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My wife and I about 3 months ago were talking about oral. Specifically her receiving oral. She never asks for it but she loves it and says it’s one of the top orgasms she has.

We decided to make a friendly bet about her receiving oral. I asked if I had a standing offer each night to give oral before bed (except during her period) would she ever turn it down. She didn’t think so but I also joked that sometimes by the end of the night I could see her saying she’s too tired. She bet back that I’d be the first person to break the streak.

Here we are three months in where she gets an oral orgasm nightly

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Me and my wife have been together for 21 years now. We have a routine that we do every single day, the only times we haven't followed it is when one of us is too sick but other than that it doesn't matter how mad we are at each other or even tired, we always follow the routine.

I love going down on my wife, there's absolute nothing that makes me feel more satisfied and proud of myself than seeing her orgasm because of me. That's why this whole thing started, I get such a massive kick out of it (more than actual sex) and it's something so intimate that we both love.

Every day when I get home from work, I go down on her and depending on whether or not I get off, sometimes we have sex afterwards. After we've both orgasmed, we usually end up cuddling and either talk about our day, watch a movie or if we fought before I went to work/the night before, we work it out.

It's a strange strategy but the next time you and your other half are fighting, have sex before you talk about it. Going down on her, seeing how beautiful she is, remembering how much I love her and she seeing how much I enjoy making her feel good somehow reminds us both that we're both on the same team and makes negotiating and compromising so much easier.

We've had some pretty awful fights in the past and I'm not sure we could've gotten through them without our ritual but we're even MORE solid than the first day we got married and hopefully this strategy works for us for many many years to come. I just thought I'd post it on here to help other couples.

Here's a reply to this question from 13 years ago by Redditor cunnilingusthrow.

What a brilliantly vivid description!

Hey just wanted to share some experiences. I, 30M spent most of my life growing up in Ireland. I always enjoyed giving oral to women, but I didn't get to do it too often. I don't know if it was a cultural thing or Catholic guilt, but Irish women (the ones I met anyway) just didn't seem to want it that much, or often. Most of my enjoyable experiences were with women from outside Ireland.

The first time I realised how incredible giving oral could be was with a Brazilian woman. She pulled my hair, got me in a headlock with her legs and grinded on my face. It was incredible! I still think about her a lot even today and instantly crave giving someone head.

That was it, I was hooked! I read online somewhere that having a tongue piercing makes oral way more better and intense for the receiver, so I went out and got mine pierced shortly after that. My Brazilian partner agreed with what I'd read and she would have the most loud, earth-shattering orgasms I'd heard up until that point... My neighbours even complained once. 🤭

Alas, she went home to Brazil and that setup ended. As the years went on I met more women and continuously chased that dragon. I have had some amazing experiences whilst travelling, mostly through using RAOMD and local R4Rs. But last year when I was 29, I moved to Canada, I was unleashed and feel like I finally became the Cunnilinguist I was always supposed to be.

I moved to Canada last year in October and I've given head to 34 women across five different provinces since I arrived. It's been great. Everything from RAOMD to ONS I've been getting more than I need, but greedily wanting more, more, more! 😂

My favourite experience was while I was in a club in Toronto, I was going down on a woman and when she was done her friend asked to go next, and then another woman came over and asked to go next, unfortunately that was where the train stopped, but I could have stayed with that setup all night. 🫠

My whole thing now is free use! I've had two fwbs who I did this setup with, and I can't get enough of it!

So that's my story, from Catholic boy, to being a Cunnilinguist mostly down to the ever so keen women of Brazil and Canada!

So happy to have found this community, I hope you guys enjoy reading this post.