How do people with full time jobs get time for sex? M22 F23
I recently started my first actual job at an office, where I am occupied from 9 AM to 7:30 PM this includes commute times, office hours and everything else.
By the time I reach flat to my girlfriend ( we live together), I feel super tired but somehow I manage to go to the gym with her; if I have missed it in the morning (which has become a usual occurrence) around 9:30 PM I come back and start cooking some food with her.
Then from around 10:30 PM till midnight I try to upskill myself by focusing on certain online courses and tasks.
My girlfriend is not working as of right now since she has some work experience. As a result, she has an entire day to herself, which she vehemently dedicates to upskilling herself, going out with her friends, etc. She is simultaneously also preparing her application and entrance for her master's abroad.
Regardless, she is pretty energetic and has a way higher libido than me at the end of the day. She keeps on instigating and suggesting for it.
I want to make love to her too but my body and my mind are not on the same page with respect to sex because of the fatigue.
Back when we were in college we used to have sex pretty much every day and were really happy with our dynamic. These days we do nothing on the weekends except sex which has started to affect my social life.
Mind you, we both used to go out on the weekends too when we were in college cafes, parks, museums (you name it) and I still want to do all those things with her but she just wants nothing but constant sex on the weekends. I even booked tickets for movies but she persistently refuses to do anything but fucking.
When I try to make plans with my boys on the weekends to chill, it leads to an argument; she eventually agrees, but only in vain. She starts saying things like “You don’t give me time these days, you are only free on the weekends and that too you want to spend it with the boys even if I don’t want to go out with them. My PlayStation has been collecting dust for a few weeks now since I have no time to play.
So for the people of this subReddit who have full-time jobs, how do you guys manage spare time for sex? Especially if you have a partner who wants it almost every day.