u/InNeedOfAGag

I’ve been sitting on this idea for a while, but I’ve finally decided to stop thinking and start doing.
You know those group chats with friends where you talk about the latest show you’re hooked on, or plan a night out at the pub? That’s exactly what I want but instead of TV and pints the thing bringing us together is kink.

I’m looking to build a space for open-minded UK kinksters who want something like “kinky friends.” Think of it as a close-knit group chat where you can actually talk about and express your kinky side, without judgment. Ideally, we’d also plan real-life meetups too, whether that’s smaller, more intimate play sessions with 2–3 people, or a full-on kink party with the whole crew.

Right now we’ve found only bites we’ve gotten have been subs so we’re hoping to bring in some doms who are willing to balance out the dynamics a bit! Midlands is not required but honestly preferred!

There’s no limit on what you’re into as long as you respect others’ boundaries and are cool with people liking different things than you do. I’m a proud nerd myself, so fellow nerds would definitely be a bonus but definitely not a requirement.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, let’s chat!

I’ve been sitting on this idea for a while, but I’ve finally decided to stop thinking and start doing.
You know those group chats with friends where you talk about the latest show you’re hooked on, or plan a night out at the pub? That’s exactly what I want but instead of TV and pints the thing bringing us together is kink.

I’m looking to build a space for open-minded UK kinksters who want something like “kinky friends.” Think of it as a close-knit group chat where you can actually talk about and express your kinky side, without judgment. Ideally, we’d also plan real-life meetups too, whether that’s smaller, more intimate play sessions with 2–3 people, or a full-on kink party with the whole crew.

Right now we’ve found only bites we’ve gotten have been subs so we’re hoping to bring in some doms who are willing to balance out the dynamics a bit! Midlands is not required but honestly preferred!

There’s no limit on what you’re into as long as you respect others’ boundaries and are cool with people liking different things than you do. I’m a proud nerd myself, so fellow nerds would definitely be a bonus but definitely not a requirement.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, let’s chat!

I’ve been sitting on this idea for a while, but I’ve finally decided to stop thinking and start doing.
You know those group chats with friends where you talk about the latest show you’re hooked on, or plan a night out at the pub? That’s exactly what I want but instead of TV and pints the thing bringing us together is kink.

I’m looking to build a space for open-minded UK kinksters who want something like “kinky friends.” Think of it as a close-knit group chat where you can actually talk about and express your kinky side, without judgment. Ideally, we’d also plan real-life meetups too, whether that’s smaller, more intimate play sessions with 2–3 people, or a full-on kink party with the whole crew.

Right now we’ve found only bites we’ve gotten have been subs so we’re hoping to bring in some doms who are willing to balance out the dynamics a bit! Midlands is not required but honestly preferred!

There’s no limit on what you’re into as long as you respect others’ boundaries and are cool with people liking different things than you do. I’m a proud nerd myself, so fellow nerds would definitely be a bonus but definitely not a requirement.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, let’s chat!

I’ve been sitting on this idea for a while, but I’ve finally decided to stop thinking and start doing.
You know those group chats with friends where you talk about the latest show you’re hooked on, or plan a night out at the pub? That’s exactly what I want but instead of TV and pints the thing bringing us together is kink.

I’m looking to build a space for open-minded UK kinksters who want something like “kinky friends.” Think of it as a close-knit group chat where you can actually talk about and express your kinky side, without judgment. Ideally, we’d also plan real-life meetups too, whether that’s smaller, more intimate play sessions with 2–3 people, or a full-on kink party with the whole crew.

Right now we’ve found only bites we’ve gotten have been subs so we’re hoping to bring in some doms who are willing to balance out the dynamics a bit! Midlands is not required but honestly preferred!

There’s no limit on what you’re into as long as you respect others’ boundaries and are cool with people liking different things than you do. I’m a proud nerd myself, so fellow nerds would definitely be a bonus but definitely not a requirement.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, let’s chat!

Hello all! I’m an 18 year old guy in the East Midlands who’s looking to meet a Dom in the hopes of becoming play partners in the kinky world!

