Role Shift
My wife called me a "pleasure dom" early on in our relatjonship. Which I guess is true in a way. I can't get off unless I know for certain she has. And I can make hers chain together until she's gasping for air literally begging me to give her a breake. And I feel sense of power in being able to do that.
But she has also been leaning really hard into taking on a dominant role in puppy play. Like, really, *really* hard.
Despite specifically saying she *hates* submissive men.
She likes it a little rough so I think maybe she does it because she thinks I hate it and she's just being a brat, but I don't have an aggressive bone in my body so my inner golden retriever is just wagging his tail at every "good boy" he hears.
Thinking on it I think I might just be a sub with a praise kink.