r/gaybdsmpersonals

Hi there pup, wanna be treated and trained as you and your body deserves? Im a dom with a decade+ of experience looking for new puppy boys to adopt.

Requirements are, loyalty, obedience and eagerness.

Because i think the world is too cruel as of rn, ill take any boy straight or not that needs to be pampered and taken cared of, or any boy that has some questions or need to works some things out, I don't judge and i take care of my pups whatever your situation might be.

Reach out if you wanna be a good and eager boy, i know how to treat you well and you'll end up always wanting more.

We are an established, stable, and committed male throuple (three men) looking to welcome a live-in submissive male into our home and lives. This is for a long-term, dedicated dynamic, blending structured D/s with a shared, comfortable daily life.

About Us

• The Dynamic: We operate as a unified front. We offer a secure, high-protocol environment grounded in mutual respect, clear boundaries, and deep care.
• The Home: We maintain a clean, organized, and peaceful household. You will have your own dedicated space/room within the house, balanced with your duties and time spent serving the household.
• Our Style: We value open communication, emotional maturity, and a genuine desire to serve. We are not looking for a temporary arrangement or a casual hookup; we want someone who finds fulfillment in being an integral part of a structured household.

What We Are Looking For

• The Fit: A submissive male (21+) who is naturally service-oriented, respectful, and eager to integrate into an established dynamic.
• Responsibilities: Daily tasks will include light housekeeping, organization, meal preparation, and running errands, alongside meeting our personal and protocol-based needs.
• Attributes: Reliable, communicative, clean, and genuinely fulfilled by a live-in service dynamic.

What We Offer

• A safe, stable, and fully supportive living environment.
• All living expenses covered (housing, food, utilities).
• Clear expectations, firm but fair guidance, and a deeply rewarding D/s connection. > How to Apply:

If you feel you would be a good fit for our household, please send us an introduction. Tell us about yourself, your previous experience with live-in dynamics (if any), what service means to you, and what you are looking for in a dominant structure. Recent photo appreciated.

I am a 22 male dom. I’m looking for a male from the ages of 18-60 to be my new slave online.

This will entail you being there for me as my slave. Calling me sir or master at all times, wearing what I tell you to wear and doing what I say at all times. Being respectful and loyal is a must.

Bonus if you own tight underwear and latex or nitrile gloves

Be serious and don’t waste my time. I absolutely mean it. Also if you don’t call me sir or master in every sentence, That’s an absolute no. Don’t message me if your not going to be serious and your gonna waste my time

So I recognize this is a long shot and I have no idea if this will even pan out but here is what I’m looking for.

I have 5 years of C-suite assistant experience and have a fantasy of being able to serve my boss in every way.

How I imagine this working out: we meet and see if we enjoy our dynamic, you help me learn anything that’s missing from my skills. I get hired as your assistant at work and you get a devoted discreet boy to serve you.

On business trips, late office nights, and when we have a time alone let me help you relax and release in the way only I can do

I don’t care if you’re married, not out, or not gay. You get a good assistant, I get to serve a powerful man.

If yall know of a better place to post for my specific audience let me know.

Hey there,

I am an experienced dom to all genders and currently looking for a new plaything to add to my collection.

Be sure to introduce yourself properly or you will be deleted immediately.

I am into tease & denial. I will keep you locked.

Expect to be denied longterm and made to be really really needy and horny.

If we match and you put in the effort I request, I am very open to switch to a more longterm /TPE solution.

I am very creative and sadistic, but I wont entertain you and fulfill all your fantasies.

Thats not the point.

You have to be willing to put in a lot of blood, sweat and tears.

Tell me exactly what you would want this to look like.

The more details the better my understanding of you and your needs.

Always been kinky and don’t want to fight it. I know I need to worship and obey. I am a pig slut and will always be. I need to share what a piggy bitch i really am with someone who understands, supports and is ready to exploit it.
I am 50, decent looks, medium build, 6cut cock.
Would love to serve in person but very willing to connect online and be a long distance slave.
I want to feel the rush of giving control of mind and body to a dom master who know how a sub’s mind works. Who understands the need and hunger.

m 40 years old experienced dom looking for subs that actually know what their place is. If you re just horny and you think that's enough to be a sub then stop reading here as you re not what I'm after. if you are naturally a sub then go on.

