r/IndiaTalksSex

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Hey folks, I’m getting a stapler circumcision done tomorrow. For those who’ve had it done what precautions or aftercare should I follow?

I’ve had mild phimosis and also struggled with a very strong smell from the penis. I tried stretching and cleaning it every day but unfortunately, it didn’t help much.

Would really appreciate any advice on what to expect and what I should avoid after the procedure.

24 M I just wanna say this to someone. I have not told this to anyone in this world yet... made up and went a saw a psychatrist 3 weeks ago and i am feeling so relieved, feeling like i am getting the joy back.

So from few weeks i have been observing that i was not getting proper sleep. I am able to fall asleep but i wake up in the midnight and not able to go back to sleep. This was how it started. Soon i am feeling sleepy whole day not able to go to the gym.. i started loosing interest in the things that made me enjoy life.

And soon enough I started obseving a kind of a fog inside my brain. I stopped getting morning wood. My libido dropped there is no interest in anything.

I went to the endocrinologist to check out regarding the hormones, My testosterone was good had a Vitamin deficiency and elevated prolactin.

The endo suggested me to do a pooled prolactin serum and gave the vitamin d suppliment for 4 weeks and suggested me to see a Psychatrist..

Took all my courage went to a Psych. Told all the stuffs what ever i was facing. Did a MRI brain.
A day later concluded i was in severe stress and anxiety that led to my elevated prolactin, mood, low libido and stuff,

I was prescribed low dose of non ssri's (not saying the name here) for 2 weeks. I am feeling so good now. My pooled prolactin came low, vitamin d improved , even testo improved as well.

I can feel so much joy now than the depressed me a month ago. I can see colors again........ energetic to go to the gym. I am feeling like i am getting my libido getting improved day after day....

The decision to go up and see an Endo made me feel so much good, both the Doc's were superbbbbbb......

Genuinely want to know hence posting, I've had 3 partners, and I never understand when she orgasms? Idk I even doubt that everyone just faked and I've never had anyone orgasm.... My first girlfriend's thighs used to genuinely vibrate and ig that was orgasm? But not the case with my current girlfriend... I genuinely want to give her orgasms but I feel like she's just pretending when she says she got one... Feels awkward to talk more about it with her hence want to hear from the girls here

I never really felt anything when I touch my nipples. They may become erect but doesn't really feel good. I have heard that people become really wet or straight up orgasm with nipple play???

So is it possible to increase the sensitivity? I don't have a partner. I have tried being rough with them, giving them flicks and pulling hard. I don't recommend it though, as one of them started to bleed (lightly) after a few flicks. (It is healed completely now).

Tired of posts being removed for being low effort? This thread is for you! If your query belongs to (but not limited to) any of the below topics, it belongs here:

Opinion seeking

• Posts that can be answered with a yes or no
• Validation posts (on genitals size, boob size, etc.
• Posts that are merely seeking people’s preferences (like ‘do men like big boobs’)
• FAQ (questions on phimosis, sex toys, condom suggestions, pregnancy scares, cuckoldry etc)

Important :

• Experience-sharing posts belong on the Weekly Sexual Experience thread.
• Discussions should only belong to sex, no chit chat.

For me it’s hot lingerie or either outfits
So much turn on

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I’m curious to hear people’s honest opinions on this, especially from those who are married or seriously looking to get married.

When choosing a life partner, how much importance do you personally place on virginity and past sexual experience/body count?

For example:

Would you specifically prefer a virgin partner?

If someone isn’t a virgin, does their past matter to you? If so, how much?

Is there a particular body count that would make you reconsider marriage?

Do you think a person’s past should be judged differently depending on whether it was casual sex, a previous serious relationship, or something else?

Would you care more about their past, or about who they are and how they view relationships now?

Would you expect your partner to disclose their sexual history before marriage?

I’m not looking to shame anyone or argue that one answer is objectively right. I’m genuinely interested in how people draw the line between someone’s past and the person they are today.

For those already married: did your views on this change after marriage?

Out of the box, i’d like to know what does Indian Men and Women think about what the title says. And how many people have been on the either side and how you felt after that?

