r/TopsAndBottoms

Hello,

I will probably visit a sex positive party in my city today for the first time and obviously hope to maybe bring someone back home. So far I‘ve had only Grindr hookups when it comes to bottoming, so having a short douche 15 min before meeting was enough. However, I know that i only usually stay clean around 1 hour.

What are my options for tonight? Is deep cleaning the only available option to make sure i‘m clean for a longer period of time? If so, does it actually work? I‘ve heard different success stories, never tried it and i‘m scared to ruin my night (maybe i get cramps from it). I know its also not the healthiest, but it‘s just a one time thing I guess…

Other option I thought of is having a normal douche as always and taking an immodium pill, however, I will be drinking alcohol, is that a problem? Would appreciate any experiences.

Thanks in advance.

What can we say that make you go: "Damn, I want this man to crawl on top of me!" Looking for words or phrases that make the hole twitch and get you super excited about getting fucked and bred.

I want to experiment around with fetishes so suggest me some of your favourites.

So I’m 18 and mainly a bttm but when I’ve had sex I feel like I’m not doing it right or it’s not natural

Is there any more experienced bottoms or anyone who could help me with some tips or support xx

I would love to fall asleep next to my partner and in the middle of the night wake up to find that his dick is inside of me and he's going to town pleasuring himself with my ass. Anyone else dream of that or is it just me? Too bad I'm such a light sleeper.

So, I am only looking to suck. As you can understand, I am looking for someone that his dick is also appealing to me. Apart from face and body pics, I also want to see dick pics.

I have two questions regarding this:

How to ask politely to see nudes

If, I don't like what I am seeing, how to politely reject this person. I feel bad to reject someone whom unfortunately I don't find his dick nice

for those who have a hole you like to use and have used for a long time, or those who have a dick you’ve opened up for more times than you can count, tell me what about it keeps you coming back? the person it’s attached to, of course, but do you enjoy it as much now as in the beginning? what if anything improves for you about sex with this person over time? interested in your thoughts and experiences.

for me I think it’s hot to think about how much cum I’ve put in my boy over the time I’ve known him. he always wants more and his tight hole opens up immediately for me so it slides right in. I like the idea of rutting in someone again and again.

Bottom here, i was wondering what do you guys prefer the most and why? Im happy to read your insights.

Do you like when your bottom moan out of pleasure without control while taking you D?

I really get cock drunk very fast and then become a loud slut- my tops generally like it. But I wanna know if it’s ever annoying- I try to be a good sissy following His command, but I want to know if there are other things I should avoid?

Hi, my height (top) is 165 cm and my friend (bottom) maybe around 175 cm. What's best position short top, tall bottom?

Is missionary works? Because my friend really want to see my face during intercourse. Or maybe any recommendations for position for condition like me? Hehe

Bottoms or tops what your preference i know we talked before but im gonna meet with this guy i used to see and he always make me swallow i think ven told him i prefer facial so he did facialize me lastt couple times and i should be careful whit my choice since he cums heavy all
My face eyes eyebrows and hair got covered! So what’s your preference ??

Was it good? What did you guys do

ok so what is the deal with pinching someone else's nipples. the last 2 guys and the last woman i was with all pinch the shit out of my nipples and it does nothing for me...or more so the opposite it diminishes any excitement my cock has in a hurry. So please tell me what gives?

I’m a total bottom who doesn’t like to have my dick touched. I like to think that there’s only one dick in my relationship and it’s not mine. I like chastity and I prefer to only cum from anal stimulation, while the sex is all about my top’s dick.

Do tops like that? Or do you prefer a bottom who likes to have his dick touched? Any other preferences?

Bf really enjoys when I dom him during sex. I'm looking for ideas/dirty talk to tell him to drive him crazy.