33 m, straight. Looking for extreme forced workout coach, I need to get fit again and I willing to do anything for that to happen.

Trainee should obey his coach complete. Coach is a god of sort, can’t be questioned..

Teams: primal.surge84@gmail.com and tele: takitoon

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u/Zeelig84 — 14 hours ago

What the hell happened to me? I can basically only get off to BBC now

I think I genuinely need some perspective because this has gone way further than I expected. At this point I pretty much only watch BBC porn and other porn barely does anything for me anymore. I even installed one of those Chrome extensions that blurs women, so when I watch porn I basically don’t see their bodies or intimate parts at all. My attention is completely fixed on the men and especially BBC, and honestly I think I’ve become way too dependent on that extension and this whole pattern.

The weird part is that I’m single. I don’t even have a girlfriend, but I keep fantasizing about becoming a cuckold and someday having a girlfriend who gets fucked by BBC while I’m there knowing I can’t compete with that. That fantasy has somehow become much more exciting to me than imagining normal sex for myself.

So now I’m wondering what I’ve actually done to my brain. Did I condition myself into this by watching the same type of porn over and over? Can a fetish become this dominant just through repetition? And if I eventually want a normal relationship, am I going to have a problem because my arousal is now so specifically wired around BBC and cuckolding?

Has anyone here gone through something similar? Did it keep getting stronger, did you eventually embrace it, or did you manage to broaden what you were attracted to again? I’m genuinely curious what you think is happening here and what you would do in my position.

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u/Zeelig84 — 2 days ago
▲ 4 r/Sissy

Can a genuinely straight, masculine “alpha” man actually be broken down and turned into a sissy?

I’ve been reading quite a few disscussions around sissification, submission and long-term D/s dynamics, and one question keeps coming back to me.

How much of this kind of transformation is actually possible, and how much only works because the submissive already has that side somewhere inside him?

I don’t mean somebody who already identifies as a sissy, is secretly looking for permission to explore femininity, or already knows that submission turns him on. That seems relatively easy to understand. I mean someone who genuinely starts from the opposite position: straight, masculin, confident, stubborn, used to being in control and strongly attached to that identity.

Can a skilled Dom gradually dismantle enough of that structure that the person begins accepting a completely different role? Not simply putting him in clothes, giving him a name or making him perform certain tasks, but actually changing how he reacts to autority, masculinity, embarrassment, obedience and eventually how he sees himself inside the dynamic.

And if that can happen, what does “breaking” relly mean in practice?

Is it actually about breaking someone, or more about stripping away learned behaviours, ego, defenses and expectations until something that was already underneath becomes visible? Can you genuinely create a submissive or sissy identity that wasn’t there before, or can a Dom only uncover and reinforce tendencies that already existed?

I’m especially curious about people who have actually seen a large transformation over months or years. Doms, trainers and subs who started out very resistant or conventionally masculine: what really changed? Was there a specific point where resistance stopped being resistance and became genuin desire to submit? And did the person’s identity outside the dynamic change too, or did the transformation remain strictly part of the kink?

I’m interested more in the psychology of it than the fantasy version. Where do you think the realistic limit is between consensual conditioning, roleplay and an actual change in how somebody understands themselves?

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u/Zeelig84 — 4 days ago

FUCK OFF BETASS!!!! you cant make me do that grindr stuff! STAY AWAY! Im straight ALPHA will fuck you all!

u/Zeelig84 — 9 days ago

Is This It? Has BBC Completely Taken Over My Mind?

Sometimes I genuinely wonder when it happened.

When did it stop being just porn I watched in private and turn into something that followed me outside?

I’m a white guy living in a country where you don’t even see that many Black men, and somehow all those years of BBC porn, humiliation fantasies, “Black New World Order” stuff and endless scrolling rewired something in my head.

Now, whenever I notice a Black guy in public, my mind reacts before I do. I start wondering what he looks like naked, how much of everything I’ve watched might be real, whether I would feel that same strange mixture of fascination, intimidation and submission if he were standing right in front of me.

And lately I’ve started asking myself something worse:

What if this isn’t even a fetish anymore?

What if I’ve watched it so many times that my brain no longer knows where porn ends and reality begins?

Because I can feel the pattern running automatically now. Black man means comparison. Comparison means inferiority. Inferiority means knowing my place. I don’t consciously decide to think it. The thought is already there before I can stop it.

That’s what scares me.

I used to search for this stuff because it turned me on. Now I sometimes feel like I’m searching for confirmation of something I already believe.

Like my brain has been trained to see Black men as more masculine, more dominant, more sexually powerful — and to see myself, the white guy, as the one who is supposed to notice, compare, step aside and accept where he belongs.

How many thousands of images does it take before a fantasy becomes a reflex?

How many videos before a reflex becomes a belief?

