u/Appropriate-Diver758

My hole does really loosen when I am really turned on and take some poppers. I was really tight (have always been a top until my bottom husband introduced me to arse play and I was like wow this feels great) and worked hard to relax (no toys etc just learning to relax my muscles) and now worry I am too loose. What kegel exercise regime do people use to keep their hole closed?

For example when I am bottoming, when I am super relaxed my husbands dick comes out as he is thrusting, which is ok but I want to make it the most enjoyable as he is mainly a bottom and trying new things for me and topping doesn’t come natural to him.