r/BDSMPersonalsUK

Hiya, I’m reaching out hoping to find someone to build an intense but caring dynamic with. I’m a sub based in South West England (Cardiff, Bath, Bristol, Gloucester etc.) and I’d love to connect with someone who lives within a reasonable distance so we can eventually play in person (I don’t drive so anywhere with easy transport links would be fabbb). But I’d also love to play over voice and video call, text inductions don’t really work for me. I’m also poly / ENM, but currently don’t have other partners.

I’ve had a hypno kink for a long time, and have had fleeting experiences with hypnotists online… for me I really enjoy the process of trance itself, as well as the fun NSFW things that are possoble😋 I’m a big fan of conversational inductions, confusion, binaurals, brainwashing, conditioning, being blank, mindless, horny, dumb… and just generally everything that comes with psychological dominance. If you’re not a hypnotist but hypnosis is still hot to you, still reach out - I also love the idea of being bound and forced to watch or listen to hypnosis as part of training🙈🙈

Some other kinks I’m into include bondage, being gagged, latex, orgasm control and denial, remote control toys, daddy/mummy dom, being objectified as a horny toy made for my owners pleasure, some elements of pet play (being caged, collared etc, not animal play) and I also have a massive praise kink. I also enjoy the idea of being cared for and moulded as someone’s doll…

I’m not looking to jump straight into playing - I’ve had my trust broken and boundaries crossed in the past, and would really value taking the time to get to know each other well so we can build something from a solid foundation.

Look forward to hearing from you🥰 xx

Seeking several guys in SE London, local to Bexley/Sidcup ideally, to come along and fuck my girlfriend. Some pretty specific rules but nothing restrictive, in fact it's pretty no-holds-barred in comparison to some meets.

Most importantly there's no anal, there's no kissing her, and there's no small talk or polite conversation. No getting to know her, no forming connections. We're only looking for one hour sessions. Set times in hotels. We don't want long drawn out fucks taking up our time. No bareback, ever.

Hotels are expensive so let's talk about splitting the cost and making it a regular thing. Not looking to send you a ton of pics beforehand, not looking for porn collectors or time wasters.

Legitimate couple seeking cock to pound my girlfriend on camera. Make her look like a whore, no respect for her, full respect for me and my rules.

Guaranteed a good time, let's get every Redditor inside her. Also open for women that want to rough fuck her and treat her mean.

22F I miss being a fresher at university going clubbing having older men buy me drinks flirt with me try grind on me when I’d dance and whisper some very very dirty things in my ear of what they are going to do to me x

I miss that feeling of being scared and turned on so much x

My kinks involve public, commanding, roleplay, golden showers pls, and a few darker ones x

Looking to speak to older men from the UK who would degrade me , abuse me , use me (consensually with a safe word). I want someone who has little to no limits and will tell me every detail they are going to do to me xoxo

I am completely verified on my profile xoxo

Hiiii
I’m a sub something between a brat and a little
I want a dom who is psychological dom as well as in presenting
I have been a sub for 10+ years but all in negative relationships
I want a conversation not just sex sex
I don’t care about sex till I feel safe

Please ask me questions coz idk what to say most the time

Soft limits
Water
Bj

Hard limits
Pee
Poop
Sick
Work
Family

I wanna start this off by saying I do have a boyfriend and no he isn’t aware that I’m doing this. Simply because he just doesn’t want to satisfy by craving for having a daddy dom so why shouldn’t I seek it elsewhere?

I’m a 5’0, 18 year old black girl looking for someone (20-35) open to a large amount of kinks. I’m personally new to bdsm, so I’d like to have a guide and preferably someone who’s experienced in the daddy dom dynamic as it’s what interests me most.

Hard limits: Scat, Vomit, Latex (yes so basically everything else is on the table, what can I say I’m fun.)

Specifically interested in: Knifeplay, Sadism, CNC, Raceplay (must be discussed)

Preference: Athletic-ish build, tall because I love a size difference (I’m 5’0 everyone is tall to me), articulate, white (main preference).

Personality! I’m rather bratty at times but I’m eager to learn if I have a good teacher. My friends often describe me as bubbly and as “the best example of a pillow princess.” I’m very shy at first when it comes to texting so please give me time.

