Things to do to your submissive
What I find exciting is a Dom asserting control over his submissive in subtle and aggressive both ways.
Some of these are
- Deprive your submissive with his favorite food from time to time
- not always but sometimes deprive him from ejaculation
- subject him to ice cold water upto an extent where he is frustrated and then praise his endurance
- make your submissive addicted to you (you need to figure out how)
- make him write something repeatedly sometimes twice a week or sometimes daily
- submissive slave poses keep your submissive in place. Make him do slave poses more often and tell him how you like him in it
- put your slaves in workouts, you can assert control over him, you can enjoy him struggling , he will look more attractive, he will become heavy-duty.
- subject him to impact play with his consent (whipping, canning , gutpunch, flogging, electro, nipple play) gradually increase the intensity
- create a morning ritual for him
- sometimes lock him in a cage or in a room (supervised)
- make him massage you
- make him wear a bag filled with weights and walk for long distance
- sometimes make him walk barefoot
- don't let him sleep fully clothed
- make him exhaust in every possible way
- every time you eat out, you choose his food.
- you choose his wear every time
- in this strict situation, he will sometimes cry and weep, it's normal, hug him and tell him to breathe through it, tell him that rules are not bending but you need to be stronger,
- praise his efforts
Please write in comments what your thoughts and experiences are.