I’ve been reading up on BDSM for a while now and know that I’m naturally submissive. Bondage is a big interest of mine (especially tape) and I enjoy things like gags and roleplay. I’m always happy to discuss interests, limits, and ideas openly, communication is a huge part of what I’m looking for.

Outside of kink, in my regular day to day I am a proud nerd. I like comics collecting and am big on superheroes, videogames and wrestling.

I’m tall, chubby, with brown hair. Unfortunately I can’t host at the moment so we would have to find out transport for physical meets!

I’m looking for someone who is understanding of consent and boundaries and is also willing to communicate interests. Whether you’re an experienced Dom or you’re simply looking for a play partner I’d love to hear from you and see if we’d be a good fit for eachother!

If you think we’d get along send me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

Hello all! I’m an 18 year old guy in the East Midlands who’s looking to meet a Dom in the hopes of becoming play partners in the kinky world!

I’ve been reading up on BDSM for a while now and know that I’m naturally submissive. Bondage is a big interest of mine (especially tape) and I enjoy things like gags and roleplay. I’m always happy to discuss interests, limits, and ideas openly, communication is a huge part of what I’m looking for.

Outside of kink, in my regular day to day I am a proud nerd. I like comics collecting and am big on superheroes, videogames and wrestling.

I’m tall, chubby, with brown hair. Unfortunately I can’t host at the moment so we would have to find out transport for physical meets!

I’m looking for someone who is understanding of consent and boundaries and is also willing to communicate interests. Whether you’re an experienced Dom or you’re simply looking for a play partner I’d love to hear from you and see if we’d be a good fit for eachother!

If you think we’d get along send me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

Hello everyone! This has been on my mind a lot recently after receiving a hateful DM on Fetlife a couple days. I’m curious about other people’s thoughts on the topic.

The main idea being this:

“Kink is not always about sex”

Already from a couple of people I have spoken to about this idea they have all confirmed they agree with it and it takes various forms. I will say I definitely do get sexual enjoyment out of my kinks but sex isnt always the goal and I don’t always need my kinks to be played out sexually.

For example one of my big kinks is roleplay. I find it to be a fun escape and something quite exciting to do! I also really like bondage and find that the trust it requires is quite intimate and personal so in the past I’ve imagined being tied up by or alongside certain people I care about but have no sexual attraction to!

I was wondering people’s thoughts on the subject and if you do find kink enjoyable sometimes for non-sexual reasons what does it do for you?

UPDATE: Anybody interested just comment and I’ll DM you as for whatever reason Reddit seems to have disabled the ability for people to DM me.

Hello all! I’m an 18 year old guy in the East Midlands who’s looking to meet a Dom in the hopes of becoming play partners in the kinky world!

I’ve been reading up on BDSM for a while now and know that I’m naturally submissive. Bondage is a big interest of mine (especially tape) and I enjoy things like gags and roleplay. I’m always happy to discuss interests, limits, and ideas openly, communication is a huge part of what I’m looking for.

Outside of kink, in my regular day to day I am a proud nerd. I like comics collecting and am big on superheroes, videogames and wrestling.

I’m tall, chubby, with brown hair. Unfortunately I can’t host at the moment so we would have to find out transport for physical meets!

I’m looking for someone who is understanding of consent and boundaries and is also willing to communicate interests. Whether you’re an experienced Dom or you’re simply looking for a play partner I’d love to hear from you and see if we’d be a good fit for eachother!

If you think we’d get along send me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

UPDATE: Anybody interested just comment and I’ll DM you as for whatever reason Reddit seems to have disabled the ability for people to DM me.

Hello all! I’m an 18 year old guy in the East Midlands who’s looking to meet a Dom in the hopes of becoming play partners and, if we click, someone who’d also enjoy taking on a mentoring role helping me fully grasp my true potential in the kinky world!

I’ve been reading up on BDSM for a while now and know that I’m naturally submissive. Bondage is a big interest of mine (especially tape) and I enjoy things like gags and roleplay. I’m always happy to discuss interests, limits, and ideas openly, communication is a huge part of what I’m looking for.