Interests outside of S&M! Pink (the colour) and literally anything cutesy. I enjoy reading and I’m getting into gothic literature to expand my vocabulary. I tend to go on walks although I’m not very active.

!!! I’m not against meeting in person but I’m just unable to host

Heya!
I'm a receptionist but there obviously isn't much going on. I like to be a bit of a party girl but the single life starts to weigh you down eventually.
My type of man is a guy who knows how to treat a girl. Honest, caring, flirty.
Someone who will tell me all the things he's kinda ashamed to find hot, plus the more vanilla stuff.
I'm looking for a guy who isn't afraid to guess and prod at my insecurities. I like men who are into me, but don't mind being a bit critical, in and out of the bedroom, or a bit of a tease.
Girls like me are a dime a dozen, so I'm not expecting much attention after all. You'll probably have me all to yourself.
I don't want any kinks to be off limits, and I don't mind if you're a lot older than me. I guess a bit of fatherly disapproval and approval helps with what I'm looking for.
Not being able to do much is making me kinda lonely and eat too much, and I love being teased. Come oblige me. I have pretty severe daddy issues. I love it when dominant men make scathing assumptions about me. Feel free to tell me what you think I might be insecure about. I'm also open minded and loooove kinky guys…. So try my boundaries. x

Hey, I’m Rosie. I’m 26, originally from the US but now living in Europe, close to the UK. I’ve got dark hair, brown eyes, and a personality that can be really sweet… until I decide to tease you a little.

I enjoy meeting genuine people and having conversations that go beyond the usual small talk. When I’m not busy, I’m probably watching a good movie or series, gaming, or just relaxing with a cozy evening at home.

My dominant side is more subtle and psychological than loud or overly strict. I enjoy playful teasing, structure, praise, denial, service, and little rituals that make a dynamic feel personal. For me, it’s all about building trust, understanding how someone thinks, and letting things develop naturally.

I’m drawn to people who are respectful, consistent, and comfortable communicating in English. I’m not really looking for someone who just wants a quick fantasy before disappearing. I’d rather get to know someone who enjoys taking their time and building a real connection.

I’m far from perfect myself, and I don’t expect anyone else to be. Honesty, patience, and being able to communicate openly mean a lot to me, especially when something doesn’t go as planned.

Think we might click? Send me a short introduction about yourself and tell me what you're looking for. I'd love to know a little about you.

I'm looking for someone who values honesty communication trust and consistency. I enjoy building strong dynamics based on mutual respect, understanding and personal growth, whether you're experienced or new to the lifestyles what matters most is a willingness to connect, learn and develop something real together.

I'd appreciate it, if you took your time to read my whole ad, before sending me a message. That way, we both don’t waste our time. Thanks!

Helloo! I am a 23 year old polish female located in Bournemouth, UK.

A little bit about me outside of femdom:
I am a quite introverted person, who opens up once I'm comfortable with people. In terms of interests and hobbies, I enjoy listening to music, colouring, reading, dancing and playing video games (would be amazing to play something together, especially the latest Mortal Kombat game, Dead By Daylight or Fortnite, as that's my current fixation.) I also absolutely loveeee cats, so if you own one, please spam me with photos and include them in your application for extra points :)

What do I look like:
I have dark blonde hair that is a little bit past my waist, green eyes, wear glasses, have a couple tattoos and an average body with curves in the right places. You may see a picture of me if you wish (not my face though for the time being), although, there should be some on my profile.

What I am looking for:
Ideally, I'd like to have someone I can call my subby friend. I'm not interested in any 24/7, slave or mommy dynamics, so if that's what you're after, I'm not the right person for you. I like to take things slowly, and get to know each other and see what happens. Would be great if you were a person that knows how to communicate properly. I am more than happy to chat about everyday things, as well as discuss more NSFW topics. If we get along, we could even have some play sessions from time to time. If possible, I would also appreciate some light spoiling from your side, however it's not a must. Currently, looking for something online, however I'm open to the idea of IRL with the right person if we do establish a good connection inside and outside of femdom, especially because emotional connection is important to me. Would absolutely love a personal simpy dog if I'm honest, someone to make my life is a little bit more easier, enjoyable and interesting :)

Bonus points if you are located in the UK (Bournemouth or nearby especially) or Poland :)

If what I wrote here has sparked your interest, or you have any questions, please send me a message on here with a nice detailed description of who you are, please include:

- your name, age and where you are from (UK/Europe/Canada/Australia/NZ/USA only)

- your kinks and interests (sfw and nsfw)

- photo of yourself (no need for face but it's appreciated, shirtless body photo will be enough)

- why you decided to message me

- anything else you want to add

Please actually send a proper introduction message :)

Thank you for reading, Miss Milly x

Hello. I will keep this as short as I can while still being informative.