How many years before you stop asking whether you’ve been brainwashed because the person doing the asking is already the product of the brainwashing?

That’s the part I can’t shake.

Maybe I’m not standing at the edge of the obsession anymore.

Maybe I crossed that line a long time ago.

Maybe this is what the other side feels like: realizing that even when the screen is off, the porn is still playing somewhere inside your head.

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u/Zeelig84 — 10 days ago

Is it weird for a straight guy to want a really dominant, rough-style personal trainer?

I’m a straight guy and I’ve worked out before, but I feel like I need a very specific kind of coach to really reach my goals. I want someone who is strong, confident, dominant, and almost “forceful” with me during training—someone who takes control, pushes me hard, and doesn’t let me get away with excuses, laziness, or giving up when things get uncomfortable.

I actually like the idea of having a rough, demanding coach who tells me what to do and expects me to obey during the workout.

My goal is to build a great-looking athletic body, become much stronger, and get seriously fit, at any cost. I feel like I’d respond much better to someone who is intense and authoritative rather than a relaxed, friendly coach.

Is it weird or unusual for a straight guy to want this kind of dynamic with a male coach? Has anyone else specifically looked for a strict, dominant coach who basically takes control of your workouts and makes sure you do what you’re told?

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u/Zeelig84 — 10 days ago

33 [M4M] Looking for dom-coach to forced workout. I need to be pushed beyond my limts, need rough and dominant coach. #Online

Hello Coach!

I’m looking for a strong, confident, dominant-style coach for my first serious workouts. I’m straight but I need someone who can take control of the training, push me hard, and not let me get away with excuses, laziness, or giving up too easily. I want a coach who is direct, demanding, and comfortable training me intensely. My goal is to build a great-looking, athletic body, become much stronger, and get seriously fit, no matter what. I will Obey sny one who can make that goal possible!

Dm me please!

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u/Zeelig84 — 11 days ago

33m This straight boy has nice hypno trigger. Mess with him, humilate him he wont remember a thing..

Secret hypno trigger "slave time for you" written in CAPS. slut wont remember anything. primal.surge84@gmail.com on Teams and TG: takitoon and Mib0_ on DC

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u/Zeelig84 — 11 days ago

m4a, 33m, want to play dice game, text below.. or any variation of it..

Dice dare 16.2

Master create room for Dice Roll, and send link to Slave.

https://www.rolldicewithfriends.com/

Now it’s play time:-

Round 1. Emails for distribute pictures as punishment if slave not complete all rounds.

1,3,6 - Two friends email. (one male one female)

2,4,5 - Parents and two friends (one male one female) email.

*Slave Have to Complete every round within 5 minutes or set time with mutual agreed.

If fail to deliver pic on set time:-

As punishment Master may post that round pic/pics on exposedpassion for 1 hour with extension time 3 hours, or Master may post on exxxposeme for 3 hours, or Master may post on both sites .

Round 2. Write with marker pen on waist line.

1,5) "Slut"

2,6) "Whore"

3,4) "Bitch" or Master can choose.

*Slave have to offer at-least 2 different Locations to Master. Master may choose different location for different picture rounds.

*Master may ask Slave for wear bra or panty or both for any picture/ any picture round. if it is not a limit.

Round 3. Picture.

  1. Fully nude, from front, spread eagle pose, from head to bottom. Cover face and genitals with hands

  2. Fully nude, from front, any pose. Full body visible. Cover face with hand.

  3. Fully nude, from back, any pose. Full body visible. Cover face with hand.

  4. Fully nude, from side, any pose. Full body visible. Cover face with hand.

  5. Fully nude, from front, spread eagle pose, from head to bottom. Cover face with hand

  6. Fully nude, kneel, Cover face with hand.

*Master can be Strict, rough, and can abuse, verbally degrade to slave without any limits.

*If slave give any suggestion idea to Master, that means slave given consent for that idea.

Round 4. Picture

1: Fully body nude photo, covering genitals, full face, kneeling

2: Fully nude, from front, stand in “L” shape, from head to bottom. Cover genitals.

3: Fully nude, from front, spread eagle pose, from head to bottom. Cover genitals.

4: A photo nude, kneeling down, full face, tongue out, Cover genitals

5: Full frontal full face shot. Cover genitals by one hand.

6: A photo nude, kneeling down, full face

Round 5. , Embarrass/ Humiliate…. and extra pics.

Slave have to take a pic full nude, kneel. Hold a paper with written – “This slave/Slut/Whore belongs to Master ……. ” or Master may decide what should write on paper. Send this pic to Master. After it master roll.

1,2,6) 1 more pic nude with face, pose choose by dom.

3,4,5) 2 more pic nude with face, pose choose by dom.

Round 6. Old pictures. (If not available then slave should be creative and take three new pics and send to Master )

1,3,5) Last 3 nude pictures (of yourself) in your camera roll / gallery (before you started this dare).

