38 [F4M] #West Midlands seeking a natural dom for LTR and be at least 38
UPDATE: if the post is up then I’m still looking. thank you to the few people who did read my message. And please do not message asking if I’d like to meet a couple or you’re younger than the age I’ve stated or telling me your trunk size (it’s such a turn off)!I’ve the spent the day at work I genuinely do not have the energy to explain why.
Looking for someone who can be a gentleman and a rogue. Someone who values communication and intimacy with intention and consistency. Spending time together and getting to know someone and being silly and goofy is part of the charm. Not everything has to be perfect but you don’t stop trying. Old school romantic with a soft dom/pleasure dom streak. Being dominant come naturally to you and it’s visible in all parts of you. Additionally you’re seeking a genuine monogamous connection which is for life. I’m an all or nothing woman. You have experience to guide an inexperienced partner with training and guidance. With emphasis on communication, consent and aftercare.
I’m looking for someone who can lead and make decisions with the best intentions. As a man a woman’s submissive isn’t weakness but rather a privilege she has given you. It takes time, effort and devotion to build a strong unit and eventually after spending all day at work I’d love nothing more than letting my partner makes decisions. That kind of trust comes with time, respect and love.
I’m a single BBW and a Muslim. If that’s an issue kindly don’t message me. Organised, chaotic, loyal, thoughtful and cheeky. I work and study so my time is precious and looking for someone who values that. I’m not the loudest person in the room but i take abit of time to trust and open up. I believe things should grown organically between two people but neither should it take years. I do also have a princess side that is very playful and fun. But that part of me is hidden until I get to know you and trust you.
KINK: I will keep that private and for one person only. But I will say I’m not into sadism, degrading, extreme rough sex, anal or choking. I have some many things I wish to explore but only in a secure and safe relationship. My dom would be my partner, safe space and anchor.
Finally, the guy I’m searching for is at least 38 and local to Birmingham. I don’t wish to spend weeks messaging through Reddit or another platform but I want to take this into the real world with the right person. I’ve been let down by people that state ‘oh I visit for work and have a place etc’ but schedules and life can get in the way and cancelled meet ups lead to disappointment. Saying that if you do live further but have actual plans to move within the West Midlands and feel we could make something beautiful and long lasting then please do message me. Please do make an effort with your message and let some of your personality shine through.