Cumming is becoming boring, the build up is always more fun and I love the feeling of wanting and needing to touch and cum more than actually cumming right now.

I want to find someone who is experienced with this who can guide my masturbation and prolong the feeling of being needy so that I enjoy every time I touch and orgasms feel earned and GOOD.

Likes:
Anal, edging, denial, orgasm control, nipple play, light pain, double penetration, timed play, instructed and guided play, games of chance.

Limits:
Anything above light pain, scat, degradation, blood, vomit.

Maybes:
Public, pics (okay once there is trust established), hair control as in completely bald, landing strip etc that could be fun to control. Bladder control, sometimes edging while needing to pee is hot.

Toys:
Clit sucker, several dildos and plugs, nipple clamps and suckers, shower head, vibrator.

Hi,

I’m a 23, tall dark skinned, curvy and attractive. I am also well educated and I enjoy deep conversations.

I’m looking for a man who enjoys being submissive. More specifically a man who is intelligent, assertive (being submissive does not mean being passive), respects boundaries and is keen on building an emotional connection without rushing into anything sexual. Physically, I prefer men who are 5’11 (and above), have an average/muscular build between the ages of 21 to 30, love to worship and want nothing more than to devote themselves to me.

I’m looking to explore more of my femdom side. I’ve always been quite dominant and some would say intimidating, but I am also deeply nurturing and funny!

As for my kinks I want to explore;
- face sitting
- edging and denial
- pegging
- also I love making people feel flustered (mentally and physically) 😛

Hard pass;
- race play
- age play
- scat and golden showers
- blood, cuts, etc.

If this is you, pm me with a brief description of yourself. Remember to be yourself, if I’m not the one for you someone else certainly is! Good luck 😉🥰

Edit: DMs are now open🤭
Edit: don’t ask me to DM you if I’ve already asked you to do so :)

Hello everyone,

I'm hoping to meet someone local enough that seeing each other doesn't feel like planning an expedition. I’m looking for someone who’s is patient and kind.

More than anything, I'm looking for a genuine connection and to take things slowly, and let trust build naturally rather than rushing in. I'd love to find the kind of person you can message about your day, laugh with over nothing, vent to after a rough day, or simply enjoy comfortable silence with.

I want someone who feels like a safe place, a shoulder to lean on, someone who listens without judgment, and who enjoys getting to know each other beyond labels. Whether that's grabbing a coffee, watching films, going for walks, or just chatting for hours I'm looking for something that feels easy and real.

Hobbies include: reading, watching movies/series, colouring, baking, nature, Lego, puzzles, journaling, art and sleeping 😴

I have a chubby/curvy build, dark brown long hair with dark brown eyes. I’m kind, creative, and more of a homebody.

If you're kind, patient, emotionally mature, and value communication, we'll probably get along.

If this resonates with you, I would love to hear from you and we can talk about kinks, limits, hobbies and more. Race and ethnicity and age do not matter to me as long as you are 25+ (I do have a preference for older men 🤭)

Come say hello, message me with your location, age, and some information about yourself. Would love some effort that’s not just a boring hi.

Thank you for reading and have a great day 💓

We’re an easygoing young married couple living in South West London. We have been together for over a decade, and since the beginning we have been exploring kink. This started when we were first together in university and snowballed from exploring pegging to something central in our exploration of intimacy.

At the heart of our dynamic is Femdom: female-led power exchange, in both subtle and explicit ways. We explore that through practices like chastity play, pegging, CBT, orgasm control and denial, humiliation, and, cuckolding, which, for us, isn’t just about voyeurism or taboo, but about trust, vulnerability, and reconfiguring traditional notions of desire and control.