One offs are welcome but long term if we vibe is preferable.

Kinks include:

**Humiliation, pet play, degradation, pain, anal, nipple torture, toys, denial, ruined orgasms, CEI, JOI, CBT, spanking any many more.**

Limits are: illegal.

Your limits are respected.

Open to meet ups too as long as we re get along and nearby.

If you are eager and keen on serving then send:

* Age
* Location
* Full body pic (preferably with face) once I accept the chat.

38 year old Dom daddy here looking for kinky subs. Preferably looking for something long-term online or in person if you're around New Jersey.

I am 6'1, average/dadbod, 6 inches cut, white, brown hair and blue eyes. I'm into all types of guys, so anyone can hit me up.

Into lots of different kinks, with very few limits. Some kinks in include: roleplay, breeding, cnc, CBT, tpe, watersports, spanking, verbal ... But open to most other things as well.

If interested, send a message with your age, location, kinks, and limits.

online therapy is a big thing now, right?

i want a Dom to take control of me through like therapy sessions, pushing my limits in the name of helping me, enslaving me, and as you make changes to my life, i can make excuse for Doctor's orders!

use chastity, b*ackmail, intox play, hypno and conditioning to keep me submissive and obedient to you

i'l literally do anything! put me on HRT and prescribe me whatever you want, but i just think this fantasy would finally take me over the edge. make me move to you so sessions can continue "in person, for my own good," i can make it happen logisitically.

i've had crushes on real therapists, and fantasized about them taking advantage of me in my vulnerable state, now i just need someone to do it for REAL!!

me: 40yo having been a sissy on and off for most of my life, tall and tattooed, white millenial, who's naturally very smooth, straight acting (turn me into a girly fag with therapy!) and suuuuuuuuper kinky and submissive!

experienced here and have lots of toys and clothes to make this happen, webcam, etc, we can figure out ways to keep chastity even!

please try me! take over my life!! i'm waiting for you!

I’m seeking true, obedient slaves ready for absolute ownership.

I don’t play at dominance — I demand total control. Your body, your mind, and your sexuality will belong to me completely. I will control your every move, your thoughts, and your pleasure. Chastity devices will lock away what no longer belongs to you. I love using toys, plugs, and GPS trackers so I always know where you are and can use you however and whenever I wish.

Humiliation is one of my greatest pleasures — both in private and in public. I will break you down and remake you as my perfect, devoted slave. Once you’re mine, escape becomes nearly impossible.

Many slaves message me, but most are just fantasizing and waste my time. If you’re serious, prove it.

To apply, send a clear photo of your bare feet with “Master.bxlbe” written on the sole. Only then will I consider your application.

At the end of your message, you must write the word dungeon so I know you’ve read and understood everything.

My web is waiting. Step in… if you dare.

Ideally would love a dom who’d get me on a Teams Call to force me to complete their tasks and push me to get even worse. Someone who’ll gain my trust and then blackmail me into being the most fucked up piggy. Someone to make me do more and more gross tasks, goon out for hours without cumming. Someone who’ll make me stay locked, make me lick toilets while I jerk o the ground. A dom who’d force me into weird cumeating games to keep me more submissive. I am very kinky but also affectionate and sensual, if this sounds like something that could interest you dont hesitate to dm me and discuss further but please doms introduce yourselves.

Gay Dom bottom looking for a guy that's down to shove huge dildos or objects up his hole for my pleasure.
My kinks: edging, sounding anal play, degrading, humiliation, obt and a few more.
Things to know about me: I'm a bit sadistic, Brutal, and intense however I'm also kind, understanding, caring.
I don't trade/ send nudes, the kind dynamic I'm seeking is solely based on you submitting to me and allowing me to have complete control over you while guiding you to be the best slut you can be for me.
Prefer Masc subs but not opposed to feminine men but I'm not into cross dressers or sissies at all, sorry.
Need someone thats into being used and owned, you'd be tasked with sending and doing whatever I say in video/pics/ video calls.
I want someone who's going to allow me to experiment with them, control them, and use them in all the way I want.
Prefer men around my age (26-35) BUT I'm open to older.
Rules: 1. Be obedient. 2. have toys. All races are welcome l don't discriminate

Still looking for the right person.
I really want a 24/7 Online Sub with almost no limits.
I am a soft dom that takes things so. So don’t expect us to get right into it when you message

I need someone real and obedient… tired of the flakes. I will respect your limits. If you are uncomfortable with something just tell me, don’t ghost.