Outside of kink, in my regular day to day I am a proud nerd. I like comics collecting and am big on superheroes, videogames and wrestling.

I’m tall, on the chubbier side, with brown hair. Unfortunately I can’t host at the moment so we would have to find out transport for physical meets!

I’m looking for someone who is understanding of consent and boundaries and is also willing to communicate interests. Whether you’re an experienced Dom or you’re simply looking for a play partner I’d love to hear from you and see if we’d be a good fit for eachother!

If you think we’d get along send me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

UPDATE: Anybody interested just comment and I’ll DM you as for whatever reason Reddit seems to have disabled the ability for people to DM me.

Hello all! I’m an 18 year old guy in the East Midlands who’s looking to meet a Dom in the hopes of becoming play partners and, if we click, someone who’d also enjoy taking on a mentoring role helping me fully grasp my true potential in the kinky world!

I’ve been reading up on BDSM for a while now and know that I’m naturally submissive. Bondage is a big interest of mine (especially tape) and I enjoy things like gags and roleplay. I’m always happy to discuss interests, limits, and ideas openly, communication is a huge part of what I’m looking for.

Outside of kink, in my regular day to day I am a proud nerd. I like comics collecting and am big on superheroes, videogames and wrestling.

I’m tall, on the chubbier side, with brown hair. Unfortunately I can’t host at the moment so we would have to find out transport for physical meets!

I’m looking for someone who is understanding of consent and boundaries and is also willing to communicate interests. Whether you’re an experienced Dom or you’re simply looking for a play partner I’d love to hear from you and see if we’d be a good fit for eachother!

If you think we’d get along send me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

UPDATE: Anybody interested just comment and I’ll DM you as for whatever reason Reddit seems to have disabled the ability for people to DM me.

Hello all! I’m an 18 year old guy in the East Midlands who’s looking to meet a Dom in the hopes of becoming play partners and, if we click, someone who’d also enjoy taking on a mentoring role helping me fully grasp my true potential in the kinky world!

I’ve been reading up on BDSM for a while now and know that I’m naturally submissive. Bondage is a big interest of mine (especially tape) and I enjoy things like gags and roleplay. I’m always happy to discuss interests, limits, and ideas openly, communication is a huge part of what I’m looking for.

Outside of kink, in my regular day to day I am a proud nerd. I like comics collecting and am big on superheroes, videogames and wrestling.

I’m tall, on the chubbier side, with brown hair. Unfortunately I can’t host at the moment so we would have to find out transport for physical meets!

I’m looking for someone who is understanding of consent and boundaries and is also willing to communicate interests. Whether you’re an experienced Dom or you’re simply looking for a play partner I’d love to hear from you and see if we’d be a good fit for eachother!

If you think we’d get along send me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

\[M4A\] \[sub4dom\]

POV: 1st, for primary characters however any other characters would of course be 3rd

Length: anything above one liner as long as you’re not just trying to be lazy, some instances like rapid fire dialogue between characters I’d be fine with one liners but for actual action I’d prefer more

Duration: long term

Smut ratio: 60:40

TZ: British Summer Time (BST) \[UTC+1\]

Kinks:
⁃ Bondage
⁃ Gags
⁃ Abduction
⁃ Cuddles (with F)
⁃ Breast sucking
⁃ Duct tape
⁃ Forces to watch
⁃ Groping
⁃ Bound on display

Limits:
⁃ Scat
⁃ Piss
⁃ Gore
⁃ Sounding
⁃ Incest
⁃ Suffocation
⁃ MxM anal sex
⁃ Spit
⁃ Lipstick

Plot:

Many view you as just a secretary… I don’t. I view you as a hot and blonde secretary. No I’m just playing. I play too much in fact. Since forever you and I have been the “will they, won’t they” of the company. Everybody expects us to end up together and can see we’re madly into eachother yet I won’t make a move until I can get you to admit you love me and you refuse to give me the satisfaction until I make a move. Unfortunately my charm doesn’t always do me the most favours and often gets me into trouble whether it be with coworkers or dangerous people. Let’s just say I’ve experienced all sides of being tied up and gagged.