We’re are currently seeking a bull who is confident, emotionally intelligent, and aligned with our interests. Ideally someone who can become a consistent presence in this part of our lives. We are not typically fond of one night stands and prefer to avoid a revolving door setup with bulls. Our best outcome is a bull we can build a dynamic that’s equal parts chemistry, communication, and connection. Ideally, you’re someone who’s turned on by the eroticism and the psychology of this kind of arrangement. Someone who understands that intensity doesn’t require drama, and that pleasure is better when it’s grounded in trust.

Physical attraction is important, but we also want someone who we can have honest and easy conversations with. And also naturally comfortable with navigating power exchange without ego. Dominance without being domineering.

If you’re curious then drop us a message. No pressure, no expectations. Happy to just chat if needs be.

Hello everyone,

I'm hoping to meet someone local enough that seeing each other doesn't feel like planning an expedition. I’m looking for someone who’s is patient and kind. I don’t mind if you are more of a sweet dom or a sadistic dom as long as you are still a kind hearted person ☺️

More than anything, I'm looking for a genuine connection and to take things slowly, and let trust build naturally rather than rushing in. I'd love to find the kind of person you can message about your day, laugh with over nothing, vent to after a rough day, or simply enjoy comfortable silence with.

I want someone who feels like a safe place, a shoulder to lean on, someone who listens without judgment, and who enjoys getting to know each other beyond labels. Whether that's grabbing a coffee, watching films, going for walks, or just chatting for hours I'm looking for something that feels easy and real.

I have a chubby/curvy build, dark brown long hair with dark brown eyes. I’m kind, creative, and more of a homebody.

If you're kind, patient, emotionally mature, and value communication, we'll probably get along.

If this resonates with you, I would love to hear from you and we can talk about kinks, limits, hobbies and more. Race and ethnicity and age do not matter to me as long as you are 25+ (I do have a preference for older men 🤭)

So if you are a sweet Dom and a Sadistic Dom, come say hello, message me with your location, age, and some information about yourself. Would love some effort that’s not just a boring hi.

Thank you for reading and have a great day 💓

Hello!

I am a submissive seeking a dominant. I am 29F, blue eyes, blonde hair, buxom, short, feisty, dry (humoured). Looks wise ppl find me either super gorgeous or super ugly typically. I look like this if I had to describe it in emojis: 🔵👄🔵 so looking for somebody I can look at you like 💙🫦💙.

For me kink and romance are fundamentally intertwined. I am a masochist, who enjoys both serving and giving some attitude depending on my moods and my needs. I am seeking a sadist who is understanding, patient, but can give as good as he gets. I’m looking to listen to NIN and deftones making out having his nails drag across my ribs and telling me I’m soooo pretty but in soooo much trouble. I want to be chased with tea towels and whipped while I giggle in the kitchen. I want to wear your baggy t shirts while I cook you good food. I want you to take me to the zoo and watch me freak out then buy me a stuffed animal after and douse it in your aftershave so I can snuggle something that smells like you in case you’re unavailable saving the world / playing ice hockey / working to pay for my champagne lifestyle / going to get coffee on a Sunday morning. I’m looking for somebody who enjoys phone calls and quality time together. I have a stressful job that makes me work long hours and I don’t always wanna text. I like to fall asleep on the phone with somebody if he can’t be with me. Also if you fall asleep after me to make sure I get off to sleep I’ll love you forever. Let me yap to you about articles and books I read. Be a bit stoic but inside excited.

My main kinks include but are not limited to:

\\\* primal play

\\\* objectification

\\\* praise

\\\* breeding

\\\* whatever kink “grinding on his boot wearing nothing but pearls while he strokes my hair” falls under

\\\* whatever kink “every single sarcastic comment I said under my breath that I thought he didn’t hear being shouted back at me while I’m at his mercy”

\\+ more! But not everything I wanna post on here. Have to leave some mystery.

As well as being depraved menaces together, I would like to have cute dates. I want to put on a nice dress and go out. I want to make memories. Have holidays. Do normally coupley things. I miss cooking for / with somebody. I miss hugs after long days. Please be able to provide both a firm smack on the arse and humour my reality tv obsession. I also make the best passenger princess and promise to always bring haribo and wear a mini skirt. As a treat, he can have a drive in my car sometime (put your seatbelt on and ignore that squeaky noise).

I will not submit to you till we have met and had some dates. I do not do online dynamics. I am highly picky with my submission. I value consistent communication. If you’re busy, fine, we all get busy, but tell me that. I’m tired of being an afterthought to people.

