u/Ashamed_Analyst_7581

So I’m just about finished with my divorce, I haven’t been to a club in 20+ years. I’d like to start going back (I’m in New Jersey) but I have questions, if someone would belong enough to help me out?

When I ask about a “private” dance, and I’m told how much it costs, is a tip expected on top of that or is that just a bonus?

I’m a bit of an introvert, is it rude of me to tell a persistent dancer I’m not interested in her especially if I’ve only just arrived?

I don’t drink alcohol- is this frowned upon?

Again, thanks in advance for any help or suggestions!