u/Present_Housing_3593

Is anyone able to give tips/advice on how to spice up a hj in anyway or what makes a good one as I’m not 100% comfortable with giving a full on bj yet.
I know to some people hj aren’t all that as they can just do it themselves but it’s the only thing I feel comfortable with doing at the current stage of my relationship.
I know people recommend lube but what if there isn’t any to hand in the moment?
So overall, I just want to know what can make the experience more enjoyable/memorable. Thanks!

I really like someone but I feel like it’s gonna go really fast as he’s older (I met him 3months ago), he’s touched my upper body(I’m okay with that) but I don’t want anything bellow the belt just yet which he’s sorta tried as he’s unzipped my shorts twice but my body language has given him the idea im not ready for that. I feel like im not ready because I know he’ll expect something in return and idk how to do that but it’s not that I don’t want to it’s just idk how - I feel like I’d rather just skip the foreplay and do the real thing but I feel so inexperienced and don’t know how to do anything