I want to start slow with a few rules and slowly control everything you do.

I don’t have an upper age limit and think someone older might be more willing to stick around.

Please be my age or older.

Tell me a bit about yourself when you send me your first message. Like your age, kinks, limits, what made you message me.

I will be asking questions and tailor the rules towards you.

The less limits, the better.

You don't deserve to be treated like a human, and you know it.

You are no better than an animal meant for breeding.

You should be on your knees, moaning for attention like a street whore.

So give up your autonomy and do what you were born to do. Submit. Show off yourself and beg for attention like a good dog, and maybe you will get what you want. You know, deep down, that you don't deserve to have even a bit of self respect left in you.

And when you are left ashamed in your bed, covered in cum and daring to regret your decisions, always remember that you wanted this from the start. You are nothing but a submissive slut, a toy to be used, and you love it.

Try and lie about how you are strong, masculine, straight, but in the end you are still reading this post, feeling yourself grow hornier by the second as you imagine yourself as the slut you were destined to be. You want to be broken, and left begging for more.

So go on and submit to me.

The more fit or masculine you look, the better. It's time you gave up that false image of strength that you have.

I’ve never tried this, I’ve been fucked before but looking for a new experience. I’d love public forced domination, but something a little more private is cool. I’m not fat, but do have a belly. Tight ass, and disease free. Willing to try and tied up and train ran on my ass or held down in public as I get fucked in the middle of a circle of men. The idea to be pumped full of cum by many men is hot to me. Maybe even one guy that can go many roads, either ties me up and uses me as he pleases for a day. I’m willing to try a night thingz. Maybe make this a routine fun thing.

The boys around you spent high school fixated on the popular girls. You were fixated too, just not the way they were. You didn't want to date the prettiest girl in school. You wanted to outdo her.

That wanting never left. You've always gravitated toward the feminine: fashion, makeup, getting pretty, turning heads. You're a feminine boy today, but you've never gotten to become what you actually crave. You need a Master to give you the structure and control to push you past it. Not just feminine. Stunning.

That word is the whole point. I'm picky. I'm not looking for someone who throws on a wig and calls it a night. I want real, genuine potential to be breathtaking, and the hunger to be pushed all the way there. You want a man who sees what you could become and refuses to let you settle for less.

I'm a Dom with 15+ years training and feminizing sub boys into ultra-feminine dolls. This time I'm not just after a sub. I want a dynamic where you hand over your body, your mind, and everything else to be made into something genuinely stunning.

You want to live as that doll. Dolled up in private, dolled up in public, presenting as mine every chance you get and loving every second of it. You're vain in the best way. You need to be the prettiest thing in any room, and you need a man who feeds that, demands more of it, perfects it, and loves parading you wherever we go.

Let's be just as blunt about sex, because compatibility there is non-negotiable. No chastity, nothing taken away. You're a feminine doll with a big dick and you wouldn't have it any other way. You love getting rock hard, love the way your bulge tents your lingerie, love showing off your dickprint with zero shame, and you crave having your dick worshipped as much as you crave your holes filled by your man. That's the fantasy: the most stunning ultra-feminine doll anyone has ever seen, poured into lace and dripping in makeup, hard and shameless while I dress you, show you off, and use you. I want you insatiable, a high-drive doll who gets off on being put on display, sweetly degraded, bound, and used hard in public and private.

And I want a real relationship, not a scene you walk away from when the lingerie comes off. A devoted, monogamous partnership where the dynamic and the romance are one and the same. I'll own you and I'll cherish you, and those two have never pulled against each other for me. You need all three at once: to be shaped into that stunning doll, sexually wide open with your man, and hungry to build a real love alongside the dynamic. One or two of the three isn't it.

You're not DL. You're out, already feminine in some visible way, and going further won't cause you problems. Won't show your face? Don't bother. 18+ only.

