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BlackRep no longer asks for your ID — you were right, we changed it

I posted about BlackRep and the comments were basically unanimous: the idea is fine, the ID upload is not. "Sketchy as fuck." "Great right up to the ID part, I'm out." "Site is DOA unless that changes."

Fair. It's changed.

You can now register without uploading anything. No ID, no document, no waiting for a human to look at your passport. Sign up, and you have the whole site — browsing, swiping, matching, messaging, all of it. Same for the video side.

What verification is now: an optional badge. If you choose to send an ID, you get a small ✓ next to your name everywhere on the site. That is the entire difference. It is not a permission, it's a signal — it tells whoever is looking at your profile that someone checked you're real. Plenty of people won't do it, and they get exactly the same site.

A few of you asked what happens to the document if you do send one. It gets deleted the moment it's approved. A human looks at it once, checks it matches what you typed, and the file is destroyed — all that's kept is a fingerprint, which is enough to spot the same document being used to verify two accounts and useless for anything else. Before that one viewing it sits in private storage, never a public link, never shown on your profile or to another member, and every time it's opened that gets logged. When it's approved your name, date of birth and location get frozen so the badge can't be gamed afterwards. And you can skip all of this at signup and decide later, once you've had a look around.

Also fixed, from the last thread: if your ID upload failed during signup, the account was already created and you couldn't start over — a couple of you hit that and gave up. That's fixed, uploads can't strand you any more, and the "file too large" error now actually tells you the limit and your file's size.

Still true, so you know before you sign up: 18+ only, date of birth is required and under-18s are refused. It's invite-only while it's in beta.

Codes: black men and white men → BLACK2026. White women → SNOWBUNNY2026. Register at blackrep.app/dating — that's the path that sets your account up properly, and the same login works at videos.blackrep.app afterwards.

There's a 🐛 button in the corner of every page. It goes straight to me with a screenshot. Use it — the last thread found two real bugs and I'd rather hear about the next one from you than not at all.

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u/SissyNathaly — 6 hours ago

Plaping help

So i finally got a chasity cage and have had it on for two day straight so far unable to cum. Im still locked for probably another month or two. Ive gotten really horny and i tried plaping. I never thought id enjoy cbt or this but god was i wrong. I absolutely love it but ive got no clue how id go about achieving a plapgasam. Ive tried a bullet vibrator while doing it and even having a large plug or knoted dildo in me while plaping. Nothing seems to even make me leak precum even though i absolutely LOVE plaping. Ive even got a nice large dildo to hit with. Ive watched videos and tried WBCH. Any tips on how to achive plapgasam.

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u/ea85700000 — 16 hours ago

I might be gone beyond repair

First post here after being a longtime viewer. Been into BNWO for about 2 years, on and off at first but really into it this past year. Today I realized how far gone I am. I had one of those 4-color pens at work and wrote green, red, blue, then black. The second I wrote “black” I got butterflies and instantly got hard. My mind immediately pictured a fat cock in front of my face and all I could think about was BBC.

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u/Weak_Grape_8702 — 14 hours ago
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The King who made me realize before I even realized

It was back in school and his name was Mr. Stanhope. He refused to tell me his firstrealized. I only thought I was into girls at the time. He was tall even for a black man, over six feet, but I'm only 5'2 so very very sort for a man, and my judgment probably isn't very good. But he was much taller than me, and from my perspective and vantage point it felt like at least a foot. Hell, most women are taller than me. He was very strong, like known for it in the school. The least I ever saw him in was when he was doing something outside with the landscape during the summer,was a tank top, and those farily short mens shorts from the 80's that these kids started wearing agian. But he was strong-thick like a real working man. He had a very nice tapiered beard.

I certainly took extra time to check him out when he was sweating. I didn't have any experience at the time, but in retrospect his bulge in those sweat soaked shorts was intimidating, It actually took me a second to realize what it was, because it was so much bigger than mine it didn'timmediately register as a dick . Especially being me, short, stocky, chubby, pretty thick. Like, guys would occasionally slap my ass "ironically" or to ridicule me. And somehow everyone just assumed I had a small dick, even now people do ingeneral. I'm half-indian half-white so you know maybe thats why people assumed I've got a very small dick. Or that if I'm not careful or don't sit down, the front of my pants will usually be a little wet. And even with being careful it'll still happen occasionally. It is also completely true that I have a very small penis. I'm three inches on a good day and thin with it. My appearance got a little darker as I've aged and I look more ethnic when I grow a beard, but at the time in like 2007-2011, I couldn't grow much facial hair so I shaved it, and was overall pretty fair skinned and only slightly olive toned. Combine that with the sort of collar length straight black hair that I wore at the time and liked to keep shiny and nice. Like, girls would occasionally comment on how nice it looked and felt. I still like to grow it out at sometimes.

