u/arty-i

I’m curious how you Dommes actually educate your subs who is new in Findom.
What kind of information do you give them at the beginning?
Do you share specific videos (if yes can you share them?), and if so which ones work best?
Also — has anyone here successfully moved a sub from BDSM/femdom into Findom?
What techniques or approaches helped? Would love to hear your experiences and any tips.

I used to feel really ashamed of my English. It’s not my first language and I always worried I couldn’t sound fluent enough, like I’d never be perfect at it even though I love the language.
Then I got into a dynamic and my submissive started giving me feedback — they actually liked my accent. A lot. That hit me in the best way. Suddenly the thing I was hiding gave me energy and made me feel more sure of myself.
So yeah… sometimes the stuff we’re most worried about ends up being someone else’s kink.
I fuking loooove that 🚀