u/Apprehensive_Clue656

So I’ve used anal toys and had some experience with pegging, I always prep in the shower and will penetrate with a finger when washing to make sure everything is clean and prepped, I’ve douched a few times as well. Never had a problem with being clean / the dildo staying clean but we have just bought a longer dildo to use. I used it solo the other day and did all the usual prep but there was some mess on the dildo when I removed it. Worried that with longer toy my usual prep isn’t enough. Any advice would be really appreciated (apologies this is a bit gross but just looking for genuine advice)

I’ve noticed it’s sometimes hard for me to get and sustain an erection when getting pegged. It does feel good and I enjoy it but I’ve noticed I can go soft or it’s a bit more work to keep the erection going. I don’t have this problem outside of this