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I’ve posted before about my FWB I visit when I’m in China. Im a white man that speaks Chinese, goes there for work now and then, and at the end of trips I bring my FWB to whatever city I end in. We hang out over a weekend, eat good food, travel, and have sex. I prefer meeting her consistently rather than just random hookups because she’s genuinely a good friend of mine, hot, great in bed, and we have mutual kinks. Two kinks are relevant here: I send her some money to buy clothes for her to dress up in (refer to the handcuff story I posted last week), and during each trip we film one of our sex sessions. This creates a memory we hold on to, but allows us to stay in the present and enjoy each other for the other sessions.

This trip coincided with Dragon Boat Festival. I told her I had actually not had the privilege of having sex with a Chinese girl in a Qipao yet (traditional clothing), so we picked one out for her to wear, and thought doing that on the holiday adds a little extra spiciness. It’s a tight black silk Qipao, which complements her favorite pair of black high heels. We went to some local sites that day, took pictures for her social media, and when we got back to the hotel we got to business and had one of the best fuck sessions we’ve had, of what half was in front of a camera.

She reached out to me over the weekend with something interesting, she said a male friend (Chinese) asked to see the video. She’s pretty open about discussing her sex life and has told her friends about me and our agreement, but I didn’t know she shares it with guys too. She had actually mentioned this guy to me before, that apparently he has a cuck and humiliation fetish and in the past he’s sent her money for her panties, socks, etc. she reached out to me to ask if I’m okay if she sends him our video. I told her not to send it raw, it needs to be reasonably edited to preserve our identity (or at least mine, she doesn’t seem as hung up about it). She sent me clips instead, which I reviewed and was okay with.

There were four in total:

1. A two minute long clip where she is kneeling on an ottoman in front of a mirror, takes my pants off, and makes out with my dick before a blowjob
2. A three minute clip of me fucking her from behind while she is holding the camera into the mirror. My favorite or me and her of all time, some of our best dirty talk of all time in that video.
3. A brief clip of her on her back looking into the camera while im fucking her off camera. Hard to describe to be honest, but her facial expressions are sexy.
4. A second two minute blowjob video where she is on her knees and I’m fucking her face. I slap my dick on her face and she very audibly chokes on it while trying to deep throat me.

She said she sent it to that guy but I don’t know what the response was but it’s a fun and powerful feeling knowing that there’s a guy out there that paid a girl money for the privilege of seeing her get fucked by me.

This morning it dawned on me…how much did she charge that guy? I asked her and apparently they agreed on 100 RMB per minute, a total of seven minutes for 700 RMB. I joked I should get half, and she responded saying next time she’ll use the money to buy us a drink at a bar on him.

I light-hearted WMAF story to start our Monday.

So I’ve posted before here about my Chinese FWB. Im a white man that speaks Mandarin fluently that sometimes travels to Asia for work. When I ’m in China for work, I take a few days off at the end and travel with my friend Monique. Our agreement is that as long as both of us are single at the time, I’ll pay for a train/plane ticket and she meets me wherever I’m at, and we take a weekend and explore a new city together. I take her to nice restaurants, see the sites, take pictures for her, and we have a great time. We get along very well, and of course, we fuck a couple of times a day too. We have great sexual compatibility and genuinely enjoy spending time together. And as a girl who lives in a small city with limited English, she loves getting to meet a white guy who takes her on vacation and live our her WMAF fantasies (she has told me she brags to her friends about it).

One kink we share is that we love to dress her up. We plan some sexy outfits and I send her some money to pre-buy them. I take pictures of her that she posts on her social media and she does little TikTok (Douyin in China) dances that she likes to post. When all of that is said and done, I get to enjoy her in those outfits first hand. We pick a couple outfits out together before my trip, but I also encourage her to “suprise me” and love the anticipation of what slutty outfit she picked out to have sex in. For this trip, she teased me that she has something new and different she wants to try.

I was in China earlier this month and we met up. She came out to the city I was in and spent the night, and I booked a nice hotel for us in a nearby city neither of us have been to that we would celebrate the Dragon Boat Festival in. After our first night together, we went to the train station the next morning.

We got to the train station and had to go through security. I had to go through a different line to have my passport manually checked. After going through security, I was surprised she hadn’t beaten me through. I saw her a couple of lines down, and saw security taking her small suitcase and pulling her aside to go through it. I went up to the barricade nearby to wait for her.

The security guard opened her suitcase and after rifling through it, pulled out a pair of handcuffs. Not fuzzy pink handcuffs or cheap stuff you buy online, these looked like real legitimate metal police handcuffs. I saw her face get red, a mix of embarrassment and anger. She started to argue with security and a second guard walked up. I had no idea she brought that. Like an idiot, I wondered to myself why shes traveling with handcuffs for a second. Hearing the snickers of people nearby seeing what was happening reminded me why she brought these and what she certainly had planned.