Physically: smooth, slim, petite, hung. You've got makeup skills, you crossdress or do drag regularly, and you live for lingerie, heels, and getting dolled up.

Me: 41, caucasian, masculine, handsome, 6'3", hung (8" uncut), fit and athletic. Very successful, now mostly retired (tech bro). I swim, lift, stay active. Big on travel, food, and EDM. Kinky, a serious exhibitionist, dominant in the bedroom and anywhere else we'll have fun. Everywhere else, I'm warm, caring, and completely in your corner. I know exactly what I want and I don't compromise. I'll take your goals, make them ours, and get us there together.

This isn't an online-only pen-pal thing. We'll meet within two months to see if the chemistry's real. You can live just about anywhere. I'll fly you to me or come to you whenever I want. Based in San Francisco.

If the thought of being shaped into your man's perfect doll just got your dick hard, upvote and message your Master.

I’m married, successful, and tired of taking charge and worrying about appearances. There’s something cathartic about being humiliated, embarrassed. I’m planning a solo night that I think will be the first time I ride a dildo.

How do I safely up the intensity of this scene? Should I get a penis gag too and be caged? Or should I look into a Bluetooth plug and have an internet stranger control its vibrations while it stuffs my straight ass. I’m learning I’m into humiliation, bondage, chastity, power dynamics, socks (random I know), awful outfits. Appreciate anyone that wants to help me come up with how I’ll teach myself a lesson. No pain and no bathroom stuff.

I can’t say I ever in my life expected to be on this subreddit, nevertheless writing this post, but here we are.

(Online only) (usa only)

I've always been interested in the idea of owning someone older than me, just the thought of it turns me on and it excites me to see older/mature bottoms groveling at my feet, begging to be used and abuse, doing whatever it takes to please me.

As for my requirements, I'm looking for subs between the ages of 35-55. (All chubs with small cocks to the front!!) I'm open to other body types and preferences.

I expect you to own a few toys (dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, chastity cages)

Must be open to talking off Reddit.

Must be open to sending pics, videos, voice calling and camming.

Open to feminization.

Sissies and crossdressers are welcomed.

I'm looking forward to hearing from all who's interested. Pms are open, send a brief introduction about yourself as well as kinks and fetishes. COME SERVE YOUR YOUNG MASTER!!!

Love to ruin orgasms, bust balls, talk about past experiences and get into guys heads to brainstorm ways they’d love to be humiliated some more

Have a muscle sub kinky and enjoy when there's a size/age difference. i’m more slim/twunkish myself if you’re also interested a cute looking dom.

if that sounds like the kind of fun you’d be interested in send me a dm with stats, what you’re into, or what stood out about this post that got you excited.

let’s get freaky and kinky together 😉 include ‘pineapple’ AND your stats in your message if you read all the way until the end.

Im fit, hairy, and have a real mans cock that I'm not afraid to show off when its earned. I'm looking for a long-term intense online relationship with a submissive slave who understands and accepts their place to serve me.

About the Slave:

The ideal slave for me should be 25+, average to slightly chubby, and slight preference to small dick and/or prejac. I'm not into cross-dressing or sissification, so if you're interested in those aspects, move along.

Requirements:

Daily check-ins: I expect you to report to me daily, including details about your underwear choices for the day. I will have full control over your underwear selection.

Regular live video calls: I want to see and hear you as often as possible. I expect a verbal slave who will talk, moan, beg, and do whatever else I ask during our video sessions.

Cum control: I will cum whenever I want, and you will cum only when I allow it. Chastity is a plus, but not a deal-breaker.

Constant display: I expect you to be constantly on display for me, while I will show myself rarely. When I do, I will be worshiped as I deserve.

Humiliation and name-calling: I am very verbal and aggressive during our interactions. You must be okay with humiliation and name-calling as part of our dynamic.

Call me 'Sir': At all times, you will address me as 'Sir.' I don't expect you to be perfect from the start, but I do expect an eager attitude and a strong desire to improve for me.

If you think you have what it takes to be my owned slave, please reach out to me. I'm looking for someone who's willing to commit to a long-term, intense, and fulfilling online relationship. Remember, your duty is to serve me, and I expect nothing less than your complete dedication and obedience.