u/Aphriel

Progress with GF (Part 1/?)

Dunno really how to start this!

I guess hello, WB (M24) here with a white fiancée (F21). I'll start off with a few things I've discovered over the course of our relationship and some up to date info.

  • Her type was black guys before her previous partners.
  • I've introduced her to what "blacked" is and have had discussions about possibly doing something in that regard in the future.
  • I've bought her an ordinary blacked set in the past (boxers & sports bra) but they're a bit small so I've just ordered her two full sets, one of the anniversary red and one of the ordinary black. She has a disdain for the white one otherwise I'd have ordered all three.
  • I'm visiting her in a few days and the sets will be there a day or two after I arrive.
  • She's not very gung ho or at least not as much as I am about this kink and preference but she definitely knows I enjoy it because during intimate activities in the past, she's used black men as a crutch to "get me off".
  • I joked about a sex cruise being my wedding gift to her and she has mixed opinions about it but I also mentioned blacked's new two piece bikini + that and she said that she'd be fine in that instance. She said she's not sure about wearing it normally because she doesn't know how many people know what blacked is (she's not chronically online).

I don't really know what I expect to get out of this post but I thought I'd open a dialogue between community members and myself and maybe open the door for me to make future posts about how everything's going between us and if any progress is made.

Open to any thoughts/criticisms/advice!

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u/Aphriel — 9 days ago