r/IndiaTalksSex

There's a girl who followed me on ig a while back. I followed her back. We've talked briefly before twice times, regarding politics and other basic stuff. This Saturday she posted a fit check. I complemented her on that. Then it felt like she somehow she gained some sort of interest. Started asking me what I'm doing, if I sleep alone. We have never talked about stuff like that.

Then yesterday she replied to my story. I liked her response and let it be. Then she went on to ask if I can meet, like a date. Then we kept talking. She sent her number by herself without me asking for it. And then we switched to WhatsApp, conversation started flirty and then became sexual and it has been highly sexual since. We have decided to meet and fuck. It feels really good and freaky when I'm horny. But when I'm done I feel some level of self-loathing thinking about it and feel like I don't want to do it. I'm not sure if I like the person but just want to use her for my own desires. Maybe she's planning to use me for her own desires too.

The thing is I've been just out of an abusive relationship. It's been almost a month. So I'm not really sure about hooking up with this girl or not. I'm just repeating myself here I know. On one hand, it makes me really horny when we talk dirty but feels bad other times. Considering it's just been almost a month, I still have feelings for my ex.

Also another thing is I feel this is moving too fast. Like talking properly one day after getting asked out, then she sends the number herself and we end up sexting. How hyper sexual things are between me and this girl. I have a feeling this might be some sort of red flag. I'm not sure if I'm overthinking or not.

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F22 here, Okay so since a week ive been addicted to reddit, like for both sfw and nsfw purposes, so whenever im getting up in the morning i just am scrolling through porn and posts is it something bad or will it ruin my drive for other things?

Do males and females get urges about going down. Like the urge of eating her up or blowing him just for the pleasure of own self then the partner.

We've been living together for the past 2 months and we've got sexually intimate for the first time 2 months ago. Our sex life has been great, we do a lot of foreplay (almost everyday) and sex maybe twice in a week. But the issue is, she almost never lets me play with her breasts. Whenever I touch her there, she immediately folds and feels very ticklish, anywhere below and above that place is fine. She becomes very apprehensive saying she's scared that it might be painful while in reality she feels only ticklish. I've spoken to her, regarding her sexual activity when she was single, she mentioned she has never done anything by herself, not even fondled or played with her boobs by herself. How do I tackle this? I mean whatever I've got with her other than this is great! We have great sex, foreplay down there is good but the upper body is the only issue.

Please suggest how to counter this issue!

My wife and I are both 27 and have a great sex life. Every now and then she’ll wear thigh-high socks with lingerie, and I find it incredibly attractive. There’s just something about that look that really turns me on.
The thing is, I’d love if she wore thigh-high socks more often, even without the full lingerie set, but I feel awkward bringing it up. I’m worried she’ll think it’s a strange fetish or judge me for it.
For the women here, if your husband or boyfriend told you he found thigh-high socks really attractive and wanted you to wear them more often, how would you react? And for the guys, have you ever brought up a similar preference? How did the conversation go?

25M , active in gym and cardio . I recently matched up with a girl and let's say we have sex once in a week at her place . We do foreplay for sometime , she gives my BJ for 5 minutes then we proceed to fuck . By that time my penis is very sensitive , I put my condom and proceed to enter her and I can barely last 4-5 thrusts .

I'm circumcised and my tip is very sensitive. When I'm inside , I feel immense pleasure on my tip even with condoms and I cum within 30 seconds . Worst case I came once within 10 seconds and I couldn't even face her . Second round we have it within 30 minutes due to time constraints.

Sometimes I've done with for 5 minutes sometimes I don't cum at all . But let's say the average is 5 minutes . What am I doing wrong . I'm not anxious , my breathing is normal and we both are very much comfortable around each other . Then why is this happening . She's my first partner and we have sex like 20 times totally . Any help is appreciated. Btw I'm not bulky and I look lean and healthy lifestyle

High libido is messing me up in personal life as well. I never used to masturbate or anything but nowadays I do it 3-4 times a day. I don't know what to do. I only have an ex and from then I didn't want to have another partner. I stay away from such things.