(Note - I speak Mandarin and all of this happened in that language, but putting this in English here)

After a minute, I heard her start yell at the guards repeatedly “It’s just a toy! It’s just a toy!” I couldn’t hear their responses, but it was clear they weren’t going to let her through security with it. After a while of this, people started to stop and stare because she was beginning to cause a scene. A Chinese guy behind her in security saw me and laughed and said to me after getting through “Wow, your girlfriend really wants to keep those handcuffs”. At least a dozen people had stopped to watch the argument and laughed at the image of this hot Chinese girl trying to insist on going through security with handcuffs to go on holiday with the white man traveling with her.

Monique started looking at me for help as if there was something I could say. I yelled back at her “Just let them have it, I’ll buy you another”. I heard someone nearby who had stopped to watch the argument laugh out loud at that. People started to stare at me too, and the picture surely formed in their minds as to why she wanted to keep those cuffs. She finally gave up and stormed off, she buried her head into my chest as we went up an escalator to catch our train.

Her: “I’m so embarrassed”
Me: “So…the surprise outfit is a police officer uniform, isn’t it?”
Her: “Shut up”

She eventually got over it, and the next day we were able to laugh about it. She did say to me at one point “I bet at least one of the guys that saw the whole thing jacked off to the thought of you fucking me with handcuffs on”.

Do you think she’s right? How would you have reacted if you saw that happen in public?

This was my third meet up with her, and we spent four days together. I don’t know what kind of traction true long form stories get on here, but happy to share further if there’s interest.

This could just be dumb luck and purely anecdotal evidence, but every time one of these topics shows up in any level of serious or casual relationship I’m in, it’s always been an Asian woman. I’ve dated white, black, and Latina women before, but can’t think of any times something similar has ever popped up.

1. My college AF gf was always constantly paranoid other Asian girls would try to steal me from her and got overly protective around my AF friends. Paid literally no attention to my WF friends.

2. Before I was together with her, another Chinese ex was dating a Chinese guy. He didn’t meet her on Valentine’s Day and she was irate. She retaliated by taking pictures in sexy lingerie and sending them to me and left them on her phone for her boyfriend to find internationally to make him jealous. Not physical, but I’d still call this cheating.

3. Two years ago, I slept with a woman in Shanghai and afterward she tells me about how she has a cuck boyfriend in Belgium and called him on the phone to share details with him while I was still around. It was weird that the cuck was a white guy, but whatever.

4. Last year, I hooked up with a Chinese friend of mine. She’s rarely posts on social media, so I assumed she was single. I only found out months later that was a burner account and she has a real account that had pictures of her with a AM guy. I asked her about it, and she wanted nothing to do with that conversation and asked me to mind my own business. Kind of feel a little bad about that one.

I think there may be a couple other small examples, but those are what came to mind. Do white women and other races cheat? Of course, I don’t doubt that at all. But is there something cultural that drives that more for Asian women? In my experience, it’s just been a pattern I’ve observed.

I dated a Chinese girl (Rene) for a few months, defintiely one of the better Asian women I’ve been with and she had a major kinky side that was fun to explore. She had told me she had been with 20 guys, most during a phase she went through in college. She said about half were Asian, about half white.

One kink we found early on that both of us were into was recording ourselves having sex. We made a few clips together that I sometimes still enjoy, and we were both open about the fact we’ve done that with partners in the past. Neither of us are particularly jealous people, so one night we decided to watch videos we made before.

I shared mine first, and then we watched hers. She had four videos. The first three were with her boyfriend before me, who was Chinese. A blowjob clip that was like 80% pubes, a doggystyle clip where her ass looked great but not much else going on, and finally video of her riding him. The riding video was hot because it was the only one that showed her full body, but the sex was pretty mediocre. I remember feeling almost disappointed but took pride in knowing what we filmed was way hotter.

But the WMAF kink has a funny way of surprising us all.

The final video was like a jump scare. Instantly recognizable as NOT her most recent boyfriend. It was obviously a white guy, his dick length was similar to mine but I’m not afraid to admit he was significantly thicker than me. It was 28 seconds filmed from his perspective of fucking her doggystyle hard. The two best things were hearing how loud she was moaning (far louder than in the other videos), and watching her ass as he fucked her. Her ass is really small and tight, seeing it move while he railed her was great. I honestly didn’t even know she liked it that rough so after that I made it a point to fuck her that way after seeing how she liked that.

We compared the videos after and made fun of her Chinese ex. Putting that piss poor performance side by side with what we’ve filmed and the last video with she showed just really drives the point home in how sex can be so different depending on the partner.

For those of us that have been with both, have you found that you have different favorite positions depending on her race?