u/National_Milk9587

i’ve been dating my bf for a year and a half, we’re both 18. we have been having sex for almost a year, and not once has he ever finished with me. i have asked him probably four times if he masterbates, and everytime he told me no. i genuinely found it hard to believe he’s never touched himself, im not trying to make fun of him but im confused as hell!
last night i asked him again, clarifying i am not making fun of him, im not judging him, but i just want to know what HE does that im not. he admitted he only just started masterbating around march, but says it might’ve been december? lol ik this seems silly im trying to make it make sense to myself. and he says he makes himself finish!! so every time he’s said he’s never finished, or “maybe once or twice”, he was just fully lying to me. why? why can’t he finish with me?

hi to anyone who sees this. i’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half, we started having sex almost a year ago. not once has this man ever finished, not during sex, not head, not anything. i have tried asking him what i can do better, i feel like we have tried it all. this is my first relationship, i want to make him happy. he tells me that making him finish does not matter to him but i just wanna know, y’know? thanks.