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I am looking for a smooth fit sub preferably twinks and femboys that are around my age and want to be completely owned and used by me as much as possible. I want someone that is willing to be trained and turned into my perfect slave for me to use however and whenever I want. You will be expected to follow strict rules and complete daily tasks, I do prefer slaves that are willing to show face but it is fine if that is a limit. My main kinks are tpe, public, pet play, bdsm and my only limit is scat. If you are interested dm me with your asl, kinks, limits, a few pics and some info about yourself

Hello lovely.
I’m an experienced soft/hard dom I’m looking to find a special submissive for a committed long term connection online and we can go from there.

I’m 28, 5’9, brown hair, brown eyes, professional, confident, active, play sports, gym rat, concerts and being out in nature.

My type: i’m quite open here, the mental and emotional connection is the most important part. I like a good sub or little, a bit of brat is totally ok. You need to want to make a dom/daddy proud and happy, open to share your kinks, must be honest and trustworthy.

What I’m looking for
18-45 years old
I prefer for you to have a USA time zone but it’s not essential
Intelligent and literate
Expressive in messaging
Wants to build a connection
Daily communication
Comfortable sharing photos once connected
Likes to have rules and open to tasks

I am David, 29 years old and from Germany. I am looking for an online Dom. I already have experience with BDSM, CBT, anal, and bondage. The slave/Dom dynamic is still new to me, but I am interested in it. My taboos are excessive public display, permanent damage, and showing face. Beyond that, I would like to try new things and test my limits.

Since I am still in a relationship, I unfortunately don't have time 24/7 and can't fulfill all tasks immediately. Nevertheless, I would fulfill the daily tasks as best I can and serve my master.

I’m a 34-year-old professional guy in a stable and growing career, looking for a committed male slave ready for true Total Power Exchange ownership. This is not casual play or weekend scenes. I’m seeking someone who deeply craves being owned property, existing to serve, obey, and find purpose in complete devotion.

As a soft Dom with a sadistic edge, I offer a powerful balance: real care, warmth, and nurturing when it’s earned, paired with strict control and intense punishment when I decide it’s needed. I have ADHD, which means I can be intense, deeply invested, and full of questions. I expect the same energy in return, mutual obsession, where you learn me as thoroughly as I learn you.

Your Role as My Owned Slave:

• Handle all domestic service: cooking, cleaning, laundry, organizing, grocery shopping, and keeping the entire household running perfectly to my standards.

• Be available for free use whenever and however I desire. Your body is mine, this includes creating and sharing porn content together.

• Work to supplement our household (vanilla job or content creation encouraged). A remote position is ideal so you can stay home and focus fully on service.

• Live a structured, care-free life under my control: no bills, no major decisions, and no everyday stresses, just the simplicity of making me happy and fulfilling your need to serve.

I’m a big, hairy bear (average cock) who is generally chill and down-to-earth, but I’m very particular about how I like things done. I value quiet usefulness, honesty at all times, and a bit of playful bratty energy as long as you ultimately obey.

Details:

• Spacious 3-bed, 2-bath condo. It has good bones and plenty of room. I have plans to purchase it and turn it into something even better. It will be a great first project together.

• Move-in target: end of June. We’ll start with trial weekends and weekdays to make sure the connection is real.

• I’m actively working on my own health and fitness and am drawn to younger fit, twink, or athletic guys who bring motivated energy and help keep me inspired.

This is a mutual benefit dynamic: I provide stability, protection, structure, and real care while you handle the service that lets me thrive without burnout. I work in a caring profession and truly value having someone who helps take care of my home and well-being in return.

If you’re a serious slave who is ready for 24/7 ownership, total power exchange, and the mix of nurturing care with strict sadistic control, send a thoughtful message. Tell me your age, experience level, hard limits, and why you believe you would thrive as my owned houseboy.
Serious replies only. Relocation required once we both confirm the connection. This is for those truly prepared to be owned.

Hello everyone, I'm a 19 year old student from France, I am also a pathetic small dick slave looking to serve a master or mistres in person.

I want to give someone full ownership of me, have them fully control me and be their bitch. First hummiliate me for my pathetic and useless clitty dick.

