u/Background_Dog_3509

I am masculine presenting and pretty comfortable in my usual more dominant role

But... every once in a while an older woman looks at me or does something fairly innocent like touch my arm doing a conversation and i forget how to function and just turn into a mess

I think it is just the confidence, presence and self-assurance that gets to me it doesn't feel like a fetish more like something that is deeper in me and comes out naturally

Would love to hear other people's experiences or perspectives with age dynamics in BDSM spaces - especially from older women themselves. And honestly, are there femme dommes actually into mascs? Because I feel like I rarely come across that dynamic and I’m curious if other people have noticed the same thing?