I am 18+ and all characters involved are 18+

[M4A] [sub4dom]

POV: 1st, for primary characters however any other characters would of course be 3rd

Length: anything above one liner as long as you’re not just trying to be lazy, some instances like rapid fire dialogue between characters I’d be fine with one liners but for actual action I’d prefer more

Duration: long term

Smut ratio: 60:40

TZ: British Summer Time (BST) [UTC+1]

Kinks:
⁃ Bondage
⁃ Gags
⁃ Abduction
⁃ Cuddles (with F)
⁃ Breast sucking
⁃ Duct tape
⁃ Forces to watch
⁃ Groping
⁃ Bound on display

Limits:
⁃ Scat
⁃ Piss
⁃ Gore
⁃ Sounding
⁃ Incest
⁃ Suffocation
⁃ MxM anal sex
⁃ Spit
⁃ Lipstick

Plot:

Many view you as just a secretary… I don’t. I view you as a hot and blonde secretary. No I’m just playing. I play too much in fact. Since forever you and I have been the “will they, won’t they” of the company. Everybody expects us to end up together and can see we’re madly into eachother yet I won’t make a move until I can get you to admit you love me and you refuse to give me the satisfaction until I make a move. Unfortunately my charm doesn’t always do me the most favours and often gets me into trouble whether it be with coworkers or dangerous people. Let’s just say I’ve experienced all sides of being tied up and gagged.

UPDATE: Anybody interested just comment and I’ll DM you as for whatever reason Reddit seems to have disabled the ability for people to DM me.

Hello all! I’m an 18 year old guy in the East Midlands who’s looking to meet a Dom in the hopes of becoming play partners and, if we click, someone who’d also enjoy taking on a mentoring role helping me fully grasp my true potential in the kinky world!

I’ve been reading up on BDSM for a while now and know that I’m naturally submissive. Bondage is a big interest of mine (especially tape) and I enjoy things like gags and roleplay. I’m always happy to discuss interests, limits, and ideas openly, communication is a huge part of what I’m looking for.

Outside of kink, in my regular day to day I am a proud nerd. I like comics collecting and am big on superheroes, videogames and wrestling.

I’m tall, on the chubbier side, with brown hair. Unfortunately I can’t host at the moment so we would have to find out transport for physical meets!

I’m looking for someone who is understanding of consent and boundaries and is also willing to communicate interests. Whether you’re an experienced Dom or you’re simply looking for a play partner I’d love to hear from you and see if we’d be a good fit for eachother!

If you think we’d get along send me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

Hey there! Pleasure to meet ya! I’m an 18M guy from the UK and a lover of bondage, gags and roleplay and I’m sure various other things that will become clear as we talk.

I am unable to host but would love to get to know a dom and hopefully have some play sessions together.

Such things could include:
\\-Roleplaying sexy scenarios
\\-Tie up sessions
\\-Having me bound and gagged for you on display for a couple hours as an object for you to look at

The list is not the only things available and I’m open to hearing about new ideas and seeing if they’d interest me!

Visually I’m a tall but chubby guy with brown hair so if that’s also your thing then I’m the guy for you!

Hope to hear from some people who would love to slap some duct tape on this mouth!

Hey there! Pleasure to meet ya! I’m an 18M guy from the UK and a lover of bondage, gags and roleplay and I’m sure various other things that will become clear as we talk.

I am unable to host but would love to get to know a dom or couple and hopefully have some play sessions together.

Such things could include:
\-Roleplaying sexy scenarios
\-Forcing me to watch you fuck
\-Tie up sessions
\-Having me bound and gagged for you on display for a couple hours as an object for you to look at

The list is not the only things available and I’m open to hearing about new ideas and seeing if they’d interest me!

Visually I’m a tall but chubby guy with brown hair so if that’s also your thing then I’m the guy for you!

Hope to hear from some people who would love to slap some duct tape on this mouth!

Hey there! Pleasure to meet ya! I’m an 18M guy from the UK and a lover of bondage, gags and roleplay and I’m sure various other things that will become clear as we talk.