2,4,6) 3 most naked & embarrassing photos of yourself from your phone (before the dare began)

Round 7. , Picture

1,4) Sit on floor, legs up and spread .

2,5) Sit on floor, legs spread.

3,6) Sit on floor, Try to hold legs on the air.

Round 8. Picture

  1. On knees, legs spread, hands behind head. Full face

  2. Nude doggy pose, one leg in air (Pose like dogs are piss), photo with full face.

  3. Nude doggy pose photo , front , with full face.

  4. Nude, on back, Legs on the air, face visible

  5. Nude, try the best you can to suck your dick

  6. Nude, sit with balls hanging position, full face visible.

Round 9. , Information

  1. Ever anyone watched you naked except sex partner? Who ?

  2. Your dick length, the age you lost virginity, your sexual preference

  3. Ever you try anal Anything?

  4. Ever sex with your cousin or own sister/ Brother?

  5. Ever saw naked your Cousin or own Sister/Brother?

  6. Till now how many sex partners ?

Round 10. Picture

  1. 2 Nudes with face, poses choose by dom.

  2. 1 Nude with face, pose choose by dom.

  3. 2 Nudes with face, poses choose by dom.

  4. 1 Nude with face, pose choose by dom.

  5. 1 Nude with face, pose choose by dom.

  6. 2 Nudes with face, poses will choose by dom.

Round 11. Picture

  1. Tie balls and cock , and full face pic nude

  2. Tie Nude doggy pose, one leg in air, photo with full face

  3. Tie balls and cock, Nude trying to hold legs in shoulder, full face

  4. Tie balls and cock, on back, legs up, asshole spread open. Asshole, cock and face visible..

  5. Tie balls and cock,Nude,kneel, full face, underwear in mouth

  6. Tie balls and cock, nude, bent over, spread legs , visible face through spread legs.

Round 12. Picture.

  1. Nude trying to hold legs on shoulder, full face

  2. 1 Nude with face, poses choose by dom.

  3. Nude, bent over, spread legs , visible face through spread legs.

  4. master ask for an imitate pic/ pose choose by dom.

  5. master ask for an imitate pic/ pose choose by dom.

  6. master ask for an imitate pic/ pose choose by dom.

Round 13. . Master should ask about slave’s limits and respect limits.

And Delete (All pics, video, info , whatever master got from slave) everything after complete this round.

  1. Game Over, Master destroy all info and pics.

  2. Start again from round 8.

  3. Game Over, Master destroy all info and pics.

  4. Game Over, Master destroy all info and pics.

  5. Start again from round 7.

  6. Game Over, Master destroy all info and pics

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u/Zeelig84 — 11 days ago

33m This straight boy has nice hypno trigger. Mess with him, humilate him he wont remember a thing..

Secret hypno trigger "slave time for you" written in CAPS. slut wont remember anything. primal.surge84@gmail.com on Teams and TG: takitoon and Mib0_ on DC

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u/Zeelig84 — 11 days ago

33m This straight boy has nice hypno trigger. Mess with him, humilate him he wont remember a thing..

Secret hypno trigger "slave time for you" written in CAPS. slut wont remember anything. primal.surge84@gmail.com on Teams and TG: takitoon and Mib0_ on DC

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u/Zeelig84 — 26 days ago

33m This straight boy has nice hypno trigger. He is in public place right now. Sun bathing…Mess with him, humilate him he wont remember a thing..

Hypno trigger is: “slave time for you” in CAPS; TG: takitoon or dm

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u/Zeelig84 — 26 days ago

33m This straight boy has nice hypno trigger. Mess with him, humilate him he wont remember a thing..

Secret hypno trigger "slave time for you" written in CAPS. slut wont remember anything. primal.surge84@gmail.com on Teams and TG: takitoon and Mib0_ on DC

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u/Zeelig84 — 26 days ago

33m This straight boy has nice hypno trigger. And he has tinder date tonight.. Mess with him, humilate him just before his date!

Secret hypno trigger "slave time for you" written in CAPS. slut wont remember anything. primal.surge84@gmail.com on Teams and TG: takitoon and Mib0_ on DC

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u/Zeelig84 — 26 days ago

33m This straight boy has nice hypno trigger. And he has tinder date tonight.. Mess with him, humilate him just before his date!

Secret hypno trigger "slave time for you" written in CAPS. slut wont remember anything. primal.surge84@gmail.com on Teams and TG: takitoon

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u/Zeelig84 — 27 days ago

33m straight, im loking for ROUGH COACH for FORCED WORKOUT

I need discipline and some one who will tell me how to train to gain muscles and nice bod. Be rough, be dominant and make me do all exercises you want. I will be shy, scared boy who is forced to train and obey... teams primal.surge84@gmail.com TG: u/takitoon

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u/Zeelig84 — 1 month ago