So overall I wasn't like super masculine or intimidating in appearance, but I wasn't really feminine either. Weridly in the middle without being actually androgynous. I also didn't seem to be included with other men when people would speak about men as a group, even today too. Still kinda werid, but especially then. Even today female friends will seem to occasionally forget I'm a man, somehow. I was also a delinquent, at least partially out of compensation. I would often slip out the loading docks to ditch school, smoke weed and cigarettes, or pass a flask around. Mr. Stanhope caught me several times doing this till he just started letting me back in, but he was always sure to lecture or advise me. He had a lot of smart things to say, and we became pretty good friends. I always did get a odd sensation around him, like a werid tingling in my brain that I couldn't figure out at the time, and it got stronger when I was physically nearer to him or he did something that made me feel short. The tingling feeling also happened with the bigger black boys but not as strongly.

I realized later that it was the fact that Mr.Stanhope, the big black boys, and larger black men in general making me feel smaller and weaker was what was doing it for me. My delinquent activities gave me plenty of opportunities over the years to realize some more things about myself lol. Just have to say no homo, right? A lot more guys than would admit are not as picky about who gets them off as they say in public. Mr. Stanhope and I kept in touch for 5 or 6 years after I graduated, but then we lost contact. Though if he's like half as good looking as 3/4ths as charming now as I thought he was back then, I'd throw it back for him this very moment.

I used to have more significant issues with my self image, especially with the general negative responses women give when I try to pursue them, not always though. I learned that black men, at least a fair number, rather like my build. I also have come to prefer to keep my body hair sparse to completely gone. Smooth feels nice. I used to wear a beard because I had a sales job, but Im switching so I've decided to start shaving it completely and grow my hair out some. My new job isn't a manual labor one, but because it's related to the environment and horticulture some of that will be required. I've already started doing squats a bit ago, but I'm still pretty chubby, and this job will probably shave off a decent amount of weight. So if anyone has and tips or links how to keep my ass sufficiently thick I would greatly appreciate it. I have broad shoulders, so It might be possible to shoot for a kinda sorta hourglass figure if I'm lucky? I would also really like to hear other peoples stories about what or who makes them realize it.

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u/GoonSquirrel — 14 hours ago

Who was it?

Alright Whitebois I have a question. Who was the black man that you first remember being attracted to? Was it someone you knew in real life? Was it a celebrity? Was it a specific character in a book or movie? What was it that drew you to him? For me it was a neighbor I had when I was 15. I had only really ever been attracted to women up until then. I was 15, and had a computer of my own so I was watching a lot porn. Well one day my neighbor was outside cooking on the grill and he took his shirt off. I had never seen muscles like that before, full, round, he was vascular. He was sweating so his skin was kind of glistening. I couldn’t stop starring at him, and all I wanted to do was touch him. I kept staring at him and all of a sudden i realized i was the hardest I had ever been. I felt so ashamed at first, and buried down those feelings for years, but that was the first time I ever felt that strong attraction towards black men. I’d like to hear yours.

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u/EMSkid1995 — 21 hours ago

girly whiteboi looking for a partner :3

hiiiii!!! i’m a girly whiteboi looking for a whiteboi who is brand new to this kink to train or to make him worse!! i want someone who is talkative, bratty, cute, and overall open to the idea of being completely ruined :3. you’ll learn the BNWO and how it affects you, you’ll learn the proper ways to masturbate, you’ll learn the stats of race based dating, and you’ll learn tons more to make you a better race traitor and snowbunny. i’m only accepting 1 person who fits all my checked off boxes so come to me with a long message explaining yourself and why you should be picked, and maybe i’ll give you the privilege of being taught. goodbye bois and bunnies xoxoxoxo :3

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u/Financial-Twist-1185 — 18 hours ago

They just take white pussy wherever they want and nobody can't do anything about it

I'm not a boy so I'm sorry if I don't belong here, just wanted to vent.

