I know that this might kind of go against the idea of femdom being "fem" for some, depending on how you define the "fem" in your femdom and I apologise if this is a bit off-topic, but I wanted to know how many femdom people are into this kind of thing, both the doms and why not also the subs. Especially that earlier post here about women who are into being called "daddy" inspired me to ask more specifically about this.
I know feminizing the sub is quite common in femdom, but I've lately been very much into the idea of completely reversing the gender expressions in a femdom relationship for both parties. I like feminine women and do find the idea of a domme being very feminine attractive, but I have also always loved masc women. Thus would love the idea of getting dommed by a woman with a very masculine appearance, or being in a relationship where we would intentionally sometimes reverse both our genders.
The idea of her looking over at me, wearing some traditionally masculine clothing with minimal/no makeup, the shape of her strapon bulging through her jeans while telling me to make myself look pretty for her or handing me a pretty dress to wear for tonight, perhaps even telling me to call her "daddy" with her calling me her pretty little princess or her lovely little wife. And all this done with the softness and caring touch of gentle femdom, not her being masculine in a rude or arrogant way, but making me feel safe and cared for in her presence... it's just one of the hottest things I can imagine.
Can anyone here relate to this kind of idea for a femdom relationship?