FWB [40F] invited her hot co-worker [30F] for a 3some this weekend. It’s my [35M] first time and I’m overthinking it.
A month ago I [35 M]started a FWB relationship a new friend [40 F]. She travels with her work and when she visits this area we meet up. We’ve had 3 encounters and they’ve all been better than the last. We just click. A few days ago I get a message from her that she’s visiting this weekend and traveling with a co-worker [30 F] that I’ve never met and suggests a threesome. I calmly show interest and she reaches out to the co-worker. Co-worker thinks for a day and agrees. When I heard it took her a day to agree it made me a little cautious. In no way should this be a pressured situation. She’s more than welcome to join but no one’s going to be offended if she doesn’t. By the way, the co-worker is super hot and much much more attractive than me and my FWB. I suggested we all 3 go out for a bottle of wine or something to chat a bit before and both ladies shook me off and basically said, “Let’s just get to it.” 😳
So… the threesome is happening in less than 24 hours and I need advice. I feel like the hot co-worker isn’t 100% on it but might just want a story.. or has nothing else better to do… haha I really don’t know. My FWB is a wild sex kitten so she’ll be happy with anything. Oh… and this is my first threesome.
So, how can I make the co-worker feel comfortable? Should I focus on the co-worker to make her feel special or should I give her space so she can move at her own pace?
Has anyone here been in the co-workers position? What was going through your mind? What were your expectations from the other 2 in the room.
TL;DR:First 3some tomorrow with FWB and her very attractive co-worker. Co-worker skipped the "get to know you" drinks and wants to jump straight in. How do I balance making her feel comfortable without overbearing her?