Hi everyone, thank you for giving this a read, I promise to keep my usual rambling to a necessary minimum.
My name is Matilde, and its safe to say that I'm fairly new to the dominant side of things. However before turning absolutely unhinged, I'd like to introduce you to normal, casual me as well.
A little background
Without getting into too much detail and inadvertently turning this post into a book, two of the most important things to know about me is that I'm fiercely independent, self-sufficient and quite far from being a "girly girl".
You see, I grew up at a rather remote place. I've always loved nature, hikes, camping, hunting and so on. There's a certain kid of beauty in exchanging a stable internet connection to a backyard that's as close to a national geographic set as one can get. All that's to say, that I've been quite the self-sufficient little adventurer since forever and I intend to remain so.
That lifestyle however does have certain trade-offs. For instance, I'm more likely to be chopping wood in a semi-dirty sports bra then wear a fancy dress to a dinner, so you gotta adjust your perception of sexy. Or whilst I look very good in a bikini the weather rarely allows me to indulge myself in too many days of just living in a bikini, which sucks because I do like feeling sexy.
All that's to say that I'm perhaps not the perfect princess you're looking for. Moreso the sometimes sweaty chick with the abs instead.
Femdom and bdsm at large
I believe I have started this post by emphasizing that femdom is a rather new thing for me, which is true in most aspects. BDSM and the whole dom/sub dynamic however is certainly not new. In fact I've been fairly involved, with most of my past relationships having some degree of such setup, and I've been also very actively involved in my semi-local bdsm community. But I've never really been in a dominant setting before.
You see, just a few weeks ago I've been at an event with a great friend of mine who took I on herself to introduce me to life as a sort of co-domme at her side, I guess. And I can't say I hated it. In fact it was quite nice.
And as an extension of my recent endeavours I've created this post to perhaps get a little more familiar with things from this perspective. Therefore, I can't stress enough, that I'm not looking for any kind of dedicated dynamic. At this time, I just wish to talk, and explore certain things. Perhaps, discuss certain elements of such a dynamic that could be implemented online... But above all I wish to build some kind of connection, however fleeting that may be in a purely online setting.
Of course that doesn't mean that you shouldn't talk to me as if you were talking to a dominant woman. In fact I'd very much appreciate that. Just know, that at this time I'm not looking for anything extreme or long-term.
I hope this wasn't too unbearable. If you wish to talk, please reach out and I'm very happy to have a conversation.