I want to know how to do that cumshot that people do in porn that .....picchikkk 🔫💦 shooting ...and cum goes flying....

When orgasming mine usually does the oozing out. And never that shooting...so i want to know how to do that.any tricks or anything i should know?

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My wife (31F) and I (33M) are landing in Bangalore Airport soon and want to make the cab ride home memorable. Plan: book an Uber/Ola for after midnight, she wears a front-opening outfit, I undo it in the backseat, she stays exposed with it draped open like a jacket. Driver can see everything in the rear view.

Current plan:

Tell the driver in person once we meet him.

Offer ₹1,000 extra on top of fare.

If he's not cool with it, we abandon the plan.

Questions:

How do I phrase this without sounding like soliciting him? I want concent not his participation.

Specific or vague? ("We'll be intimate" vs "She'll be naked where you can see")

Is ₹1,000 fair for Bangalore, or should I go higher?

What are immediate "nope" signals from a driver that mean we should just wait until home?

Drivers or couples who've done this - how did you handle the conversation?

So I went over to my friend's place a few months back we did makeout earlier. But I was a virgin and wanted to do it with a guy I will be in a serious relationship with. So we were making out and I'm getting treatment for depression anxiety so I maybe don't respond well. While he was above me he put his penis inside without asking and I went numb I didn't say anything and he was telling me to spread and take it deeper. I didn't say a word and just followed what he said. Even dumb thing I was like okay I lost my virginity it can't be reversed now. And went on to let him fuck me. I didn't even orgasm he didn't even ask if did . After that he said stupid shit like u never thought a girl with attitude will lose a virginity to a guy u met in gym . He was laughing then said I have cams I was recording u . He was kidding but I felt so sick and came back home . And next day I went again to talk out what happened and he still forced me to just let him fuck me I didn't let him do that by telling him don't do it 5times and pushing him away. We had arguments and he manipulated me into thinking I did wrong by saying sex wasn't good I didn't orgasm and u r making me feel like I forced u or stuff. And said u shouldn't make such mistakes and hurt anyone or give them such trauma for life. I was convenced ki maybe I'm being hard on him. And I didn't stop him so its my fault And gave him another chance. Actually I had a relapse and self harm episode so my psychiatrist wanted someone to take guarantee of me that I won't commit suicide or do another self harm. My friends r in different cities so he was the last option and somehow things got good between us ik I'm dumb but he just convinces me and I always end but going silent I am left with no option but to agree. After Dr's appointment he said I want to spend quality time with u I took my meds he said take condoms I was like no I'm not taking it I'm not ready for sex. Then we cuddled kissed and he came above and asked me to spread I was like we don't have condoms too he still went it and I'm the dumb mf continued it. Ik I'm responsible but I just want to went it out . Plus people who think he was confused I have said I won't ever have sex with him a number of times

I'm 38M, married 5 years ago in an arranged marriage setup.

My tool size is just under 4 inches when erect, I want to ask others with experience that is it enough for female satisfaction? Wife once jokingly told it's small to which I asked with whom she is comparing to which she just laughed off. Another thing she jokingly said is that I couldn't do an@l s€x with her even after 3 years (time we're married).

I think she's comparing me with some ex boyfriend who had a long tool and had an@l s€x with her. These things are decreasing my confidence & I feel I am not a man enough even though I am healthy & well built I feel like I am handicapped due to my tool size.

but I wanted to know: is it normal for veins to become more visible during masturbation due to the penis becoming erect? My friend noticed a very prominent, hard-looking vein and was concerned about it getting weak This question is for my friend’s better understanding; I also have a screenshot of our conversation with regards to this

I recently started my first actual job at an office, where I am occupied from 9 AM to 7:30 PM this includes commute times, office hours and everything else.

By the time I reach flat to my girlfriend ( we live together), I feel super tired but somehow I manage to go to the gym with her; if I have missed it in the morning (which has become a usual occurrence) around 9:30 PM I come back and start cooking some food with her.

Then from around 10:30 PM till midnight I try to upskill myself by focusing on certain online courses and tasks.

