I would love to fall asleep next to my partner and in the middle of the night wake up to find that his dick is inside of me and he's going to town pleasuring himself with my ass. Anyone else dream of that or is it just me? Too bad I'm such a light sleeper.
First let me say, I'm a bottom who prefers not to cum, so this question isn't coming with any judgment; I'm on your team. Can you tell me about why you prefer service bottoms that don't cum? Like what turns you on about that dynamic?
Been with my partner for 16 years; he's a total top and I'm a total bottom. Sex has always been and continues to be great; no complaints whatsoever related to how good he is at fucking me. And his dick....don't get me started. Amazing.
So for the beginning years of our relationship, I would cum during sex, either with him or after him. Then eventually it became less of a priority for me to cum, so I wouldn't jerk off during sex but still be 100% satisfied. He would dutifully ask me if I wanted to cum afterward, and sometimes I would say yes because I felt like I was supposed to cum, but then more and more I started to say no that I didn't need to. No matter which door I chose, he was happy to walk through together.
I got turned on to chastity a couple years ago when I started to realize how much pleasure I was getting from his orgasms vs. how little (comparatively) pleasure I get from my own. Now it's been almost 3 years that I've been locked and I love it. I stay in a constant state of arousal and I'm focused all day long on his dick. No matter what clothes he's wearing, I find my eyes wandering to his crotch, hoping I can see the outline of his cock. The only limit to the number of loads I would take from him in a day is determined by how many times he can reach climax.
I'm at a point where my pleasure is coming completely from pleasuring him and his cock, and the intensity of that feeling surpasses anything I feel when my dick is being stimulated. In fact, my own orgasm is pretty much a let down because it breaks that heightened state of arousal. I would actually love it if he told me I could never cum again, even if he's fucking me. Like maybe he requires me to warn him if I'm about to orgasm while getting fucked so he can pull back until I'm off the edge so he can finish filling me with his cum.
I've seen a number of posts and comments from bottoms who say they don't cum during sex, but they often go on to say they go home later and cum on their own. Is there anyone else like me who just prefers not to cum at all because they enjoy staying in that stimulated state?