I’m a mid thirties guy, who after not looking for anything particular on the dating apps, matched with an incredible woman and took her on a few fantastic dates. It was clear from the beginning we both just wanted some stress free fun on the weekends, and ended up hooking up at my house on our third date after a night at a concert we both were fans of.
I never asked her about her relationship status on any of the dates or if she was actively seeing any other guys because I didn’t really care that much as long as we had fun together and enjoyed each other’s company. But on the morning after we finally hooked up, she let me know that she was actually a married hotwife and her husband lets her date other guys.
I didn’t really know how to process it at first that there was a husband attached to her, and I managed to be chill about it to give myself time to think about whether it is something I’m okay with being a part of in the future.
My biggest concern does not stem from any sort of jealousy that she’s with another guy, or that she won’t ever want commitment from me. Those actually blend well with my preferred lifestyle at the moment. But coming from someone who likes peace and serenity, I do get concerned about what happens if the husband develops a dislike of the hotwifing situation over time and then takes it out on me.
Have any of you ever experienced the bad side of a husband, and if I get the chance to meet him what type of personality traits should give me some reassurance that he isn’t gonna freak out someday about his wife being a hotwife?