Basically the title.

It’s been 3-4 months now I’m paying around 15-20k every month to satisfy myself but I want to stop this. (I had a fwb before that for almost 3 years)

I’m very frugal otherwise but this feeling of being horny always make me spend on this.

Whenever I’m horny i scroll nsfw reddit, i end up in the chats of sugar baby/prostitutes and invite them over.

Even tho i keep myself busy with work or gym i always find the time and place to do this.

Quick search says to go to therapist but i want to try to handle this some other way.

Need help!

What happens mostly with me is that many a times i finish quick within 3,4 min , which makes me kinda feel unsatisfied and then i go again and again 2,3 times ,finally after which my body is tired and i get that satisfaction, the issue with this is that i end up wasting a lot of time due to this, so i just wanted to know how do u stop after one

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I was watching this show called Masters of Sex and it had one of the, if not the most beautifully shot sex scenes I've ever seen on TV.

It got me thinking - are there any sources for good quality porn, that isn't unrealistic or abusive? Just two loving couple having happy sex, not for the camera?

I haven't had much experience in either case but I can still recall those moments with my ex when we used to get intimate 6 years ago but after that I sexted with many girls and tried to have sex but couldn't achieve that blank state of mind when you think of nothing but how hot and sexy your partner is and you're in that moment with her. I have not experienced it again cause I am single. Those who have experience of both casual sex and with their partner while being committed to them, which was/is better experience for you and why?

Have you got pegged by a girl? Did you enjoy it?

Me 20M and my gf 21F had unprotected sx on 27th June. We didn't use any ipill afterwards as we felt the risk would be low.

Her periods were expected to be coming on 5-6th july . But we are a bit tensed now.

What if the thing happens? What should I do?

We are in final yr of college.

I recently got married 6 months back. I was in a 2.5 year relationship with another person which ended like 4-5 months before my wedding and were so amazing, best sex, best chemistry, and amazing sex. We could have done the whole day if we would have wanted that kind of good sex. Now that I am married, I don’t get that urges anymore, not that my wife doesn’t like it or anything it’s just that I don’t feel like doing it. I am not sure it’s her or it’s me but I am just not able to want sex anymore. I was really a passionate person just a year back and I don’t know what happened. Guys please suggest what to do.

My bf and I had sex today and initially he was not wearing condom but a few min into the act he wore it and came inside the condom.

We did it again after 30 min and again ( after washing)in the start he wasn't wearing it and pulled out on time.

Should I take the pill to be on safe side or it's okay

I'm about to get my period soon tho it's irregular so can't really tell .

I am planning my marriage maybe within 1 year, I will be married. I have been virgin all the time and guess it will be like that until the marriage. How do I know will I be good in bed or will be able to satisfy or not. My worry is only because never had sex and will have only that day. As I going through lot of subs one thing I understood is that sex is very important in relationship with other things ofc. Also I don't have huge penis or grith if that makes anu difference. I just don't want to fall in that category who can't satisfy his wife...

So basically my girlfriend is asking me to go down on her but i am a little uncomfortable can someone give me some tips for it that would be really helpful. Thank you.

I am a beginner who has never been involved in any sexual activities yet, and I am looking to explore a bit by purchasing my first male stroker/massager.

​Because I am completely new to this, I have a few specific questions and would love some genuine advice from this community:

​Size & Girth: I want something that is guaranteed to fit comfortably regardless of length and girth. I’ve seen open-ended, highly elastic silicone/TPE manual strokers (like the Tenga Spinner style)—do these actually expand comfortably for everyone?

Electric vs. Non-Electric: For a complete beginner, should I start with a manual stroker where I control everything, or is a wrapped vibrating/electric massager better? What are the pros and cons for a first-timer?

​Indian Market & Budget: What are the best budget-friendly, high-quality brands easily available in India?

​Privacy: Where is the safest place online to buy these with 100% discreet packaging so nobody at home knows what’s inside?

​Please guide me on what type of toy and what type of lube I should pick up for a safe and good first experience. Thanks in advance!