Keep me naked and serving you 24/7, I am not allowed to refuse anything you say, and anything you want you can do to me. You can use my holes in any way you wish, make me perfom gross and humiliating tasks. I have a huge cnc fetish. You can use me as your personal urinal if you wish. Keep me restrained and tied up, and have me sleep on the floor. Share me with your friends if you want.

Keep me fully denied and not allowed to cum.

This is a serious request, if you are interested send me a DM and we can start making plans.

Hey there~ I’m an Dom, previously looking for what I called a more “relaxed friend/mentor” style of domination. However, after reflection, I really am looking for something slightly different—I am looking for a sub who is serious about strict, longterm, 24/7 chastity.

Literally, I want a sub that is willing to work their way to extreme chastity—only getting released for cleanings, and going without sexual release for months and years. Obviously, that can be worked towards, but it will be the goal.

Sexual-wise, Im most interested in chastity—in fact, I demand it. I’d prefer if you already have a cage and some experience. I would be willing to help get other equipment necessary for safe remote lock control—like a remote controlled safe.

I’m completely open to both cis- and trans-subs. I do prefer more slender, even androgynous, types of people.

Something very important is that due to my work (I’m a professor), I require discreetness and will not send pictures. In exchange, I won’t demand any pictures of you, besides basic cage checks.

If interested, send me a message. In that message, include your age, sex, and time-zone—as well as what caught your eye and interested you about my post.

I look forward to chatting~

Experienced dom looking for subs of any experience.

I'm mostly into giving orders and having a sub that enjoys fulfilling them.

I'm pretty open to most kinks and can help u explore any as long as they are not my limits. My limits are: anything illegal, or any fantasy that plays on that theme, raceplay, pupplay (masks and collars are ok, but actions like whimpering, tail buttplugs, barking, ect are a limit), scat, blood, and anything that would leave a permanent mark. Other than those we can explore.

Not a popper or hypno dom. Can be a keyholder dom, however only for certain times. I like telling my sub how to use their cock too, but can be caged for anal or other body tasks. Open to TPE, however it should always stay as a kink and not actually interfere outside of it (no risking jobs/social status ect). Also can just be a JOI dom if thats what ur looking. Just be sure to make it clear.

Want my subs to always be sober and aware they are submitting at all times during play.

I prefer scruffy/hairy subs, but clean cut is fine too, I'd just prefer a bit more muscle tone if you are shaven or if u got tats (Not really into clean shaven twink builds)

I am not around 24/7 and am not looking a dependant sub.

I want us to both have good safe clean fun. (Safewords and limits are established and respected).

21+ if you are interested hmu with ur asl and pics.

UK dom seeking an obedient boy (21+) ready to confess his dirtiest fantasies, show off his underwear and body and hand over real control.

Especially drawn to straight or bi guys curious about submitting to another man.

No toys or cage needed upfront – we start with questions, tasks and rules and build from there.

Kinks: underwear play and control (picking yours, sniffing, wearing for days, etc.), posing, musk/scent worship, anal training/plugging, chastity and orgasm denial/control, cum control/edging, humiliation, probing/intimate questions, piss.

For example, I might decide when or if your penis gets any attention. I choose your underwear. Your hole is mine to train and use, although I’ll go easy if you're new to it. Musk and piss play get me going but we don’t have to include.

Limits: blood, scat, permanent marks, anything illegal

UK preferred but open to elsewhere if you’re eager and committed.

Message with age, location, orientation, experience level and what makes the thought of surrendering like this get you twitching.

Tell me enough to intrigue me or you risk me not replying… 😈

Hello everyone, I'm a 19 year old student from France, I am also a pathetic small dick slave looking to serve a master or mistres in person.

I want to give someone full ownership of me, have them fully control me and be their bitch. First hummiliate me for my pathetic and useless clitty dick.

Keep me naked and serving you 24/7, I am not allowed to refuse anything you say, and anything you want you can do to me. You can use my holes in any way you wish, make me perfom gross and humiliating tasks. I have a huge cnc fetish. You can use me as your personal urinal if you wish. Keep me restrained and tied up, and have me sleep on the floor. Share me with your friends if you want.

Keep me fully denied and not allowed to cum.

