I (F34) with a brat tamer/mommy dom kink, think he (M24) would enjoy being my brat. How to breach the subject?
We drunkenly hooked up this weekend, and I'm in that awkward post-hookup phase I tend to find myself in when I want something more. For him to be my brat, specifically. While the sex itself was pretty vanilla - I wouldn't introduce kink before I had sober consent, of course - he said a lot of things indicating he might be at least interested in the aforementioned dynamic, but that might just be me misinterpreting a drunk 24-year-old's attempts to impress me by just yapping along.
I plan to invite him out tomorrow (so nervous he'll say no, I'm not made of stone, after all) - I want to make sure he knows it isn't an attempt at a romantic date, or that that the reason why I want to talk eye to eye isn't "bad" (like me having STDs or a jealous husband coming for him, or something).
This isn't really a restaurant or café conversation, is it, and taking him home might be a bit much, so I figured maybe just taking him for a short drive might be optimal. Stopping somewhere nice with no people and, idk, look at some nature? There, I want to lay it out very thoroughly and empathically, step by step in very simple terms at first. See how he reacts to everything. Stress that there is no wrong answer. I have the impression he's the type to answer with his whole body, he seemed very transparent to me, and this is something I like about him. Makes me feel certain that whatever he says, or however he reacts, that I can trust him.
I'm not new to kink, nor to this dynamic, but it always developed organically within already established romantic relationships. I've never met a guy, and decided this is what I wanted him for. The sole reason. I will, naturally, provide affectionate aftercare, and I will be doing everything I can to make it a healing/positive experience for him, but I don't need good night-texts or exclusivity, or knowing what he's up to when I'm not with him. I am very sure he wouldn't want that either.
Is there anything at all I should think about here, something it seems I don't consider? My approach, my thoughts? I want to do this right.