u/BaiLaoWai-92

This could just be dumb luck and purely anecdotal evidence, but every time one of these topics shows up in any level of serious or casual relationship I’m in, it’s always been an Asian woman. I’ve dated white, black, and Latina women before, but can’t think of any times something similar has ever popped up.

1. My college AF gf was always constantly paranoid other Asian girls would try to steal me from her and got overly protective around my AF friends. Paid literally no attention to my WF friends.

2. Before I was together with her, another Chinese ex was dating a Chinese guy. He didn’t meet her on Valentine’s Day and she was irate. She retaliated by taking pictures in sexy lingerie and sending them to me and left them on her phone for her boyfriend to find internationally to make him jealous. Not physical, but I’d still call this cheating.

3. Two years ago, I slept with a woman in Shanghai and afterward she tells me about how she has a cuck boyfriend in Belgium and called him on the phone to share details with him while I was still around. It was weird that the cuck was a white guy, but whatever.

4. Last year, I hooked up with a Chinese friend of mine. She’s rarely posts on social media, so I assumed she was single. I only found out months later that was a burner account and she has a real account that had pictures of her with a AM guy. I asked her about it, and she wanted nothing to do with that conversation and asked me to mind my own business. Kind of feel a little bad about that one.

I think there may be a couple other small examples, but those are what came to mind. Do white women and other races cheat? Of course, I don’t doubt that at all. But is there something cultural that drives that more for Asian women? In my experience, it’s just been a pattern I’ve observed.

I dated a Chinese girl (Rene) for a few months, defintiely one of the better Asian women I’ve been with and she had a major kinky side that was fun to explore. She had told me she had been with 20 guys, most during a phase she went through in college. She said about half were Asian, about half white.

One kink we found early on that both of us were into was recording ourselves having sex. We made a few clips together that I sometimes still enjoy, and we were both open about the fact we’ve done that with partners in the past. Neither of us are particularly jealous people, so one night we decided to watch videos we made before.

I shared mine first, and then we watched hers. She had four videos. The first three were with her boyfriend before me, who was Chinese. A blowjob clip that was like 80% pubes, a doggystyle clip where her ass looked great but not much else going on, and finally video of her riding him. The riding video was hot because it was the only one that showed her full body, but the sex was pretty mediocre. I remember feeling almost disappointed but took pride in knowing what we filmed was way hotter.

But the WMAF kink has a funny way of surprising us all.

The final video was like a jump scare. Instantly recognizable as NOT her most recent boyfriend. It was obviously a white guy, his dick length was similar to mine but I’m not afraid to admit he was significantly thicker than me. It was 28 seconds filmed from his perspective of fucking her doggystyle hard. The two best things were hearing how loud she was moaning (far louder than in the other videos), and watching her ass as he fucked her. Her ass is really small and tight, seeing it move while he railed her was great. I honestly didn’t even know she liked it that rough so after that I made it a point to fuck her that way after seeing how she liked that.

We compared the videos after and made fun of her Chinese ex. Putting that piss poor performance side by side with what we’ve filmed and the last video with she showed just really drives the point home in how sex can be so different depending on the partner.

For those of us that have been with both, have you found that you have different favorite positions depending on her race?