A girl I know got fucked by 3 black guys the other night in public, there's this park with a spot of picnic tables surrounded by a lot of trees close to an immigrant center, you could hear her moaning and getting clapped but you had to get close to see them, they were not just fucking her, they were railing her. At first I got scared because an old woman, bless her soul, was calling the police saying they were hurting her, not true, she was having a blast, my heart dropped to the floor and started pounding like crazy, got so weak in the knees, wish there weren't so many neighbors gathering around making a scene so I could peek for a lil bit, the cops showed up so fast and all they did was asking the girl if she was okay and when she told them they were her friends and nobody was hurting her they just told them to stop doing it in public and asked them to go somewhere else, fucking crazy. Neighbors were horrified watching them leave together and got mad, the cops just told them they can't do anything and an old guy said they just don't do anything because they're black immigrants, everyone knew he was right but nobody did anything, I fucking love it.

I don't know the girl personally I just know of her because we have mutual friends and she seemed like a good girl so it makes it even crazier, it’s burned into my brain now.

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u/PerformanceFun3333 — 1 day ago

My mom is an ally to the BNWO

Since Trump got re-elected my boomer mom's been obsessively hating on him and Elon Musk, but she's also been making more and more comments in praise of black people and black men specifically. Not so long ago we were watching the World Cup game between Norway and Senegal and she couldn't stop shitting on the norwegian players and praising the african team, until she finally said to me and my brother who was also present "anyway, the african players at least are much more handsome and good looking than the european ones". She's also been watching this crime show where the main character seems to be a black cop and he's basically french kissing non black female characters every time I stumble upon her watching it.

It makes me hopeful that maybe one day my entire family will be openly mentally blacked, because for the moment I can only worship the BNWO in secrecy in my room.

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u/Ch-Brk-7631 — 1 day ago

Size comparison

I know there have been plenty of posts about the size difference, but I don't think there has been one for a while (as far as I could tell) and couple of days ago I was reminded of this: https://peniscomparator.com/en site and it got me thinking, that it could be interesting to use it to see how people in this community actually compare.

On this site you put in your measurements (length and girth) and some other info it creates your "virtual penis" (I prefer to think of mine as a "virtual clitty", but it is what it is) that you can then compare with multiple different averages and a selection of porn stars. But what I think is more interesting - you can share it and compare directly to someone else.

So my idea for this "project" is - whitebois share their penises (clitties if like me you prefer this term), Kings share their Penises - everybody can have fun and see how they compare to others in the community and sometime next week I will go through and collect all the data and make a summary of the results.

To start off I will put my sharing code (that you use in "the duo" section to compare directly to someone):UmFyZU1pc3Npb258MTAwfDEyOHwxMDB8MTAwfHd8MXw1MHwxMDN8OTB8OTB8d3w0fFJhcmVNaXNzaW9ufHw=

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u/Rare-Mission-7026 — 1 day ago

What the hell happened to me? I can basically only get off to BBC now

I think I genuinely need some perspective because this has gone way further than I expected. At this point I pretty much only watch BBC porn and other porn barely does anything for me anymore. I even installed one of those Chrome extensions that blurs women, so when I watch porn I basically don’t see their bodies or intimate parts at all. My attention is completely fixed on the men and especially BBC, and honestly I think I’ve become way too dependent on that extension and this whole pattern.

The weird part is that I’m single. I don’t even have a girlfriend, but I keep fantasizing about becoming a cuckold and someday having a girlfriend who gets fucked by BBC while I’m there knowing I can’t compete with that. That fantasy has somehow become much more exciting to me than imagining normal sex for myself.

So now I’m wondering what I’ve actually done to my brain. Did I condition myself into this by watching the same type of porn over and over? Can a fetish become this dominant just through repetition? And if I eventually want a normal relationship, am I going to have a problem because my arousal is now so specifically wired around BBC and cuckolding?

Has anyone here gone through something similar? Did it keep getting stronger, did you eventually embrace it, or did you manage to broaden what you were attracted to again? I’m genuinely curious what you think is happening here and what you would do in my position.

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u/Zeelig84 — 2 days ago

Coming to terms with your place in life

I know there’s a lot of Whitebois in here who don’t post, or comment, but they’re constantly on here because they know they’re weak, but haven’t accepted that fact yet. I see you, I know you, I was you. You probably have a girlfriend or wife, you’re probably still believing her when she says you’re good in bed, but I know the truth. I know that you can only have sex with her when the room is dark because the sight of your on pathetic excuse for a dick turns you off. I know that the only way you can stay hard is imagining her with a real man, and even when you’re with her all you can think about is her being taken from you by someone bigger and stronger. I know you’ve secretly put on her panties, and you loved how you looked in them. I know you’ve been watching so much interracial porn that now you’ve been imagining yourself as the girl in the videos. I know that this has caused you to discover the sissy lifestyle and it’s all you can think about. I want you to know that life becomes so much easier when you decide to stop lying to yourself, and give into your natural Whiteboi instincts. The best thing you can do is tell her how you feel. I know it’s hard, and it’s scary think that you’ve been living a lie, but once you escape from this facade you’ve been living you will finally feel like yourself.