This is a serious request, if you are interested send me a DM and we can start making plans.

Searching for an obedient, 'straight' slave to own and train on a long term basis.

Interested in boys who:

• show face
• are athletic/muscled
• are seeking ownwership with aspects of TPE
• are interested in chastity
• know their place and how to speak to a master with deference
• have, or are willing to buy, anal toys and chastity devices
• are completely discreet
• particularly interested in slaves who are 'straight', but this is not exclusive

Disinterested in boys who:

• don't show face
• are overweight
• are disobedient
• are unwilling to buy toys
• seek short term ownwership or one offs
• Are not discreet

What I expect from my boys:

• willingness to send pictures and videos on request
• ability to engage in routine inspection calls and training sessions on cam
• deligence in training with their toys
• commitment to chastity (I understand this may be an issue for married slaves and am happy to look at solutions)
• to end all their sentences with the word sir

My kinks:

-anal play -chastity -some cbt -forced bi -humiliation -some underwear and clothing control -other aspects of TPE -forced workouts

My limits:

-anything illegal -scat -blackmail and exposure

If you think you have what it takes to be my good boy, send me a brief introduction letting me know why you think I should consider you as my slave, Boy.

are you an older guy (35+)? like looking on here but nervous to try out subbing, or always managed to find a reason not to take the plunge? hiding your desires, questioning what you want to do or just plain curious? now is your chance...message me! i like subs who are new and want to give things a try. i promise I won't bite :)

To be clear, i am looking for any older sub who is interested in following orders and tasks, regardless of experience level (but i do like the newer ones). must be 35 or older, will consider lower if pitch is good but more likely than not will be ignored. Also must be masc.

Met lots of people on here from all walks of life so far, so who knows who i'll meet next...it's up to you, after all!

Experienced dom looking for subs of any experience.

I'm mostly into giving orders and having a sub that enjoys fulfilling them.

I'm pretty open to most kinks and can help u explore any as long as they are not my limits. My limits are: anything illegal, or any fantasy that plays on that theme, raceplay, pupplay (masks and collars are ok, but actions like whimpering, tail buttplugs, barking, ect are a limit), scat, blood, and anything that would leave a permanent mark. Other than those we can explore.

Not a popper or hypno dom. Can be a keyholder dom, however only for certain times. I like telling my sub how to use their cock too, but can be caged for anal or other body tasks. Open to TPE, however it should always stay as a kink and not actually interfere outside of it (no risking jobs/social status ect). Also can just be a JOI dom if thats what ur looking. Just be sure to make it clear.

Want my subs to always be sober and aware they are submitting at all times during play.

I prefer scruffy/hairy subs, but clean cut is fine too, I'd just prefer a bit more muscle tone if you are shaven or if u got tats (Not really into clean shaven twink builds)

I am not around 24/7 and am not looking a dependant sub.

I want us to both have good safe clean fun. (Safewords and limits are established and respected).

21+ if you are interested hmu with ur asl and pics.

I would love to own a dirty slut long-term. My main kinks are musk, feet, cum play and humiliation. I absolutely love weird perverts and show offs :) Bonus points if you love to think of yourself as a pathetic loser ;)

I don't do tributes, cuck play, exposure or blackmail play so don't message me if that's what you're looking for. Other than that feel free to share anything that you think makes you weird or interesting because normal subs are boring. No experience required and enthusiastic sluts are my favorite:)

I am looking for a TPE master who wants to own new property. I like to be controlled sexually and non sexually. I have 6+ years experience of being owned and serving masters.

I want to be seen as a blank canvas and start to be manipulated into becoming a full sub and brainwash me, hypnotise me and break my mind into believing my only worth is to please and serve true men.

I am very obedient and eager to serve men and put their desires and wants before my own. I am dedicated in becoming a slave to a man whose desire it is to ruin me. I want to be reclaimed as a slave and to live in submission. I don’t want any privacy.

I am UK based and have my own place.

My kinks are: tpe, pain, humiliation, degradation, cbt, ruined orgasms, bodywriting, routine control, diet control, wardrobe control and being controlled in any way you desire.

My limits are scat and blackmail and personal social media.

