u/Background_Entry_212

I was having a M&G yesterday with a POT SD at a hotel lobby restaurant. Everything went well and we left the restaurant together and he offered to send me back to the nearest train station as I was taking public transport.

When we wanted to leave by the car, he noticed his second phone had gone missing so he went back to the restaurant and asked the hotel staffs to check the cctv. While waiting he asked me to locate his phone using a weird website and I did because he was pressuring me and kept muttering how depressing that was (losing phone) and it showed his phone was 2 hours away from us. Obviously wrong lol but he believed it anyways

All the time he kept asking different hotel staffs although they told him to wait. I understand this part as of course he is frustrated. After around 40 minutes, the staffs came and said they couldn't see where we were sitting as the cctv pointed somewhere else so he kept saying how he was disappointed with them. (Plus they said he needs to lodge a police report to view the cctv footage)

Last night at 9pm he texted me saying the phone was magically found inside his car compartment and he had an idea on who put it there. This is what he said:

"Well all indirect evidence points to you as the one who put the phone in there although i cant prove it".

"Well i dont expect you to easily admit..so lets just leave it"

"I just need to be super careful with women i meet in sb"

The phone is just a really old model, maybe I can get a few hundred bucks from selling it but hey I am using a way even more expensive phone. Not to say I have money but I am not a desperate woman looking for fast cash.

I was talking to a POT SD. Our expectations aligned well and it was great. He told me he is a HNWI so he can't meet me in public. I couldn't care less if he is or isn't but he suddenly asked me to meet him at the lobby of his penthouse.

Moreover, he said if we're comfortable after talking at the lobby, we could go upstairs to his unit. The way he worded it was as if we have chemistry we should get physical on the spot and if we don't then we should skip. Obviously I would decline intimacy during the first M&G. He then added that tomorrow he will be heading to another country for work so his time is limited.

Knowing this isn't something I want, I just politely said we're both not compatible.

We started talking last Thursday and ended our text that day because we agreed for a M&G. Two days ago, he reached out to plan for the venue and time. Things went well and we asked a few simple questions such as our background and ethnicity.

Today I asked for confirmation and he said he might be slightly late (we planned the meetup around 8pm at a rooftop bar) and I was okay with it. He then said he have arrived at his place at 7:30. At 8:15 I told him its raining and he just replied with "I know".

After a few minutes I initiated the conversation by asking his eta. No reply. I thought since he is home, he can let me know when to expect his arrival at the meetup venue. Can't wait much longer I cancelled the M&G at 8:50 because my place takes around 45 mins to reach the venue. He just read my text.