So I am autistic and have some aversion to certain fabrics and clothing. Great for when I'm at home (My dad allows me space to be clothing optional) but more difficult when in public. I'm going to have to start wearing a bra soon I think, and just want to know if anyone has suggestions for sensory friendly panties or bras I could ask my dad to buy for me. Any advice helps. Thanks.
never done mfm before. so one guy invited me for a foursome. i just met him few days ago. he and his friend always do mfm together. i am pretty new to this. the lady is a milf. he know her and had done before. so i am kinda confused because im the noob here in mfm and i dont want a bad experience. is there any difficulties in mfm+ i have to knoe before? give me suggestions please
For reference , i took plan b almost 2 weeks ago which delayed my ovulation ( i believe ). Today me and my boyfriend were doing it , he had a condom on and we use the pull out method either way. We have no idea when or how, but the condom broke, as soon as he pulled out sperm got everywhere , and on my inner thigh but not close to my vaginal opening. I couldn't see anything as he was doing it from the back but i'm taking his word for it that he pulled out on time . Even if he did, i'm worried about pre cum, although he said he very very rarely gets that. I'm in a small village and i have no way of accessing plan b anymore . I felt little air bubbles leaving my vagina and now my underwear smells just like his penis ( i know because i gave him head and i was very close to it). This is the second pregnancy scare within 2 weeks and getting pregnant could ruin my life. I need peace of mind aswell as honesty.
hi guys! i have a question. i’m 5’2 my boyfriend is around 5’10/5’11. when we are in my bed it seems we can’t do missionary. his dick curves just slightly towards his belly but i was wondering if it’s not able to be done at all or if we are just doing it wrong. he is on his knees and when i’m laying flat down it doesn’t work. i’m sharing a home with other people so i don’t want him to stand at the edge of the bed and inconvenience others with squeaky floors 😅. does anyone have any tips to make this work??
M28.. been together 6 months, she (F28) has always told me she can finish 4 different ways… oral, hands, her on top and in missionary in a certain way.. I’ve managed 3/4 ways. I haven’t managed missionary yet for whatever reason which is bothering me, I do prefer missionary in and out as well anyway and I don’t see why the whole thing has to be just about her pleasure anyway when grinding doesn’t really do anything for me.
She’s made occasional comments in the past like “you can only make me finish when I’m in control” and has told me her ex could make her finish in missionary etc. bare in mind they were together for years… plenty of time to figure things out, could have only managed that for the last couple years for all we know???
But basically she’s making me feel like shit. So when I’ve tried to make her finish in missionary she’s like “always trying to make me cum in that position, if it happens it happens stop trying to force it etc” but then makes those other comments and essentially belittles me. Sex is now not enjoyable for me, become like a test, feel analysed and can’t perform how I normally would anyway… it’s also gone from the first two months being 4 times a week to once a week, 2 at a push. Dunno how to get over this because I feel like less of a man, and the infrequency is making me not last as long as I normally would as well which is also making the sex probably not as good as it would be because there’s less time to explore things etc.
Advice please. I have half a mind to end things because I’ve had plenty of partners before, never a complaint, and not saying I’m amazing but never been spoken to like this before….Especially hard when I love her very much, like properly love her a lot… but this is making me unhappy
I have chatted with many people who have done casual hookups here. A lot of them thought that as long as the man pulls out before he climaxes, it is safe to prevent pregnancy. It is NOT. Even a drop of precum can get the woman pregnant, and I know some who have.
So please take care everyone! Don't take chances.
Context:
I,18F, have never really fingered myself. I grew up in a religious household where it's looked down upon to masturbate, but I purchased a vibrator and I've been using it for a few years; however, I've always been too scared to finger myself.
I remember a couple years ago I was able to stick a finger or 2 in and it went all the way in, but now I can't even fully stick a finger in and I think it's mainly due to fear. I never really ventured outside of clitoral stimulation. I think my fear got worse after a past partner tried penetrating me but there was no prep (i.e. no lube and no stimulation beforehand) and it really hurt so after that I stopped trying to finger myself
This was just now, but I tried using a vibrator and then slipping a finger in. I was wet for sure,and the finger was going in but then it felt weird and I guess I got scared and then I felt resistance and it hurt so I took it out and then afterwards I got a bunch of anxiety and was met with more resistance so I gave up.'
