[M33/F31] Exhibitionist cab scene from Bangalore airport after midnight - advice on driver communication
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My wife (31F) and I (33M) are landing in Bangalore Airport soon and want to make the cab ride home memorable. Plan: book an Uber/Ola for after midnight, she wears a front-opening outfit, I undo it in the backseat, she stays exposed with it draped open like a jacket. Driver can see everything in the rear view.
Current plan:
Tell the driver in person once we meet him.
Offer ₹1,000 extra on top of fare.
If he's not cool with it, we abandon the plan.
Questions:
How do I phrase this without sounding like soliciting him? I want concent not his participation.
Specific or vague? ("We'll be intimate" vs "She'll be naked where you can see")
Is ₹1,000 fair for Bangalore, or should I go higher?
What are immediate "nope" signals from a driver that mean we should just wait until home?
Drivers or couples who've done this - how did you handle the conversation?