After being in a dynamic for a couple years, does anyone else start to wonder how vanillas can function without them?
Not to knock vanillas; what I mean is that I don't feel like I'd ever want a relationship without a dom/sub dynamic again, and it makes me sad that so many people have never and will never experience it or understand how intimate it can be. I wish it wasn't so stigmatized to live this way. Sometimes I just want to share with random people how much it benefitted my relationship and encourage them to consider it as well, but unfortunately I feel like the only people that will ever talk about this already know. There are probably so many people that would love to live this way that will never know because they're afraid of the taboo.
For clarification, I don't mean to exclude people (like a certain data scientist) who only engage in dom sub in the bedroom when I use the word "dynamic". Just as much intimacy comes from that, as has been made obvious from posts I've read. At the end of the day, this is mostly a post to express how I sometimes have the urge to share with vanilla people how happy this can make people, but we know that's too risky.