r/TopsAndBottoms

Im 24.. total bottom, nothing beats a man flooding my ass. Prove me wrong 😘

I’ve always had difficulties with my prep like so many others flushing out is 50-50 that it really goes well. The only thing I ever found at worked was not to eat beforehand didn’t matter how I changed my diet recently. I decided to try this stuff Metamucil four and one even half a teaspoon of this stuff in water is horrible. Does anyone have any tips or tricks on making it more easy to take or any hints for someone who really hasn’t ever used it.

As a strict bottom, what are the types of things tops do or can do to please you the most?

Does anyone else prefer to be picked up (like a girl would be) in some public place instead of just arranging a sex meeting online? Meeting someone through dating apps doesn't turn me on as it's a little bit "artificial". Like, I'm writing to you and it's obvious I just want to get fucked.

The top fantasy to me is the old school way, where I'd feel like I'm being "hunted" in some way. As in, I'm in some bar or club, dressed a little slutty (skin-tight sleeveless tops are the best) and I'm being hit on by some handsome guy and MADE to be his. He uses his real-life attractiveness and confidence and cockiness to slowly make me more and more submissive. Get my waist grabbed, my drinks bought, treat me more and more like a girl kind of, and then, if you're good enough, take me to your home and put me in my place.

Like, the process of dominating me is the hottest thing in all of this and it starts long before the sex itself. The scenario where we skip it and I just find you on some dating app and go to your place already submissive does nothing to me

Is there anything that you put on that just flips the switch for you?
Me personally I like dressing and jock straps, and nice underwear daily
But when I put on a pair of thigh, high socks for some reason, it’s like someone has flipped a switch. Guy mode is gone.

hiii my best friend (also a bottom and 21) and i are gonna have a naughty bestie night tonight! does anyone have any sexy dares or ideas for us? down for anything ;)

I am 54 top and generally prefer younger bottoms 18-25. I have nothing against guys my age but when simply looking for a hookup and presented with options, I typically go with the younger dude. It is just my preference as they usually are more fit and attractive to me. I know it works the other way around as well because many younger bottoms I know are exclusively into older/daddies. Before fully coming out in my mid 40s I was repulsed by the idea of seeing an older man with a younger woman, however now exploring men it has become almost the norm for me.

In your experience how common do you have sexual encounters with significant age gaps?

I’ll go first; I’m a bottom and the riskiest place I’ve taken a pic is the showers in the gym, and they were the communal kind with no cubicles. On all fours showing my ass and hole, I jumped every time I heard the door go haha

I keep thinking about being forced to cum by a bigger top and then him using my cum as lube to penetrate my ass. Idk why it just sounds soooo hot

Which position tops love

I only want to bottom because my penis is small and I know I wouldn't make a good top because of it.

Myself Iam a small framed goth guy, no tattoos, but I do have facial piercings, I’m not trying to be passable, even though I do lean a little feminine, I just think that eyeliner maybe even a little mascara makes my green eyes the center of attention and makes me more attractive, I know all this is my choice and that I’m doing it as much for me as I am anyone else, but I was wondering how many tops actually liked a little makeup or if it was something that turned you off completely

I so don’t know what to expect. This will be my first time I’ve had a guy cum in me.
What should I do before and after? Thanks!

Would you be turned on or off when sliding in your whole meat in your bottom on the first try?

Do you like a relaxed hole or crave a tighter grip?

My ex was into my 11 size feet too much, especially after gym, taking my sweaty socks off, massaging them with his cute fingers, sometimes even sucking my toes. Is this a kink or fetish most bottoms share? Or was it just him?

Bottoms: what position surprised you by being the easiest for taking it? I figured doggy would be the go-to but riding actually lets me control the angle way better and it just goes in smoother.

As the title says... im pretty small... wanted to know if it might be a turn on for some!