chamber effect is real.

People are sometimes going to say whatever is popular today.

Reading some posts and comments, it seems like findom is a unhealthy coping mechanism. I’ll literally see people say “I’m depressed and want to self destruct” or “my life sucks I have a whatever the word for the Greek horn that stores fruits in Percy Jackson of mental health troubles going on” let me engage in findom. Then we have people encouraging both sides to push through while they state that findom is screwing with their mental health

Currently in the top %13 ..... praying to be in the top %10 by 2027!! wbu dommes I wanna knowwwwww

Thinking about hopping back on console gaming since I’ve finally adjusted to my new job schedule. I really enjoy playing Fortnite & I can say I’m fairly good at it (no build). Anyone want to get carried? 🤭

Personally I am not blocking subs who don’t have money. They can serve me in other ways, but for some reason some of them lose interest. Babes, if you don’t contribute financially, you can’t expect a full deal, you know?

A dominatrix messaged me on Twitter, even though she's currently financially stable. I couldn't resist her coffee craving. Oh, how I love it.

They always got me wet. I just love the idea that they are legally binding debt contracts. You set them up as a Domme in terms of buying something with your sub's klarna account and he has to pay it off for 6,12,24,36 months. I'm still able to resist but I guess that's only a matter of time.

Sometimes I meet a sub who isn’t a great fit for me (I’m kinda picky) but based on posts/comments I’ve seen around the subreddits, a Domme comes into mind who may be a better fit. But I’m not sure how other Dommes feel about this, especially if we’ve never spoken. Also the sub could end up just being a time waster too. Personally I’d love this but I wanna know how everyone feels, I’d love to help out fellow Dommes in the future.

Good morning freaky folk. What are today’s plans.