u/Average_Dick_1

I've been with my wife for the last 11 years and I've been going down on her on every opportunity I get. Definitely, I enjoy it more than she does. However I've hardly ever been successful in giving her the top notch pleasure that she deserves. More often than not, she uses her trusty vibrator to finish.

I observed how she tries to use that and what part of her organ she uses it on and then I've tried to use my tongue on those parts but it's not just the same. I mean I know I can't compete with a vibrator's consistency. But is there anything I can do better to make her happy?

Can anyone guide me more anatomically?

PS: I've spoken to her at length but she couldn't give me any specific direction that I can use next time.