I was with a guy (we've met up multiple times for this purpose) and we were dry humping and I felt the tip go in and there wasn't any resistance, maybe because I didn't expect it to go in.
Actual question:
All in all, how do I progressively overcome being scared of penetration? How can I ease myself into letting a finger in and so? I want to go to a gynecologist but because of my religious household I can't. I really want to be sexually active but I can't because of this. I see so many women inserting tampons easily and being able to masturbate and have sex easily and I want to be able to do that. Should I ask the guy I've been seeing to help me out a bit?
Married for 3 months, my husband and I still haven't achieved full penetration because he lacks basic knowledge about sex and body mechanics: after successfully managing his premature ejaculation with Dapoxetine, we are now stuck because in missionary he just lies straight and pushes forward without any hip movement, angle adjustment, or leaning, which makes entry impossible and painful for me, he have a 3 inch d*ck .. so when he hold with his hand it just disappears… and he has to get so close ( is it rit ? ) so I would love some practical advice on how to explain proper angles, hip thrusts, and alignment to him without hurting his confidence. Also im using water based lube it just go away quickly and stinks!
Me 32m and my partner 30f had a talk about the lack of intimacy we’ve been having. I want to be intimate more often, and at some point, she seemed to stop initiating things like cuddling, kissing, touching me pretty much in any intimate way, and it became concerning to me, so I wanted to understand why. The two big things that I learned from the conversation was she stopped initiating non sexual acts of intimacy out of fear it would lead me on when she doesn’t want sex, as to not put herself in a position to either have to reject me, or do it when she doesn’t want to, and risk building resentment towards me. While it sucks a bit because the result of that was me being left feeling unwanted in desired in an otherwise happy relationship, I can also understand, I know not everyone has the same drive. My best solution was to reaffirm her that I will not let her doing some of those things make me expect sex, and we’re gonna work on that.
The other part is where it gets tricky. I also brought up maybe not having to have full on sex all the time, and doing smaller things more often. Granted neither of us are really into getting or receiving head (as a guy, I know im in the minority there lol) however, I really, really enjoy hand jobs. This is where we ran into a road block, because without going into detail, she unfortunately has very serious past s/a trauma that makes handjobs and blowjobs a trigger. When she opened up to me, I was heartbroken to hear the details, and honestly made me feel awful for every time I hinted or straight up asked for a handjob, or her to even just touch me. So while that’s something I personally want to receive, I have no expectation or plans of asking her to do that anytime soon, and want to give her the space to try and resolve some of that in her own time and with therapy, which she said she would do, because she was very understanding of my needs and was sincere in saying she wants to meet them better.
So with probably way too much background, I now ask, any suggestions or creative solutions or sexual acts I’m not thinking of outside of PIV, Hjs and Bjs? Only thought I could think of is maybe cuddling/spooning with underwear or pajamas on, with some light thrusting or like dry humping. I brought that up to her and asked if that would make her uncomfortable in anyway, but she genuinely wasn’t sure and was open to trying. It might be kinda sad, idk lol, but I get horny pretty easy, and am so attracted to her, I could probably get off doing that. But any other ideas would be greatly welcomed and appreciated! Only thing to keep in mind and she’s not gonna be into anything freaky deeky haha! Thanks
In advance fellow redditors!
How am i not pregnant??? My bf 21M and I 19F have had unprotected sex since the very first time we were intimate together. He doesn’t pull out and i haven’t been on any form of birth control since the end of February of this year. The amount of times he’s came inside me is crazy and i’ve still gotten my period we’ve had sex on potential ovulation day and still am not pregnant. Not saying we are trying but we aren’t preventing it either. I just don’t understand and i don’t want to listen to the part of me that thinks i won’t be able to get pregnant bc im not looking to go down that road right now.😅
i’ve been dating my bf for a year and a half, we’re both 18. we have been having sex for almost a year, and not once has he ever finished with me. i have asked him probably four times if he masterbates, and everytime he told me no. i genuinely found it hard to believe he’s never touched himself, im not trying to make fun of him but im confused as hell!
last night i asked him again, clarifying i am not making fun of him, im not judging him, but i just want to know what HE does that im not. he admitted he only just started masterbating around march, but says it might’ve been december? lol ik this seems silly im trying to make it make sense to myself. and he says he makes himself finish!! so every time he’s said he’s never finished, or “maybe once or twice”, he was just fully lying to me. why? why can’t he finish with me?
