u/Baconbrother5

Hello everyone! As the title says, I am a 19 year old trans girl living in Alabama who is looking for a long term relationship with a dominant woman. I am extremely open to moving away from Alabama to be closer to my partner should things work out, and would even prefer it if possible in the future. I am NOT making this post for sex, kink satisfaction, or anything quick or short term, so if that is what you are looking for in a sub, please look elsewhere. Sorry but I had to get that out of the way <3.

General Information About Me.

Now for some things about me! Starting with Hobbies, most of my spare time is spent playing video games, and I would absolutely LOVE it if I could find a domme to play video games with me and bring our dynamic into it. Outside of that, I like drawing, singing in choirs which I do a lot of, and literally anything to do with D&D (I'm listening to a D&D video in the background while writing this, Pointy Hat is the GOAT). Some of the video games I enjoy are Minecraft, Warthunder, Valorant, Helldivers II, DayZ, Genshin Impact and a LOT more, but those are my current favorites, and I am very open to trying new games.

I also really really enjoy baking! Some of my favorite things to bake are banana bread (I always add chocolate chips to mine), gingerbread, pancakes, and chocolate chip cookies! I also cook in general a lot as well, and I like improvising meals whenever I am bored and hungry.

I am currently a college student so a lot of my time is taken up by schoolwork, but I am an online student so my schedule is flexible, for the most part. I am planning on getting my first full time job over the summer, and I am hoping it goes well despite how terrifying the concept is to me. I am majoring in Business Administration (I know, a great major for a sub lol) but I am considering changing it after I get my Associates degree.

My appearance!

Before I get into my appearance I would like to state that while I identify as a trans girl, I have not begun transitioning yet, and this includes my voice. I will be unable to do so until I can move away from my family, as they are transphobic and homophobic to an extreme degree. Once I can move away, my appearance will most likely change once I start transitioning fully to a girl, so please take that into account.

Now that that's out of the way, what I actually look like! I wont share pictures here, but if things are going well between us I will gladly share pictures of myself a little down the line. I am... 5'11"? 5'10"? It has been a while since I have measured my height, but it's somewhere around there. I weigh around 160 lbs. so I am on the slim side. I have blue eyes and dark blonde hair, and I have been told I have a nice voice, but I will let you be the judge of that.

I do struggle with anxiety and decision making, especially in social situations, so having someone in my life who is confident and assertive and knows what they want, and what is good for me would be absolutely incredible.

SURPRISE SECRET PHRASE TIME! If you do end up deciding to reach out, please include the phrase "Roll For Initiative" (hehe D&D reference! ...sorry) somewhere in your message so I know you read my entire post. I apologize for doing this but better safe than sorry, and I sincerely appreciate the effort you put in if you read this entire spiel and still decide to reach out!

Oh and also, if your partner having a... 'sausage' is a must for you, I do not plan on getting bottom surgery in the future, so there is no need to worry about that!

What I'm looking for in a domme.

Ah gosh, I... hate this part, because being picky and assertive does not come naturally to me. I'll just start with the basics though, and see how it goes.

For age range, I would prefer someone closer to my age, but really anywhere from 19-25 is acceptable. Older women are hot and all, but for a long term relationship someone closer to my age is a must. I am not terribly picky about location, but somewhere in the US would be greatly preferred as it would make it easier for me to move closer in the future. Although if you are from Alabama by some chance, I could be convinced to stay here instead. As for appearance, I am not terribly picky other than just please be healthy and somewhat attractive. (Bonus points if you are Asian, I have a thing for Asians >.<)

I would love someone who is a gentle and affectionate domme, someone who I will adore and look up to and look forward to submitting to and servicing in the future. I also love having a partner who is very teasing and flirty, and who will bring our dynamic into most of our interactions. Possessiveness is very very very attractive to me, but only to a certain extent. I like a possessive partner, but I also need to be able to maintain friendships and spend time with other people while still maintaining a relationship with my domme. I would also like someone who is willing to take things slow and get to know each other before creating too much of a dynamic between us, as taking things fast is very difficult for me.

Kink Time!

Before I get into this section (starting to realize just how many of these 'disclaimers' I have in this post... I apologize about that, but it must be done), I want to make it clear that sex and anything of that sort is very difficult for me due to past experiences, and if things work out I will explain more on that in the future. Sex is something that I want to do down the line, not right away, and I need to be very comfortable around you before it happens. Please take this into account before messaging me.

Moving on! Kink list time!

Kinks I like:

Pegging, feminization (for obvious reasons), being tied up, sensory deprivation (i like this a LOT), pet play (to an extent, but I would love to be clicker trained >.<), hypnosis, and praise. Other than that I am open to trying new things, as long as it isn't too extreme.

Hard Limits:

Scat, blood play, anything with a lot of pain, too much degradation (I'm okay with a little bit as long as its mostly playful), and anything that's controlling to an extreme degree.

I sadly don't have access to any toys or anything of the sort, yet, but perhaps in the future I can find a way to sneak some past my parents.

Finishing Up.

Some closing things!

My preferred communication method is Discord, and if I think things are going well I will share my Discord username after chatting for a bit. I am open to communicating on different platforms but most of my time is spent on discord so I will find it difficult to respond on other platforms.

Please don't be shy when reaching out! If you have any questions or if I forgot to mention something in this post (I absolutely did I am SO forgetful) please feel free to ask me about it! Now on that topic, please put effort into your introductory message when reaching out, and tell me a bit about yourself instead of just a single sentence. I look forward to talking to you soon! Or if you just want to chat at all, that's great too, I don't mind in the slightest! I also have a very slight and totally not overboard obsession with foxes, so if you really want your message to stand out, maybe include a picture of a cute fox or something! :3

Oh also my preferred name is Tatsuki, or just Suki for short.

I am posting this right before going to bed, and I will be checking back in as soon as I wake up, so if I don't respond for a while, fret not! I am simply getting my sleep in, and will reach out as soon as possible. Thank you for reading all of this, I know it's a LOT to get through, and I sincerely appreciate the effort you put in. I wish you good fortune and fair winds in whatever life brings you!