I am quite independent in my daily life. My hobbies are reading, writing, belly dancing, gym, swimming, gardening. My free time is spent in coffee / book / vinyl shops. I like people watching and walking with my dog and then going for a caramel latte / pup cup after. I enjoy puzzles and it’s one of my favourite bonding activities to do together.

I am seeking a dominant who has a level of intelligence and isn’t afraid to challenge me and have conversations. I would like somebody who can do DIY things and teach me how to do them too. I like learning stuff and appreciate a partner who can complement me. Please be between 30-45. Chest hair preferred. Dry sense of humour.

I value consistent communications - texting, phone calls, then meeting up. Not interested in online or non-monogamy. I am looking for dating and hoping for marriage one day. Please don’t just block or delete your profile out of the blue. My heart can’t handle it anymore.

So why not reach out? It could be the best or worst decision of your life!

Feel free to reach out to connect or ask any other questions.

Mwah,

Your new favourite worst nightmare

xoxo

Hiya!
I’m looking for a submissive to build a long-term FLR with, someone who wants to obey and be devoted to me. I want this to start in person, not on a screen, regular dates in London/Greater London, showing each other our favourite spots etc. If you can’t meet consistently, we’re probably not the right fit, so don’t message me!

About me:
• Slim but curvy, dark-skinned
• Affectionate, nurturing, occasionally mean, ever so slightly a sadist
• Big on fashion, art, D&D, baking, writing, cooking, and learning languages

I love a needy puppy. Someone who wants to obey, who begs and whimpers, who finds domesticity and devotion genuinely fulfilling. There’s a bit of a Morticia and Gomez Addams thing I’m drawn to, that kind of playful, all-in devotion between partners. Obviously that’s not something I expect on day one, it’s something I want to see build naturally as we get to know each other and grow more consistent, but it gives you a sense of the ‘vibe’ I’m after.

BDSM is a lifestyle for me, not just something that happens in the bedroom. I like rules, titles, protocol, tasks, rituals, consistently set and consistently expected. On the kink side, I lean toward sadism, bondage, orgasm control, impact play, praise/degradation amongst other things. A sexual relationship is part of the picture, but it isn’t immediate, so if you’re after a hookup, this isn’t that.

I’m also into men who come across capable, put together, almost dominant in their normal life, work, whatever, and turn into a completely different person the second it’s just us. Needy, eager to please, all of that.

Looking for:
• Submissive, aged 23-35
• Monogamous
• Tall
• Able to arrange neutral spaces for play
• Must be able to verify with pictures early, I will do the same

Not looking for:
• PIV
• Toilet play, scat, or anything related
• Switches

If I just described you, what are you waiting for? DM me.

I am strictly a domme and not interested in being a sub

Hey I'm a 23 year old Domme from London. Most of my relationships have been with submissive men or involved some sort of kink in that direction and I am looking for a boy to use and abuse on a long term basis. I'm 5ft4, slim/semi-athletic, blonde, blue eyes. I read a lot, enjoy classic lit and scifi, am quite into film, like to cook, into history and culture, go to concerts, dance, run, work out. I go to church, do some activism and community organising, and generally keep myself busy. Saw Obsession and Carolina Caroline. Enjoyed The Boroughs and Widows Bay, watching House of the dragon and The vampire Lestat. I collect cassettes and like 80s, indie, electronic, synth, new wave and pop music.

Kinkwise I am into humiliation, bondage, verbal abuse, biting, spanking, scratching, blindfolds, control, CFNM, light CBT, SPH, edging, denial, post orgasm torture, I don't mind pegging, and probably a lot of other stuff. I don't go for scat, mommy stuff, feet, brattiness, no race play, no feminisation/crossdressing, or anything extreme.

I'm looking for a submissive guy in London or one who can travel and is willing to eventually bring this into the real world. I prefer guys aged 18-32, slim/average/fit/muscular, prefer an interest in sports or fitness, with a nerdy side, and a bit clingy. Deferential/respectful, with no ego or arrogance. Please message me and tell me about yourself, thanks.

Hey!

I’m 19, originally from Australia, but I’ve been living in London for the past five years because of my parents work.

I’m relatively new to BDSM, although I do have some experience and a good idea of what I’m looking for. I’m searching for a Daddy Dom who wants to care for and guide both a good girl and, occasionally, a bit of a brat.

