u/BigBobbyCrowbar

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As the title suggests, I am new to using this kind of toy and would appreciate your tips and advice on increasing my pleasure. Up to this point, I have only experienced a finger during a BJ. That blew my mind and I would like to explore what the potential is. Your thoughts and comments appreciated

I am an older man, married to the same woman for 30 years, suddenly on my own. I confess that I look at a large amount of all different types of porn nowadays. Also, I know from personal experience that oral sex performed on me is generally very pleasurable. Without considering the relative talent or expertise of my sexual partner , oral sex is enjoyable not just because of the pleasurable sensations in the penis but also pleasurable because of the intense intimacy of the act and the expression of warmth and closeness given by the woman to the man.

My question is, do many of the women reading this feel the same about receiving oral sex from a man? Do you find it oral sex extremely pleasurable? Are you disappointed when your man does not go down on you? I am a gent who finds going down on a lady extremely pleasurable for me. The intimacy, warmth and the direct connection to giving pleasure are a magnetic draw for me.

My question, am I being influenced too much by porn or do women find oral sex as pleasurable as I do?