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For context, my girlfriend has started wearing very revealing outfits to the club without me and I’ve honestly been very turned on by it. She doesn’t know this of course and the thing is she has a very low libido so we do not have sex much and are not very freaky. I like the idea of another guy or guys crushing over her but I have no idea how to bring it up as I’m scared it’ll change the dynamic between us or I’ll get shut down completely. Do I just leave this as a fantasy since I am almost sure she won’t agree?

My gf wants to go clubbing this weekend and recently bought an outfit to wear. She sent me a selfie of it and said how I liked it, and I said it was great but it might be a bit too revealing for going out in public. She got angry at me calling me a an insecure little man (which was hurtful since she knows i’m really insecure about being 5’4) and she said i’m being a mysoginistic control freak if i try to stop her.

I love my gf and don’t want her to leave me so i apologized profusely and didn’t argue any more. I just want some justification if I’m being insecure or controlling.