u/AutisticPook — tumbrall

Thank you to everyone that helped with my earlier post! A few people alerted me from the forum that I wasn’t showing up in the dashboard at all gor some reason and it seems fixed now! This is what I settled on! If there’s anything else I should change or add, let me know!

Also please let me know if there’s any issues with what I wrote in case it will get me banned! I tried reordering my photos but Seeking rearranges them every time a new photo is approved, so I gave up trying.

Edit: I’ve cleared up the errors in the bio section since posting. I think I was sleepy when I rewrote a few sentences it and didn’t notice the grammar errors 😭

u/AutisticPook — 22 days ago

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Some people were thinking I was a scammer or AI so I changed my main photo to a lower quality selfie. Prior, it was the red dress photo which is also the most recent (from a few days ago).

I also changed my bio because some people told me over DMs on here that it was long, so I tried to be more concise. All photos were taken within a 2-3 year span. All of these are photos my friends sent me that they could find (besides the selfies ofc). I don’t have any alternates from the same photo session unless they manage to find them later.

u/AutisticPook — 22 days ago

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I sailed the seven seas and bothered all of my friends while avoiding suspicion (because they know I don’t use social media) to ask my friends to send me all of the photos they’ve taken of me over the years. I ended up finding some that I’d totally forgotten about or never seen that are super nice. So, I completed my quest by uploading all of my new shiny photos to my profile.

And I thought that maybe I would get at least a *few* more views or favorites but it’s been pretty much radio silence. One person *did* reach out to condemn me for being a scammer out of the blue. Another person (who I had a lovely M&G with but felt the attraction wasn’t fully there for me) told me when they saw my profile, they immediately thought, “oh, here’s comes China with their AI.”

So, I tried to include two random, low quality selfies to help show that I’m real but I don’t know if it’s working. It honestly feels like my account is shadow banned more than anything.

Any advice?

TLDR; People think I’m a scammer or AI. I’m getting *less* attention than when I had a bunch of mirror selfies. Any advice?

Edit: Profile review link

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u/AutisticPook — 22 days ago

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I finally went outside—like I usually do—but this time I took photos, tried out my new favorite makeup style and everything!

My friends invited me to a nice rooftop bar and I figured it was the best opportunity to try. I’m not a big picture taker so they only took a few and I just kept my favorite one and deleted the rest. However, that came back to bite me in the ass.

The one photo that I love and adore won’t upload to Seeking because it keeps getting flagged as “misrepresentation.” This has happened with a few other photos I’ve taken as well but I only have a limited supply of good photos for my profile 😭

Has this happened to anyone else? Do I need to re-do my verification wearing the new makeup style (because I admit I probably looked hella bummy when I did it) just to get the new photos accepted or should I just cut my losses?

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