I’m not looking for anything casual, short-term, or surface-level. I’d like a genuine long-term dynamic that becomes part of everyday life. I’m drawn to a dynamic centred around structure, guidance, and leadership, while still placing a strong emphasis on trust, communication, and care.

As your little princess, I want rules, routines, and tasks that motivate me to be your good girl and the perfect sub for you. At the same time, my bratty side does occasionally appear, so I need someone who is firm, consistent, and confident.

I enjoy the feeling of surrendering control and knowing I’m not the one in charge. My interests include humiliation, spanking and impact play, bondage (currently light but open to exploring more over time), edging, orgasm control, messy oral, deep throating, and anal play.

In terms of looks, I’m 5’2 and quite slim/athletic (easy to be thrown around), blonde hair and blue eyes. I’ve been told I’ve got a great ass but I want it bigger so train in the gym quite regularly and I’m a I’ve got a perky sets of tits. I’m also currently studying in London, but on break now until the start of my second year in September so thought this would be a great time for me to explore BDSM further.

If you’re aged between 25 and 35, based in the UK, and my post interests you, feel free to message me. Pls tell me what interets you about my post, your experience, and what you’re looking for. Once I accept also send a pic of yourself and once I’m comfortable talking to you I’ll happily do the same.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Ellie xx

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Hi reddit,

I’m a 30M based around the Welsh border/Bristol area, looking to connect with someone for either kinky play or a longer-term dynamic if we click.

I’d describe myself as open-minded, easy going, and curious. I’ve been involved in the local kink scene for a while—attending events and parties—and I’m always keen to explore more with the right person.

About me:

• Experience: Experienced Switch across a range of BDSM dynamics
• Interests: Latex (my favourite), bondage, sensory restriction, and transformation
• Switch: I enjoy both sides depending on chemistry
• I have a large latex collection (catsuits, hoods, etc.) and love the aesthetic and transformation aspect—whether that’s dressing someone up or being transformed myself

I also enjoy elements like power exchange, playful humiliation, and am open to exploring things like pet play or chastity with the right partner.

Outside of kink:
I work as an engineer and enjoy cooking, travelling, stargazing, and history. I’m equally happy going out for drinks or having a relaxed night in.

What I’m looking for:

• Someone open-minded, communicative, and respectful
• Interested in exploring a shared dynamic—whether casual or something more ongoing
• Bonus if you’re into latex/rubber, but not essential

Logistics:

• Can host or travel
• Happy to attend events together
• Open to chatting, sharing thoughts/fantasies, and seeing where things go

Hey! 

I’m 28, originally from Australia, but I’ve been living in London for the past five years because of my parents work. 

I’m relatively new to BDSM, although I do have some experience and a good idea of what I’m looking for. I’m searching for a Daddy Dom who wants to care for and guide both a good girl and, occasionally, a bit of a brat. 

I’m not looking for anything casual, short-term, or surface-level. I’d like a genuine long-term dynamic that becomes part of everyday life. I’m drawn to a dynamic centred around structure, guidance, and leadership, while still placing a strong emphasis on trust, communication, and care. 

As your little princess, I want rules, routines, and tasks that motivate me to be your good girl and the perfect sub for you. At the same time, my bratty side does occasionally appear, so I need someone who is firm, consistent, and confident. 

I enjoy the feeling of surrendering control and knowing I’m not the one in charge. My interests include humiliation, spanking and impact play, bondage (currently light but open to exploring more over time), edging, orgasm control, messy oral, deep throating, and anal play. 

In terms of looks, I’m 5’2 and quite slim/athletic (easy to be thrown around), blonde hair and blue eyes. I’ve been told I’ve got a great ass but I want it bigger so train in the gym quite regularly and I’m a I’ve got a perky sets of tits. I’m also currently studying in London, but on break now until the start of my second year in September so thought this would be a great time for me to explore BDSM further. 

If you’re aged between 25 and 35, based in the UK, and my post interests you, feel free to message me. Pls tell me what interets you about my post, your experience, and what you’re looking for. Once I accept also send a pic of yourself and once I’m comfortable talking to you I’ll happily do the same. 

I look forward to hearing from you. 

Ellie xx 

P.S. Send a 🫶 if you’ve read this far