I finally got my dildo in the mail and when I tried to grind my ass on it and get the tip to be on my ass and kinda like tried to grind into the tip, it wouldn’t work like how my other dildos do. I can’t buy another and I REALLY like the one I bought and I’m attached to it.
what positions can I try to make it work or make it easier to slide in? does anybody know any diy tutorials on how to make a dildo mount with stuff you own from home?
I started using dating apps to explore and meet people i talked to multiple guys but I always say no to hookups even though i want to lose my virginity the reason is that can’t trust random people online .
So i take my time to know the person before meeting them and there was that guy who i found very attractive and my type and i enjoyed conversation with him and he admitted to me that he was virgin i was so shocked because he’s really good looking and seemed confident over text.
I decided to give him a chance when i first met him in person he was really shy i thought it was cute and i kissed him at the end of the date we met like two times after that once at park then at his house we did only cuddle and kiss tho.
He asked if i wanted to do more i said no cuz i wasn’t prepared that time after that we started dirty texting he got me really horny and excited to see him he told me that he wants to eat me out and to pleasure me.
Before seeing him i shaved my whole body and I was 100% ready to do it when i went to his house he was like weird to me he seemed sad i couldn’t understand him but he still kissed me and i removed my clothes he did only remove his shirt.
We were still cuddling at the point he left the room not once but twice without saying a word I was like wtf then comes back normal I was still waiting for him to do the thing he told he would I touched myself then stopped before he enters the room and when he came back to the bed I told him to lick my finger he was like no that’s unhygienic and said let’s do something else .
I was so shocked and I felt lied to so i eventually cut him off after that.
Guys is it possible to make someone pregnant if you cum near in her vagina with no penetration at all, I was on top of her and she was naked while I was masterbating, and I shoot it all over her and I think a semen landed near or in her vagina but just a very small drop and im really not sure if there is, I ask her multiple times if she felt something that drop in her vagina but she is positive that there is none and im kinda freaking out since her last lmp was on july 7-13 and now its aug 7 and she still don't have period yet.Pls don't scold me Im just trying to learn this things and we are aware that sex with no condom can make you preggy even tho there is no ejaculation and thats why we didn't have any penetration at all
Are women easy to get pregnant generally? or not?
Like I know for a fact that It only takes one sperm to get someone pregnant, but was it really that easy?
Cause I've read some stories that they can pregnant even though they didn't have sex at all and they commonly blame the fingering, genitals rubbing, ejaculation in vagina with no PIV and so on and somehow im in this situation right now asking of those said situation are really something to be freak out and how likey they happen since when I search for a document case almost nothing shows up
hi i’m a 1 6 year old male and i have been thinking about sex since i was young and i can’t stop thinking about it. the weird thing is is that i only want older men to take care of me 🍆 and just have sex with me all the time. like older older men. i can’t find anyone to have sex with me so im having to take care of myself. all i want is an older man.
is this normal ?
Is anyone able to give tips/advice on how to spice up a hj in anyway or what makes a good one as I’m not 100% comfortable with giving a full on bj yet.
I know to some people hj aren’t all that as they can just do it themselves but it’s the only thing I feel comfortable with doing at the current stage of my relationship.
I know people recommend lube but what if there isn’t any to hand in the moment?
So overall, I just want to know what can make the experience more enjoyable/memorable. Thanks!
I'm a male, with a girlfriend and we have been having sex for quite a long time now. I've always really wanted to go ballsdeep in her and she has already told me that she would be okay with that. The only problem is that that i was wondering...how do you even go balls deep??