So basically I get pleasure from clit stimulation and all my life I have used that method for self pleasure now I have seen in porn there's inserting fingers inside and rubbing the g spot and that gives pleasure but I personally don't feel pleasurable with that in out movt of fingering. I mean I feel sensitive yes but like it leads to nowhere, is it just me?
There’s this huge narrative online (mostly from porn, let’s be real) that if a girl squirts, it means she just had the ultimate, mind-blowing orgasm. But I’ve been reading a bit lately and it seems like the reality might be totally different.
I'm curious about the actual mechanics and the feeling behind it. If it happens, does it always mean you climaxed? Or can a girl squirt just from high arousal/specific stimulation without actually hitting the finish line?
I want to hear your real-world perspectives on this because there’s so much misinformation out there. For those who do, does it feel the same as a normal climax, or is it a completely different sensation? Let's clear this up lol because the internet makes it sound like a myth or a requirement, and I want to know the truth.
I have never been with someone that young and their bodies attract me like crazy. Just wanna know what the crowd thinks.
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Had been talking to a girl for few months on and off. Wasn't the type i usually go for but I was in a low period and we eventually decided to hook up after a couple dates.
Booked a decent hotel, showed up on time. My first annoyance was she didn't made me wait for an hour and it annoyed me. Then she proceeds to drink and smoke up immediately gets stoned, note all this time there has been nothing happening between us just sitting and not even talking.
This is where it starts going downhill fast. She puts on TV, puts news on in a language she cannot understand and starts laughing. Full blown manic laugh the scary kind. Mind you by this time I have tried initiating a few times and turned down so I didn't anymore and waited for her to initiate.
She eventually does by way of jumping between my legs and blow me. Now it's obviously something i enjoy but boy oh boy, this girl is blowing less and biting my dick more. I don't mean the cute lil nibble women do, I am talking proper bites. I damn near kicked her head off. Sigh.
Now hear me out, I like a lil bush like any man. But God damn she had amazon rainforest down there, I had zero intention to do anything at that point. But she somehow took my hand and stuck it between her thighs and pretty much crushed my hand as she got off.
I could not get out of there sooner, i literally made an excuse of some urgent work and said I need to go. The annoyance was visible on my face. This girl had the audacity to text me later she had fun. I responded, at least one of us did.
Sigh had to get that out a while.
What’s something sexual people in India secretly think/do but would never openly admit….. may ne because of taboo/judgements etc.
I never imagined I would ask this question but this issue has lead to some awkward moments. Some women have a problem if it's too accessible like on the side table, some mind when I pull out from the almirah (from an open packet), they are more suspicious when I carry it in the wallet / jeans. When I ask if they a condom, the answer is obviously no except in one instance.
All this is happening mid-sex or halfway in the makeout session. Then you sit there trying to justify yourself and not ruin the mood.
So the question is what's the right etiquette here? Do I buy
small boxes and open a new box every time?? Or blinkit a new box everytime I have someone new?
As someone who's 6'3 and 114kgs, I'm a big guy by indian standards, and when it comes to dating off the apps I usually go for women proportional to my height and weight, Indian and women of other races(I live abroad). Mind you I do like women with some weight on them (i.e thicc women)
I've been going over the gentle femdom subs over the past few days and the idea of a smaller woman burying me between her thighs as and when she pleases and girls being slightly more dominant seems soo much hotter. As someone who usually plays for the other team, I'm kinda baffled by these thoughts. Especially as someone lower on the self esteem front, them validating you seems both hot and lovely.
How common is gentle femdom amongst us indians? Given my height and weight, how much of a challenge is it?
Maybe once I lose some weight, it might be someone thicker taking that role ig
Hey everyone! I've tried using vibrators and they simply don't do enough.
There's literally little to no simulation due to vibration. Only the to n fro motion helps me cum.
Is it kinda normal or weird ?
I'm just confused at this point
so me(20M) and my girlfriend (21F) have been together for a year now and we haven't done it yet...
to be honest we dont really get much chances to do it, since we both live in hostels and the wardens here are pretty strict, even holding hands is a luxury....
going outside is also v rare for us because her father is v strict, you can imagine we went outside like 3 times in this whole year and for that too she had to beg for permission (obviously she had to lie for going out)....
also she's pretty scared of 2 things, first her parents knowing it and second the "pain" she thinks she will have to endure during sex....
earlier (during first month of talking stage) she told me that she'll do this stuff only after marriage since she cant trust anyone to stay that long which was (and is still) right in my opinion aswell so i told her , yeah you good to go!
now she's a year senior to me, she will leave the clg in lile 2 years and i will take 3 years... after that she will go to some clg for pg and I will go somehwere for my pg and the chances r very slim that we will go in same clg (there are lot of branches in pg so yeah)...
now i personally think that having sex strengthens your bond as a couple and is v much required for a relationship to succeed ... and i have discussed this w her aswell but acc to her she's not the regular girl and her attachment wont diminish even if we go long distance for 4 years (which is the estimated time if we dont go in same pg clg).... i dont trust her on this to be v honest, tho i trust her the most in this world rn but still, people change, situations change....
what do you think? how imp is sex for a healthy relationship? and can someone sustain long distance for around 4 years after being together for like 3-4 years????