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u/EMSkid1995 — 1 day ago

BlackRep is almost ready — invite codes for early testers (18+)

BlackRep is an invite-only interracial platform — a video site and a dating side, one account for both. It's been in the works for a while and it goes public in the coming months.
Before that, it needs real people using it. I can click through my own site all day and I'll never find what you'll find in ten minutes.
Invite codes
Black men and white men: BLACK2026
White women: SNOWBUNNY2026
The codes are role-locked, so use the right one — the wrong one gets refused at signup.
Register at blackrep.app/dating. That's the path that sets up your account properly; once you're in, the same login works at videos.blackrep.app.
What you're getting into
Videos: a full catalogue, ratings, comments, playlists, subscriptions, watch history, categories, trending. Creators can upload and manage their own material. There's an optional on-device censoring mode if that's your thing — it runs in your browser, nothing leaves your device.
Dating: swiping, matches, chat, notifications.
What I want in return
There's a 🐛 button in the corner of every page. Use it. Something loads wrong, a button does nothing, text overlaps, a video won't play, a page looks broken on your phone — press it, say what happened, attach a screenshot if you can. It takes fifteen seconds and it goes straight to me.
That's the whole deal: you get in before anyone else, I get told what's broken. I can see who has reported and who hasn't, and early access will be pulled from accounts that only take the first half of that. Not a threat — just what the seats are for.
A few honest heads-ups
18+ only. Signup asks for a photo and a photo ID. An admin (me) reviews the ID by hand before the dating side unlocks — the video side works right away, so you can start looking around immediately.
Approval isn't instant. Give it a bit.
It's a beta. Expect rough edges — that's the point.
200 seats per code.
If something's missing that you'd expect, tell me that too.

Why the dating side asks for ID and the video side doesn't

Different risks. On the video side you watch things. Nobody can contact you, nobody learns anything about you, and the only thing that matters is that you're over 18 — your date of birth covers that and you're in straight away, no document, no waiting.

The dating side puts you in a private conversation with a real person, who might end up meeting you. That only works if everyone is who they say they are. The ID check is what keeps out fake profiles, men signing up as women, people harvesting photos, and anyone underage. It's the least fun part of signing up, and it's the reason the women here are actually women.

What happens to the document: it goes into private storage, never a public URL and never the CDN, it's never shown on your profile or to another member, and admin is the only person who can open it. It exists to approve you once and then gets deleted. Tinder also asks for your id to make the platform safer.

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u/SissyNathaly — 2 days ago

Closet BNWO? - gay only

How many of you othet gsts have witnessed this? A pretty whiteboi, you know the type; fresh trendy haircut, gym body all shaved, acts like he's God's gift to mankind. When a Black King walks by, he reacts almost viscerally and makes a comment to his clone friends. He swears he's only into other whites, but it's "just a preference."

But, when no one is around or his on the apps, he's prowling for a Black cock and will be on his knees worshipping and on his back offering his pussy.

Is it just me, or do you see this happen to?

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u/Longjumping_Shift308 — 2 days ago

Need to vent

I can't lie I have had a very hard time coping with things after my ex dumped me and kicked me out. We were into some pretty weird things and I strangely developed a... Fetish I guess and now that she's permanently his and not interested in anything it's hard to not still fantasize about the bull.shit we would do. I mean id legit smell his boxers from the foot of the bed while they fucked on "date nights" and I have to be honest I can't stop thinking about it. I legit only way BBC porn now and most of its cuck shit. How exactly do u move on? Do I even rly want to? If I don't want to how would I seek something similar? Need all the advice/help I can get

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u/Hungry_Payment_8119 — 2 days ago

Relapsed hard

Hello everyone. I’ve been into the BNWO for about 6 years 🤤. At first it was just me watching blacked because the porn was such high quality. Then I eventually that turned into censored porn. Then that turned into sissy porn, then that turned me into a caged whiteboi that was always locked and wore panties. Then i decided to quit cold turkey I stoped watching porn and threw away all my toys 😭. Now I’ve dove off the deep end and again and bought dildos and a cage and have been locked now all week 🤤. All this to say this is truly addictive and I love every second of being a white beta.

