u/AydanWolfe

my partner (27NB) and I (37NB) are considering looking for a man for a threesomeish type dynamic. the catch is that my partner doesn’t exactly want to be touched or penetrated by whoever we end up finding. they are curious to watch, direct, and receive pleasure from me, though.

that’s left us/me with a few questions.

1. how do we communicate this on an app profile without the profile reading like a novel?

2. what rules might be important to set to maintain boundaries around a dynamic like this?

3. as the person “in the middle”, what can I do to ensure that my partner and the third party are comfortable, having fun, and are getting something out of the experience?

I appreciate the advice in advance!