I heard multiple male have issue with testosterone. How you know how to increase? Have you tried
I and my boyfriend love each other very much. We have talked and decided to have full sex and twice we have tried without success. When kiss and touch and like, his penis gets really hard. But when he tries to put on the condom, it gets soft right away and he cannot go in. It is very frustrating.
Indian escort service is full of scammers. No one is genuine here. And if they are, they are victims of human trafficking which goes against my morals. US has genuine escort sites like Tryst, Preferred411 etc, Germany has the biggest brothel in Europe and all the SW have proper background check. They have union, pay taxes like a job. They have health check up too. Same with Netherlands. Same with Australia. Then why not India? Where do I go if I want sex? I am not that rich enough to go to Thailand, Dubai just for 15min sex. Dating apps dont work either and masturbation is inadequate
So asking this for a friend who's naturally sub.. but just outta little sexual talk her bf has expressed his desire to act as dom if she's comfortable. She too wants to do it for his pleasure but doesn't know how to switch roles.. for starters I've told her visuals do a lot of tricks.. so I asked her to get herself a dominatrix costume and stuffs(also suggestions for website to get these are welcome).
Suggestions from the sub are so needed so that the act doesn't feel fake. Thanks from me & her in advance.
Hey guys, help your bro out,
I'm gonna have my first sex this weekend. We have been intimate with each other till oral only and we are finally going to do it this weekend. It's her first time also so we're both excited.
What are somethings that i should take care of? Also please suggest what's the best condom to use for best experience?
Honestly this problem has frustrated me too much now, I am losing my self confidence and everything.
I M21 and my girlfriend F19 started dating about 2 months ago and everything except for the sex part is great. I've been masturbating quite regularly since I was like 9 so I know I've fucked up on that part big time and I believe that's the root of all my problems. I've been trying for YEARS to give up but this habit has never left me no matter what I do.
I have PE, I tried kegels, nofap (I relapse everytime), using a fleshlight, edging before masturbating, even delay condoms but nothing seems to work. This is killing my confidence when it comes to having sex. I'm a well above average looking guy (not trying to sound full of myself) and the girlfriend is significantly hotter than I am and it's a relatively new relationship which means we're still not at that stage where I can comfortably discuss this with her, I don't know if I ever will be able to do that it's too embarassing for me.
Something I've noticed is that when she's blowing me I can control myself, I can last significantly longer and if I want to stop I can stop, I can pull her off and ask for a moment - basically it's possible to pull out and take full pleasure of the moment. But the moment I proceed with actual penetration, I finish in like 20 seconds. It might be the tightness of the vagina or maybe how my muscles are engaged during sex idk but in several thrusts I'm done and even if I want to stop I can't, I can't pull out and take a moment I just find myself going faster and finishing. I have developed some elaborate lie that I tell her after stopping saying that I just get turned off for some reason. I know I shouldn't do that I know it's fucked up, I don't want judgement on that I'm sorry.
I've posted about this a few times before aswell and everyone just tells me that it's in the mind it's the pressure you've built in your head and I get that. But none of that shit ever helps, my dick is just wired in a way where it cums asap when stimulated. Idk what the difference between a blowjob and real penetration is but they seem to work differently.
Now I need long term and short term solutions, firstly I'm thinking of hoping onto delay sprays or viagra. Again I know everyone is going to tell me that I'm only 21 and I shouldn't do that but I want to try once, just so I can actually have sex properly for once and maybe get some confidence in me. Can anyone tell me how to get viagra from a chemist? And if delay sprays even work or whatever. Long term I know I have to stop fapping BUT HOW. IT NEVER WORKS. I get to fucking day 20 and I somehow relapse everytime istg I've been trying to give up since I was like 15 and it DOES NOT WORK. Maybe my willpower or something isn't as strong idk.
Please help man.
Seeing women during ovulation and hormonal is a experience in it's own wonder how you monkey brains are so much better at self regulation
Hi. Medically circumcised guy here.
To other guys who got medically circumcised,
How did you guys inform your partners about it?
Like did you tell beforehand or did you surprise them when you had sex for the first time?
Hi folks,
I (26M) and my gf (26F) we are in a long distance relationship and when we engage in sex, I lose boner midway during Sex. I find it quite irritating because of this. Also, she now thinks like I'm not finding her hot enough that's why I'm losing the boner.
This happens not every time but it happens and I'm worried about this. Last week also this happened when she came to my place to stay. We had multiple sessions. But during the last session when it was time for her to go. I lost boner. I was so angry with myself that I couldn't make her feel so good before leaving.
When I say, I need to visit a doctor, she gets annoyed and says you are perfectly fine, no need to visit a doctor for this.
Please advice
My teenage nephew got caught trying to access porn. Now i being a nice uncle kept it to myself but i know its only a matter of time before my son does the same and i have no idea how to handle it. Wanted to learn from the wisdom of the crowd what to do/ not to do