u/No-Anxiety-3715

Bf really enjoys when I dom him during sex. I'm looking for ideas/dirty talk to tell him to drive him crazy.

Anyone else have a breeding kink? Bf and I basically never do side stuff only - sex for us is always bareback and breeding. We intermix some lite pregnancy talk (I'm going to knock you up; get my hole pregnant; mark me; I need your seed; etc) which drives me crazy.

If my bf wants to fuck he knows he just needs to start playing with my cock, and it's his. When I want to have sex, I like to tease him by wearing something that I know will make him cock hungry (tight basketball shorts that show crazy bulge, etc), or sometimes I'll just text him that I need his hole when I get home from work and he'll be ready for me by the time I get there. He likes to be commanded/ordered and I like spontaneity. How do yall initiate sex with your partner?

Tops and bottoms, what are your favorite positions? What are your opinions on other positions?

My bf and I enjoy missionary/lovers press the most. I like being able to pin him down with my weight when we fuck and it also helps me go deeper when I breed him. Also my dick naturally curves upwards so it stimulates his prostate more when we face each-other.

I feel like reverse cowgirl (or I guess cowboy 🤠) is hotter in theory than in practice, as I can't help but feel he's going to snap my dick in half if he pulls out too fast.

Riding is fine but not my favorite, definitely less sensation IMO.

Lazy sex while spooning or prone is fun - I enjoy slow and sensual fucking like this.

I like doggy but my bf doesn't. I think the angles don't work well for him and he can't accommodate for my girth as well.

How important is breeding to you? For my bf and I, it's essential. It basically doesn't feel like sex if it doesn't end with my load in his hole. We almost never do exclusively side stuff. He doesn't like when I jack off because I've essentially cheated him from a load. We also have a bit of a breeding kink - when we fuck, I tell him I'm going to knock him up.

For those in relationships or consistent fwbs, how often do you have anal sex? Bf and I go usually 4-5 times a week, with most of our sex on Fridays/weekends.

With casual hookups I always wore one. When met my bf over 5 years ago we didn't have sex until a few dates in. The first time we fucked, I went bareback and knew there was no chance of going back. I've been breeding him regularly since. The added intimacy and skin on skin contact is unbearable. Plus the primal satisfaction of filling my mate with my seed is just 🤤

When (in a relationship or hook up situation) do you stop wearing condoms if you ever wear one?

Tops and verse-tops, have you ever had vaginal sex? What differences have you noticed?

I identify as gay but had been with women before switching entirely to men. I don't miss vaginal sex (haven't had it in almost 10 years) except for the relative convenience compared to anal. I do think anal is more intimate and carnal - there's something deeply satisfying about breeding my man's hole that feels more animalistic than the vaginal equivalent.

Edit: Sincere thanks to our trans brothers, sisters, and siblings for their nuanced takes!

Do you prefer to breed/get bred before going out and doing stuff or after? Bf and I like before - it's like our little sexy secret knowing he's full of my seed. That said, there's always the risk of accidents (been lucky so far). Do others have a preference?

Been with my bf for over 5 years and haven't worn one since (and hopefully never will again). Used them for years and always had difficulty finishing with one. When I met my bf we had gotten tested and were on prep, so we have been barebacking from the start. Obviously be safe and clear with your partner(s) before deciding to have unprotected sex.

Fellow tops, how do you handle your dick getting sore after topping? Sometimes my bf will be on a cock rampage and want it multiple times in the same day. I'm always happy to oblige, but after a few times my dick feels literally sore. We use silicone lube which feels sufficient in the moment. Is there a moisturizing routine I'm missing lol? How do you work around this?

Was talking to a friend who was telling me about his new hookup buddy. He (top) and his hookup buddy (bttm) bareback but at the bottom's request, he always pulls out. I completely respect his hookup buddies boundaries, but just found this unusual since in my experience, everyone I've barebacked has insisted on being bred. Anyone else with this boundary or have similar experiences?