u/Japan174

I'm 38M, married 5 years ago in an arranged marriage setup.

My tool size is just under 4 inches when erect, I want to ask others with experience that is it enough for female satisfaction? Wife once jokingly told it's small to which I asked with whom she is comparing to which she just laughed off. Another thing she jokingly said is that I couldn't do an@l s€x with her even after 3 years (time we're married).

I think she's comparing me with some ex boyfriend who had a long tool and had an@l s€x with her. These things are decreasing my confidence & I feel I am not a man enough even though I am healthy & well built I feel like I am handicapped due to my tool size.