Position Available

A warm, funny, mutually respectful affair partner for an ongoing discreet connection.

This is a part time, emotionally intelligent, strictly discreet role based in the GTA.

Ideal candidates enjoy flirting, banter, dates, daily texts, and share similar hobbies.

This is not a contract position. I am looking for something ongoing and long term. Something enjoyable for the both of us.

About the Company

Privately owned and operated by an Asian 28 year old married man in the Greater Toronto Area trying to stand out!

Stats: 168 cm, 165 lbs, short black hair, dark brown eyes, always dressing down in streetwear, chubby/dad bod-ish but im working on it! Chill/approachable/fun/extraverted leo energy.

Professionally I work as an office manager/event coordinator in DT Toronto 5 days a week in person sadly. Personally, I am friendly, extroverted, playful, and chill. I am passionate about bouldering, and specialty coffee. My other interests and hobbies
include: hiking, anime/manga/manhwa, 3D printing, learning Korean, and being funnier than at least one of your coworkers.

I am happily married, and will be honest about being a huuge cake eater. I am not looking to change anyone's situation or blow up their lives. Discretion is a must with opsec being the top priority.

Role Overview

You would be joining as my AP: someone I can hangout, laugh, flirt, and enjoy good noms with. Would love to build a genuine friendship with someone and not just have a body to have sex with. I want to be you best guy friend that can hit the gym with you or go on a hike, enjoy a good meal, and end the hand out with some simply good sex. The goal is best friends that can fuck each other when our needs are not getting met

Ideally, we would have both an online and in-person connection: daily texting with weekly meetups when schedules align.

While I believe in laying out what the sex would be like with all the kinks I believe having a good base of friendship would help enhance the sexual experience so I am in no rush to reveal the overview of what the role is required but am happy to talk about that when it flows in our convo naturally!

Key Responsibilities

- Bring good banter and the ability to flirt without making it weird.
- Be interested in both light nonsense and deeper conversation.
- Enjoy an ongoing connection rather than a “hi, bye, disappear” situation.
- Respect discretion, privacy, and real life obligations.
- Communicate clearly about availability, boundaries, and comfort.
- Occasionally say yes to coffee, lunch, dinner, or a hangout.
- Help build something and put in effort , never fun to build something alone :p

Required Qualifications

- Age range 18-38.
- Located in or able to meet within the GTA. I am not open to traveling outside the GTA.
- Understands that home time is wife time. I will text daily when I can, but I am respectful of my real life responsibilities and need the same understanding from you.
- Discreet, emotionally mature, and not looking to create chaos.
- Comfortable with EST time.
- Clear about their personal boundaries
- Clear about health and safety expectations (I will have tests ready and will continue to be tested, and while I love raw dogging protection will be a must unless we both feel comfortable to move past that)

Preferred Qualifications

-Located in Richmond Hill, Yonge Finch area, or the downtown core area.
-Preferred ethnicity are Asians and Caucasians but open to any ethnicity!
- Married or attached, or at least someone who genuinely understands discretion.
- Confident, curious, funny, warm, and emotionally aware.
- Aligned with interests and hobbies: specialty coffee, bouldering (fine ill say yes to rope 🙄), anime/manga/manhwa
-HWP

Compensation & Benefits

This role offers:
- Daily texting and attention.
- Weekly meetups when schedules align.
- Lunches or dinners.
- Fun dates
- Genuine chemistry, laughter, flirting, and after care.
-A friend you can always rely on

Additional benefits may be discussed privately after you feel comfortable and ready to connect physically!

Schedule & Availability

-Primary availability is weekdays 12-2pm or after 5pm, with occasional weekends depending on life and scheduling. But always will be around online but an important note, there will be wife time. That's a hard boundary and I will respect yours too. Will openly communicate when wife time happens and ends.

Application Instructions

To apply, send me a message with:
- Your age and general location.
- Relationship status, if you are comfortable sharing.
- What caught your attention here.
- Your ideal version of an ongoing affair would be.
- A little about your life, what makes you laugh, hobbies, and schedule

Photos are not required immediately, but I do think they should be exchanged fairly quickly once there is comfort. I can verify and I am happy to keep things respectful, private, and pressure free. Succfuly canidates will be contacted and screened. Best of luck