r/CanadianAffair

I never know how to start these things, and I’ve posted a few times before so I feel like my creativity is dying out along with my hope lol

I’m not just here for a fwb, meaningless sex or swapping nudes. I’ve already gone through that phase of my life.
I’m looking for that spark with someone special again, someone who’s genuinely interested in a love affair connection.
Lives are busy, but communication is key.

I’m a bored, sometimes lonely SAHM of three aged 10 and under. With a spouse who continually forgets my needs of simple attention and affection. I mean, I haven’t gotten a “good morning beautiful” text from him in a couple of years now. The sex life is still there, but it’s hard to be attracted to someone who doesn’t make you feel super wanted or loved. It seems we stopped “dating” each other over the years and things have just settled into a mundane routine. With school about to be back in, I’m about to have a whole lot of free time again.

Physically I am taller than the average woman, mom bod but active. Very conventionally pretty in the face.
I love deep conversations, sharing memes or TikTok’s, discussing the latest tv shows or movies and sharing what’s on my playlist lately.
I’ve done this sort of thing before, had an online on again, off again fling with someone I met off instagram. But I’m hoping to find someone a little more local this time.

My only requirements would be, please no low effort intro DM’s, and please be 6ft or taller. Oh, and you gotta be cool that I’m 420 friendly 🙃

Looking for something/someone very specific. Want a younger guy (30-40 yrs) who can go for more than 5 minutes. This would need to be discreet, I’m attached but desperate to try and cum from sex as it’s never happened for me in my current relationship. Need someone who is patient, knows what they’re doing, and is an amazing kisser. Prefer Caucasian (just personal preference here) males over 5’10, good body, don’t need to be ripped but don’t want a dad bod. I’m 5’4 blonde 135lbs curvy where it counts! Please dm and be willing to share pic. If you don’t fit the above description please don’t message.

43 women, married with 2 teens. I’m invisible at home and looking for that spark that’s been missing at home. Brown hair, brown eyes with freckles and reading glasses. Curvy and 5’6”

I’m into fitness and enjoy reading. Currently binge watching Chicago PD. I’m a sports fan, hockey and baseball mostly. I’m also a hockey mom so I spend my falls and winters at the rink. Communication is important to me, I fully understand we have lives outside of this and I’m not looking to change that but a simple heads up so I’m not left feeling like I’ve been ghosted goes a very long way. Looking for someone who has some availability to connect evenings and weekends, not interested in a “9-5” relationship. 

About you: tall, between the ages of 43 and 50, have hair on your head and clean shaven (a little scruff is acceptable too) I’m not attracted to bald men or men with full facial hair. Looking for long term online only and in the eastern time zone. Interested in sports or working out so we have something to chat about. 

I want to build something real and long term but online only for now. I have the availability to put into this for the right person. 

If this resonates with you, send me a message and tell me what kind of music you like and what about my post resonated with you the most.

Hi, I'm 23M from Toronto Downtown. I always find girls with shaved pussy, while hairy pussy is so sexy. So this post for those beauties out there who loves to keep that bush down there. I find it so hot and turns me on so much. Let's meet, I wanna get that treasure hidden in the bush.

I am a high libido guy, who loves going multiple rounds and make you cum till you can't no more. I love foreplay to put you in absolute horny mood till you want me fuck your hairy pussy.

I am 5'6, long curly hair and handsome. Let's exchange pics and verify each other. Hit me up, can't wait to worship you; hairy pussy queen:)

I’m a 47-year-old woman who has been with the same person for almost 20 years. We’ve built a life together and are genuinely amazing friends, but somewhere along the way, the spark and excitement faded.

I’m not looking for a bunch of casual encounters or endless matches. I’m looking for one person who brings back that feeling I’ve been missing — the butterflies when their name pops up on my phone, the cute text that makes me smile for no reason, and that excitement of genuinely looking forward to seeing someone again.

I’m attracted to someone who is emotionally mature, affectionate, confident and knows how to communicate. Someone who can make me laugh, flirt with me, be playful, but also have real conversations. Chemistry is important, but so are trust, connection and actually enjoying each other as people.

As for me, I’m 47, 5’6”, with brown hair and green eyes. I’ve also recently lost 50 pounds, and I’m feeling healthier, more confident, and more like myself than I have in a long time. I’m slightly on the bigger side, feminine, affectionate and comfortable with who I am.

I love to laugh, I can be playful and flirty, and when I connect with someone, I genuinely enjoy making them feel wanted and appreciated.

I’m not in a rush. I’d rather take my time and find one person where the connection feels natural and the attraction is mutual. I miss that feeling of being excited about someone — the anticipation, the butterflies, the inside jokes, and wondering when you’re going to see each other again.

Maybe you’re missing that too.

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

About me:
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

I am naturally dominant. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focus.

