u/Apeksh_a

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I’m curious to hear people’s honest opinions on this, especially from those who are married or seriously looking to get married.

When choosing a life partner, how much importance do you personally place on virginity and past sexual experience/body count?

For example:

Would you specifically prefer a virgin partner?

If someone isn’t a virgin, does their past matter to you? If so, how much?

Is there a particular body count that would make you reconsider marriage?

Do you think a person’s past should be judged differently depending on whether it was casual sex, a previous serious relationship, or something else?

Would you care more about their past, or about who they are and how they view relationships now?

Would you expect your partner to disclose their sexual history before marriage?

I’m not looking to shame anyone or argue that one answer is objectively right. I’m genuinely interested in how people draw the line between someone’s past and the person they are today.

For those already married: did your views on this change after marriage?

I’ve been curious about ethical non-monogamy (ENM) lately and would love to hear from people who have actually experienced it.

What made you interested in ENM, and what has your experience been like? Did it improve your relationship, create unexpected challenges, or a bit of both?

I’m especially interested in knowing about communication, boundaries, jealousy, trust, and what you wish you had known before getting into it.

No judgment either way—just genuinely curious for honest perspectives and experiences!

I have an upcoming trip soon, and I'm thinking of picking up a couple of new lingerie sets for it.

I'd love to hear what styles everyone here finds the most attractive or confidence-boosting. Lace, satin, mesh, bodysuits, balconettes, matching sets, teddies... there are so many options that it's hard to pick just a few.

If you had to recommend a few styles or colors that you think always look great, what would they be? Feel free to share your favorites or even specific brands if you have any.

Curious to see what everyone's go-to picks are!

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So, I've been exploring this side of Reddit for a while now, and I have to admit it's been pretty overwhelming—in a good way. As someone who's still fairly new to the kink community, I've come across things I genuinely thought only happened in porn. It's definitely opened my eyes.

I've been lurking for a bit, but figured it was finally time to make a post. Happy to do an AMA or just chat and connect with like-minded people. I'm not looking to sext—just good old-fashioned conversations and getting to know people.

Hope everyone's having a great day and enjoying their time here.

!lock

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So, I've been exploring this side of Reddit for a while now, and I have to admit it's been pretty overwhelming—in a good way. As someone who's still fairly new to the kink community, I've come across things I genuinely thought only happened in porn. It's definitely opened my eyes.

I've been lurking for a bit, but figured it was finally time to make a post. Happy to do an AMA or just chat and connect with like-minded people. I'm not looking to sext—just good old-fashioned conversations and getting to know people.

Hope everyone's having a great night and enjoying their time here.

!lock

So, I've been exploring this side of Reddit for a while now, and I have to admit it's been pretty overwhelming—in a good way. As someone who's still fairly new to the kink community, I've come across things I genuinely thought only happened in porn. It's definitely opened my eyes.

I've been lurking for a bit, but figured it was finally time to make a post. Happy to do an AMA or just chat and connect with like-minded people. I'm not looking to sext—just good old-fashioned conversations and getting to know people.

Hope everyone's having a great night and enjoying their time here.

!lock

So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post to AMA or just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here.

!lock

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So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being very new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post to AMA or just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here.

!lock

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So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being very new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post to AMA or just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here.

!lock

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Hey, I have been seeing alot of posts of guys seeking for a conversation or asking basic questions about girl's perspectives!

If you’ve ever wanted to ask questions or just have a casual, respectful conversation about girls’ lives, perspectives on relationships, or thoughts around intimacy, feel free to DM me.

I’ll do my best to share openly from my own perspective and keep the exchange fun, thoughtful, and easygoing.

A few quick notes:

- Please keep it polite and respectful

- Not here for hookups or explicit stuff

- Genuine and curious chats only

So yeah, I’m around — feel free to reach out.

!lock

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Hey, I have been seeing alot of posts of guys seeking for a conversation or asking basic questions about girl's perspectives!

If you’ve ever wanted to ask questions or just have a casual, respectful conversation about girls’ lives, perspectives on relationships, or thoughts around intimacy, feel free to DM me.

I’ll do my best to share openly from my own perspective and keep the exchange fun, thoughtful, and easygoing.

A few quick notes:

- Please keep it polite and respectful

- Not here for hookups or explicit stuff

- Genuine and curious chats only

So yeah, I’m around — feel free to reach out.

!lock

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So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being very new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post to AMA or just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here. 

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!lock

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So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being very new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post to AMA or just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here. 

!lock

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So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being very new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post to AMA or just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here. 

!lock

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So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being very new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post to AMA or just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here. 

!lock

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So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being very new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post to AMA or just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here. 

!lock

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So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being very new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post to AMA or just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here. 

!lock

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So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being very new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post to AMA or just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here. 

!lock