Just what the title says I’m a guy who identifies as straight (at least to everyone I’ll talk To or who knows me) but if I’m being honest I’ve definitely had thoughts and dreams that completely weren’t lol on top of that I’m pretty sure just because of the porn I’ve delved into deeper and deeper that exploring online with another guy is a decent move to start!

I’m definitely more submissive than dominant and always have been with my relationships with girls and a couple years back my ex suggested things like chastity and pegging and I don’t even want to admit how much those ideas turn me on … but we wound up splitting before exploring.

Along with that I started looking up things like sissification, femboys and shit but I found myself kinda focusing on dicks even in those categories: what they would feel like in my mouth or in my ass, what they might taste like blah blah blah.

I’m still a complete novice so I have limits like showing my face but I’m completely willing to show the rest of me, especially if it leads me to feeling like I’m owned by a dominant man (fuck that turns me on).

I will want to stick to Reddit mainly so if that’s a problem, sorry :/ but if I find the right person, I’ll pretty much give my whole self lol

Experienced Dom here looking to build a connection with a younger guy, so we can build up a long term slave/master dynamic.

I'm very kinky and open minded, kinks include BDSM, spanking, humiliation, pet play, leather, oil, massage, twinks, feminisation/sissies, rules, total power exchange.

I have a preference for young, smooth guys, but I'll speak to anyone interesting.

Initially looking for an online dynamic but open to meeting if we get along.

Send me a DM if you are ready to give yourself over to an experienced master, make your message interesting and show yourself if you're brave enough :)

Looking for subs who understand their place in the hierarchy, and have a burning desire to be useful to Alpha men. Take your place at my feet, serve me obediently, beg to be worthy of worshipping the ground that I walk on.

I'm attractive, intelligent, successful, and incredibly dominant. I know my worth, and I know how to treat an inferior beta. I live in the SF Bay Area, though I travel a lot. I am (mostly) straight, and currently have a roster of girls that I spend time with. I enjoy using subs (especially gay subs who are attracted to me) as servants/slaves, degrading them, abusing them, and treating them as second-class citizens.

Looking for genuine, lifestyle subs who are committed to living kink-centric lifestyles. Ideally you should be similar in age, and look decent enough where it wouldn't be odd for us to be seen together in public. I expect respect, and I enjoy desperation and eager devotion.

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29 Kinky Dom looking for some submissive and dirty boys... If you're into doing tasks, being obedient, being used and abused.

Looking for boys into piss, toys, gaping, chastity, dildos, BDSM, CBT, pup play, control, TPE, forced workout, nipple play, food play, humiliation, spanking and more.

The less limits and more creative sub, the better, open your mind and free yourself boy. It's time to please your Alpha!

Kinkier and dirtier the better... Hit me up and let's play boys!!

Come and let's have fun with Daddy!!

28 yo bi white boy. Cute and masculine looking on the outside but secretly a filthy sub. No one would know that I come on like to humiliate myself and entertain and service you. I especially want to be used by older men/fat men 😵‍💫and brown men (Latino, middle eastern).

I have very few limits and want to serve and worship and be a good toy for real mean men. I could be your porn boy, your slave sub- whatever helps you feel good :) I’m not able to do TPE but I have very few limits and I’m happy to chat more and share pics :)

To begin, I have always been drawn towards men who are bigger and stronger than I am. For me, who’s less physically imposing, it’s very appealing seeing the buff, stocky, beefy-muscled men. Their physical and personal qualities exude confidence and outer strength. This causes those around you to perceive you as a dominant figure simply due to these characteristics. Whether in their personal and professional life.

I can understand how stressful, demanding, and overwhelming it can be to have these expectations placed on you. It can be a lot of weight for you to carry with not many to understand that. Even though you are a strong resilient man. I intend to find that individual who yearns to be on the opposite end of how society perceives them. To be guided and nurtured, and where they can continue to be their best self possible. To encourage, provide support, and structure where their inner strength can shine and reach new heights for themselves. Creating a safe, positive environment that fosters vulnerability, trust, and a sense of balance in life.

I hope to meet like-minded individuals who resonate with this. If you would like to get to know more about me and what I’m looking for, I have provided a more detailed overview written on my profile: here

Thank you for reading and hope you have a nice day.