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u/BigPasta6 — 3 days ago

Do you have a better term for whiteboi "dick" and "balls"?

Dick, cock and balls should only exclusively refer to what Black men have, but I don't know a good universal term for what whitebois have.

Calling it a clitty works in some cases, but I think most associate that with sissies and not all whitebois consider themselves sissies or want to associate BNWO with sissification.

The same goes for calling it a nub - that feels like it is more size related, and there are some rare whitebois that are above average, but it still shouldn't be called a dick or cock, as it's still weak and unsuitable for good sex despite the size.

And similar for balls, as I don't think what we have should be called balls since most of the times ours are small & tight, sit high up on us rather than hang down & swing, and produce weak loads.

Personally, I'm fine referring to mine as a clitty or nub as I'm just larger than a micro and am a sissy whiteboi. And I call them sissy-plums or sissy-orbs, but it doesn't roll off the tongue well and is still associated with sissification rather than general whitebois.

Any better ideas or terms for what whiteboi "dicks" and "balls" should be called?

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u/white-boi-sexual — 3 days ago

Making my second required announcement

Being forced to do this but it is true. Once again I’m a former MAGA “alpha” that has been turned into a black cock loving sissy bitch. I apologize for ever thinking I was worth anything as a white man. Black is best and I’m thankful to the real man that taught me the error of my ways and made me post this humiliating paragraph. White girls belong to black cock and there’s nothing any of us pathetic white bois can ever do to change that. Also I have a tiny penis

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u/Shoddy-Reflection988 — 3 days ago

Trans Women and BNWO

Has anyone else noticed that like, a bunch of seemingly normal, not very gooner-y white trans women are like Blacked but not open about it? Ive had it happen more than once that I get to know some trans women in non-sexual queer spaces, form normal friendships with them and then like 6 months in sex and preference gets brought up and the moment I mention I prefer Black men, they drop all pretense.

Sometimws its just they share that preference, but more than once ive had fairly progressive, politically knowledgable people be, like, secretly into BNWO. Not as a movement or anything. Like normal people domt believe in white slavery, but theyll be into it in a bedroom context.

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u/nvr2erica — 3 days ago

Training another whiteboi through daily tribute and full ownership.

I’ve been locking whitebois into real service for a while now. Not just talk actual money moving, mindset shifting, and them accepting their place under a Black Dom.
One of them started last summer. I told him straight up that every little luxury he enjoyed should cost him something because of who I am and who he is. He sent the first few times almost as a joke. Those small payments turned into steady weekly hits, then monthly totals that added up fast. A year later he’s down well over a grand $1k and still coming back for more.
Right now I’ve got him on a strict daily send for the whole month. (20$) every single day, no excuses, no delays. Watching him struggle to pull the money while still getting off on the fact that it’s going to me is exactly why I keep doing this. He barely needs pressure anymore the urge to give is already there. He knows the cash means more in my hands than it ever did in his.
Whites should pay reparations. That’s not up for debate in my world. Paypigs who understand that need to come in my inbox. I’m picky though I only deal with the ones who are serious, ready to lock in, and prepared to prove it with consistent tribute.
No time-wasters.

I keep him locked, plugged, and focused on one thing: serving. No wasting energy on anything else. When a Black man wants something, he should already be ready. That’s the standard I hold them to. Some of them end up walking away from their old relationships because nothing else gets them hard anymore. Just the knowledge that they’re funding and obeying their superior.

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u/PkSupremeDom — 2 days ago

Had my 1st Plapgasm

Hello, I guess I just feel the need to talk about this. I’ve been into BNWO/whiteboi/Femdom for about half a year now and have been plapping for a few months. A day ago, I decided I wanted to plap, so I set myself up for it. Got a few videos set up and one made for training plapping. I warmed up a little by watching a video, and then I started to plap a little; in short, it didn't last long, about 1 and a half minutes before I cummed. It felt really shameful, I never thought I would be able to plapgasm, but I did it hands-free, and it didn't even take 2 minutes, it was embarrassing in a good kind of way; I felt like a whiteboi for sure lol. It's been a really weird feeling for the past day, but I want to get more into this stuff. I felt really good and want to go deeper, so I was wondering if you guys have any advice on where to go next. (Thank you for reading this, by the way. I felt the need to tell someone about this and had no one lol.)

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u/Ok_Review_193 — 2 days ago