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Sometimes I ask myself why because I don’t have a nice body at all, so I can imagine myself in scenarios with people but why on heart these people would want to do it with me lol ?

Ps I’m lesbian

My friends talk about O like if it was super rare like it happened to theme one or two time in their life and it was something extraordinary, but I feel like I have multiple O every time I touch myself so for a long time I thought that it wasn’t that but I think it is now but it just surprise me because it’s happen a lot and I have multiple in a row, my friends told me it wasn’t that because it’s impossible ?
I’m a 21 F

I’m a 21 y F and I am a virgin I idealize so much sex I m scared to be disappointed when I’ll try it,

I had at 19yo preliminary with a guy and I hated it (didn’t feel anything and it was emotionless)
and I know I shouldn’t take this exemple as a answer but I’m still scared

I am lesbian (or pan I don’t know) don’t really feel attraction towards men

Hello, i am a 21 f lesbian and I need some advices, first of all, I’m a « virgin » I never had sex I mean the only experience I’ve ever had was a one night with a guy 3 years ago ( we only make forplay, but I consider foreplay as sex (I don’t really like the heterosexual vision of sex being only raw penetration)

But virgin with girls

So recently I girl openly flirted with me and sent me a lot of hints about wanting to have sex with me wich I REALLY WANT, but oh my god I’m so shy it’s horrible, we were at my house on my bed talking and she kinda explicitly makes references about it, and I don’t know why I am so wierd when it came to flirting I just feel so awkward and I act like a child I make joke about it and I never take myself seriously I uncomfortably laugh at everything she said, while In reality being desperate about have sex with her, but I don’t know why I’m a that scared, the only time I had sex was because I had literally no step to make the guy just jump on me lmao

I am scared of many things, being naked in front of someone I’m so insecure it’s painful, i am also scared of receiving; the only time I had sex with that guy was so bad I just spent the night faking having a good time, that night make me kinda loose hope in sex and I feel like it overrated, I know a bad experience shouldn’t give me an opinion on it but I can’t help but being scared to feel nothing with her, because I literally felt nothing with that guy I really thought I was broken or had a problem for weeks after, well nowadays I know that it’s not the case because it’s great when I do it alone, but about that I’m also scared when I do it alone Beauce I don’t know how to explain it but I stop so quickly, like If it was to much to handle I don’t know it’s weird,

Literally how do one learn to flirt ?? I feel like I have 0 sex appeal😭 how do I start I wish I was the flirty kind instead of the super shy one