20 [F4M] #London Domme looking for a needy submissive for a FLR
Hiya!
I’m looking for a submissive to build a long-term FLR with, someone who wants to obey and be devoted to me. I want this to start in person, not on a screen, regular dates in London/Greater London, showing each other our favourite spots etc. If you can’t meet consistently, we’re probably not the right fit, so don’t message me!
About me:
• Slim but curvy, dark-skinned
• Affectionate, nurturing, occasionally mean, ever so slightly a sadist
• Big on fashion, art, D&D, baking, writing, cooking, and learning languages
I love a needy puppy. Someone who wants to obey, who begs and whimpers, who finds domesticity and devotion genuinely fulfilling. There’s a bit of a Morticia and Gomez Addams thing I’m drawn to, that kind of playful, all-in devotion between partners. Obviously that’s not something I expect on day one, it’s something I want to see build naturally as we get to know each other and grow more consistent, but it gives you a sense of the ‘vibe’ I’m after.
BDSM is a lifestyle for me, not just something that happens in the bedroom. I like rules, titles, protocol, tasks, rituals, consistently set and consistently expected. On the kink side, I lean toward sadism, bondage, orgasm control, impact play, praise/degradation amongst other things. A sexual relationship is part of the picture, but it isn’t immediate, so if you’re after a hookup, this isn’t that.
I’m also into men who come across capable, put together, almost dominant in their normal life, work, whatever, and turn into a completely different person the second it’s just us. Needy, eager to please, all of that.
Looking for:
• Submissive, aged 23-35
• Monogamous
• Tall
• Able to arrange neutral spaces for play
• Must be able to verify with pictures early, I will do the same
Not looking for:
• PIV
• Toilet play, scat, or anything related
• Switches
If I just described you, what are you waiting for? DM me.