Hi, my height (top) is 165 cm and my friend (bottom) maybe around 175 cm. What's best position short top, tall bottom?
Is missionary works? Because my friend really want to see my face during intercourse. Or maybe any recommendations for position for condition like me? Hehe
So, my friend and I finally had sex. I'm a virgin (top) and it was my first time, while he's a bottom who's had sex a few times through hookups.
I was rock hard at first. We were kissing, cuddling, I was sucking his nipples, rimming him... he was incredibly hot, and I loved every second of it.
Then the embarrassing part happened.
I couldn't get my dick inside him. No matter how hard I tried, it just wouldn't go in. As I kept trying, I slowly started losing my erection. After that, I couldn't get hard again, and I felt so embarrassed. I even tried doing the things that usually turn me on, but nothing worked. I just couldn't get my erection back. :(
Eventually, my friend just jerked himself off while I played with his nipples. He kept telling me it was okay and that I shouldn't overthink it. But I am overthinking it. I feel so embarrassed that I don't even want to see him right now.
The weird thing is that we sext a lot and jerk off together on video calls, and that always gets me incredibly horny. I honestly don't know what happened to me.
I have a few questions:
- Can PrEP affect sexual performance? I took PrEP using the 2-1-1 method because my friend wanted me to fuck him raw.
- Could this be because I watch porn and masturbate too often?
- When I masturbate, I can stay hard just fine. But during actual sex, I couldn't maintain my erection at all. Could weak pelvic floor muscles be the reason? Should I start doing Kegel exercises?
- I read on Reddit that using too much lube can reduce sensation, and I think that might have happened. My dick started going soft after I applied a lot of lube. It felt like I couldn't feel much anymore. But isn't using a lot of lube necessary for anal sex?
- Should I consider taking Viagra, using a cock ring, or anything else to help, especially since it was my first time?
I'd really appreciate any advice or suggestions. This has been stuck in my head ever since it happened, and I honestly feel really embarrassed. :(
Hi, so i'm a first timer top (yeah i'm virgin) and i want to fuck my friend who had many sex before (he is bottom). What should i do? Any tips for this? 🤓
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I want to make this sex is good for him