My girlfriend is not working as of right now since she has some work experience. As a result, she has an entire day to herself, which she vehemently dedicates to upskilling herself, going out with her friends, etc. She is simultaneously also preparing her application and entrance for her master's abroad.

Regardless, she is pretty energetic and has a way higher libido than me at the end of the day. She keeps on instigating and suggesting for it.

I want to make love to her too but my body and my mind are not on the same page with respect to sex because of the fatigue.

Back when we were in college we used to have sex pretty much every day and were really happy with our dynamic. These days we do nothing on the weekends except sex which has started to affect my social life.

Mind you, we both used to go out on the weekends too when we were in college cafes, parks, museums (you name it) and I still want to do all those things with her but she just wants nothing but constant sex on the weekends. I even booked tickets for movies but she persistently refuses to do anything but fucking.

When I try to make plans with my boys on the weekends to chill, it leads to an argument; she eventually agrees, but only in vain. She starts saying things like “You don’t give me time these days, you are only free on the weekends and that too you want to spend it with the boys even if I don’t want to go out with them. My PlayStation has been collecting dust for a few weeks now since I have no time to play.

So for the people of this subReddit who have full-time jobs, how do you guys manage spare time for sex? Especially if you have a partner who wants it almost every day.

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I’ve been thinking about this lately and wanted to hear how other women deal with it.

Sometimes I miss physical intimacy quite a lot, not necessarily sex, but things like cuddling, being held, sleeping next to someone, feeling close to another person, etc. There are times when I feel like I’m craving that kind of closeness more than anything else.

I’ve tried figuring out ways to deal with it on my own, and while that helps to an extent, it obviously doesn’t replace the comfort of another person’s presence.

At the same time, I don’t necessarily want to be in a relationship (scary times) just to have that kind of intimacy. Casual arrangements don’t really appeal to me either, because I personally need some level of affection and comfort along with physical closeness.

So for women who have felt similarly, what has worked for you? Do you just learn to live with that feeling, find other ways of meeting that need, or have you found some sort of middle ground?

So me and my wife have been together for 5 years. She takes great care of me, and has been supporting us financially since I lost my job a few months ago. She's never complained once, not even when I'm having a bad day and take it out on her. I don't deserve her fr.

Okay so here's the situation. I have a fart fetish. It took me some time but when I finally confessed to her she laughed at first but said she was fine with it. I told her she could do it whenever she wanted, anytime, even in my face. She was surprised but didn't judge me and eventually said she will try it.
I told her she can be fully relaxed, described how I like each part of her etc.

It started gradually but fast forward to now, she farts on me any chance she gets.
She used to be so insecure about her body, wouldn't like to be seen naked without the lights off, apologized for every little sound her stomach made etc. But once we started doing this she completely transformed. She's confident now, walks around the apartment naked, lets it rip without a care in the world, often on me. Even our sex life has never been better.

But almost every day when she comes back from work tired she will lay on the couch and call me to put my head on her butt, and if i'm around she will put her butt in my face and fart casually. She said it makes her feel worshipped and like it's "our" thing and how we bond.
And most of the time I liked it. But sometimes especially when I'm in the middle of something or just not in the mood I find myself making excuses to be in the other room. It just gets annoying sometimes. She will also invite me randomly and want me to put my face there.

I was about to talk to her about it. I asked how much she likes doing it, and she said she loves it. She said it makes her feel worshipped and free, and that it's just "our thing." Then I asked her what if I wanted to stop doing it, she looked surprised by the question and she said if I ever stopped she would think something is wrong, that I don't find her attractive as much anymore and it would ruin everything. Then she said she doesn't think she could be happy with someone that doesn't sniff all her farts and that she is lucky that I'm willing.

How do I proceed with this? It's not that I hate it, I love her and I don't want to hurt her but I also feel like now I can't back out anymore without it being a whole thing and her being unhappy.

Used to get orgasm everytime during early days of relationship, but these days, not at all. I can't even remember, when she made me orgasm last time. Even avoiding mid to stop frustration, n move on to next. Don't know what's going with us, she making efforts, but still couldn't. Why so?

But I still make her orgasm everytime, sometimes multiple too.

I have tried few songs but wanna have suggestions from experienced people