I am unable to host but would love to get to know a dom or couple and hopefully have some play sessions together.

Such things could include:
-Roleplaying sexy scenarios
-Forcing me to watch you fuck
-Tie up sessions
-Having me bound and gagged for you on display for a couple hours as an object for you to look at

The list is not the only things available and I’m open to hearing about new ideas and seeing if they’d interest me!

Visually I’m a tall but chubby guy with brown hair so if that’s also your thing then I’m the guy for you!

Hope to hear from some people who would love to slap some duct tape on this mouth!

I am 18+ and all characters and participants must also be 18+!

POV: 1st, for primary characters however any other characters would of course be 3rd

Length: above one liner as long as you’re not just trying to be lazy, some instances like rapid fire dialogue between characters I’d be fine with one liners but for actual action I’d prefer more

Duration: long term

Smut ratio: 60:40

Freq: whenever you can but preferably not waiting days for responses

TZ: British Summer Time (BST) \\\\\\\[UTC+1\\\\\\\]

Kinks:
⁃ Bondage
⁃ Gags
⁃ Abduction
⁃ Cuddles (with F)
⁃ Breast sucking
⁃ Duct tape
⁃ Forces to watch
⁃ Groping
⁃ Bound on display

Limits:
⁃ Scat
⁃ Piss
⁃ Gore
⁃ Sounding
⁃ Incest
⁃ Suffocation
⁃ MxM sex
⁃ Spit
⁃ Lipstick

Plot(s):

“I turn down the local ‘player’ in a nightclub therefore breaking their ‘record’. Unable to accept no as an answer they kidnap me and turn me into their personal plaything while making sure my previous life is completely erased.”

“Me and my friend had hung out a great deal of times whether it be meet-ups at the pub or relaxed coffees on a random Thursday morning or whatever else have you. Recently though I had been a lot more bold with my humour and had been joking about being kinky. Little did I know my friend was actually an experienced dom who was more than willing to make me put my money where my mouth is. Or rather, put a gag where my mouth is. In a rather extreme turn of events they decide to kidnap me and become my dom in order to show me what a REAL dom can do.”

“A girl and her douchebag boyfriend kidnap me after I accidentally cause offence. In the process the girl realises that maybe she wants to get out of her current life and start anew.”

Hey there! I’m Nes! No not the Nintendo Entertainment System. I’m an 18 year old guy from the UK and majorly into bondage and gags! I’ve been into it for a while but it’s only been these past few years when I fully read up on it and tried to understand my kinks a bit more.

I’m looking for a long term roleplay partner (and hopefully friend OOC) who would be willing to engage in story focused yet bondage heavy roleplays and whatever other great kinks we throw in there!

Plot wise I think it would be best to come up with something together but a few concepts which could inspire us are:

\-Kidnap
\-Home invasion
\-Romance (brought together by kink)
\-University
\-Friends become play partners

I’m new to this so forgive me if I’m missing anything key here but I’m still early days!

To prove you’ve read everything here please say >!“I think silver would suit you”!< to prove you’ve have read the above.

Hopefully hear from some good people!

Ideally we will move to Discord after initial chatting!

I am 18+ and all participants and characters must also be 18+

Hey there! I’m Nes! No not the Nintendo Entertainment System. I’m an 18 year old guy from the UK and majorly into bondage and gags! I’ve been into it for a while but it’s only been these past few years when I fully read up on it and tried to understand my kinks a bit more.

I’m looking for a long term roleplay partner (and hopefully friend OOC) who would be willing to engage in story focused yet bondage heavy roleplays and whatever other great kinks we throw in there!

Plot wise I think it would be best to come up with something together but a few concepts which could inspire us are:

-Kidnap
-Home invasion
-Romance (brought together by kink)
-University
-Friends become play partners

I’m new to this so forgive me if I’m missing anything key here but I’m still early days!

To prove you’ve read everything here please say >!“I think silver would suit you”!< to prove you’ve have read the above.

Hopefully hear from some good people!