Can a sub become a soft Domme?
I’m a baby girl/service sub to a Daddy Dom and I very much enjoy it. I never thought of or wanted to be dominant in a relationship. For many years I was married to a vanilla man and it basically became a female-led relationship, and it made me miserable. I guess IRL I’m pretty confident and assertive, and that’s why I enjoy being a sub so much, as it relieves me from the constant responsibilities and decision making that are part of my everyday life.
2 weeks ago I reconnected with an old friend, and we instantly felt a magnetic attraction to each other and were inseparable the rest of the weekend. We really enjoy each other’s company and have spend hours messaging each other (not sexy talk, as much as just sharing our daily lives and making plans for future travel). My Daddy is fine with this as we are all poly.
However, it immediately became apparent that my old friend is really into worship. In the brief time we spent together, he knelt before me several times and made a lot of anticipatory service gestures, which I very much appreciated.
I’d like to continue this relationship, and being spoiled and pampered appeals to the baby girl side of me, but I really don’t want to give orders and decide everything, and train a sub.
Has anyone made this work? I Suggestions for domme/sub dirty talk?