Help please 😭
Heyy babes, I’m doing escort around 1 year ago, before that I was a completely normal girl, I was a little ugly as well lol but I have done many things and now I look and I feel hot.
I always have been very sweet, kind and calm person, now that I’m hot I feel I miss being more bad bitch and have lit attitude 😩
Because of this also I have more clients whom fall in love with me, they want to go to dinner with me, travels, etc
I’ve had 1 sugar in all this time but it wasn’t easy to me to build that relationship 😩 now that we broke up I want to cultivate similar relationships with those clients, but I feel that if I go to dinner with them or travel or keep texting them from outside, they just want free sex lol I think it’s because I’m too nice
I do escort because I really need the money and I rather to have 2k per day than travel anywhere
I already have travel a lot and I’m in a moment of life that I just want to achieve my goals
I have a client who I really like as a potential sugar but I don’t know how to control the situation and puts limits without him thinking I just want him to pay me and keep it too transactional 😩 bc I really like them and I’m willing to hang out outside
I know my problem it’s that because I wasn’t used before, I don’t know how to ask for things.
I would like for example him to pay me for the travel, or the dinners, or help me, buy me presents, etc.
Could you help me with some phrases that you in my case would use?
Any book, podcast, movie that you might recommend me?
Or maybe I’m looking a sugar in the wrong context/ platform lol!?