We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we are a match.

I'm married, lived enough life, and (unfortunately) been in these parts long enough to know who I vibe with and and who I don't. I'll admit, like many of us here, I've got a desire for something specific. I'm looking to fulfill that before I finally give up on this reddit sub. That being said, I’m not looking for quick and fast anything and want something of substance.

Disclaimer: I have high standards, I would hope you do too. I'm not playing games or wasting time, I'm picky and I'll wait for the right person.

Please be tall, must be fit, attractive, married with kids, between age 35-50 and work in law enforcement in some capacity. Most importantly, be discreet. OPSEC and discretion should be of top priority for both of us for more than a few very obvious reasons. No drama, no blowing up lives, just fun. Simple, uncomplicated and something that can be fulfilling for us both.

DM with details and general location and something beyond the basics of a bot. I will only reply if the above details match so please include them in your initial message.

I'm taken, obviously, but not sexually fulfilled. I'm looking for an AP who might travel to Montreal for work on a semi-regular basis. I have a busy life so a mix of mostly online and sometimes in person works well for me. I have a type and I'm hoping you're my dream AP...

5'11 or taller (if you're going to lie about this move along)
40-55 years old (I like my men older, what can I say)
Fit/strong (I need a squeezable bicep, thank you)
Grey hair (on your head - aka please don't be bald)
Dominant (prefer a pleasure dom)
Mainly into Caucasian men (I can't help it I'm sorry)
Attractive by more than your mother's standards

I'm tall, fit, Caucasian, brown hair, pretty face. I have a range of hobbies. I'm well educated, caring, career driven. I lean submissive in the bedroom. I'm cautious about this type of arrangement and I hope you are too.

If you fit the criteria and want to chat, let me know more about yourself and who your celebrity look-alike is if you have one! :)

Femme ébène de 29 ans (5'4, 165 lbs), des formes généreuses et un charme assumé. Je cherche un homme capable de prendre le contrôle et de moi sa soumise.

J'ai une préférence pour les hommes blancs, athlétiques et grands. La taille de ton membre m'importe peu. Ma bouche ne fait pas de discrimination ;)

Je suis ouverte à une aventure mémorable sans lendemain, à des rencontres régulières selon nos disponibilités ou à un threesome MFM avec mon amant actuel.

Écris-moi ton âge, tes mensurations et ton domaine de travail pour briser la glace.

Prête à me laisser aller entre tes mains,

BlackOpium 🤍

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29-year-old ebony woman (5'4, 165 lbs), with generous curves and a confident charm. I am looking for a man capable of taking control and making me his submissive.

I have a preference for white, athletic, and tall men. The size of your member matters little to me. My mouth does not discriminate ;).

I am open to a memorable one-night stand, regular meetings based on our availability, or an MFM threesome with my current AP.

Tell me your age, your measurements, and your field of work to break the ice.

Ready to let go in your hands,

BlackOpium 🤍

Discreet, Genuine & Kink-Friendly

Married, 55, educator by profession, and very much someone who believes that the best connections start with trust, chemistry, and feeling genuinely comfortable with each other.

I’m looking for an AP who is interested in more than just a physical arrangement. I’d like to build a strong foundation of trust and a genuine connection, and from there explore the more adventurous, sensual and kinky sides of ourselves. I tend to be naturally confident and take the lead, so “pleasure Dom” probably describes me best—not interested in control for its own sake, but in creating an environment where we both feel safe enough to let go and enjoy the moment.

Discretion matters enormously to me. I understand that both of us have lives, families, careers and responsibilities outside of this. I have no interest in interfering with yours, and I expect the same in return. What happens between us stays between us.

I’m clean, respectful, gentlemanly, open-minded and very attentive to the person I’m with. I want you to feel safe, wanted, respected and completely comfortable being yourself around me. For me, that trust is what makes everything else possible.

I’m based around Erin Mills Parkway and the 401 in the GTA and have a fairly flexible schedule, including working from home regularly, which makes finding time for the right connection much easier.
Personality-wise, I’m funny, charismatic, confident and naturally a leader. I enjoy good conversation, flirting, chemistry and that feeling when two people can completely switch off from the outside world when they’re together.

I’m looking for something long-term rather than a one-off encounter. Someone who wants a real connection, who is curious about her own desires, and who wants a private space where we can explore that side of ourselves together.

And yes, I’m comfortable with feelings developing. I think pretending there can never be emotion involved is unrealistic. The important thing is that we communicate openly and respect the boundaries and parameters we establish together.

If you’re looking for something discreet, safe, passionate and genuinely connected—and you want a man who values the woman behind the fantasy—I’d enjoy getting to know you.

I’m glad you think Calgary girls are worth checking out! So far, so good! After all, I’m pretty cool.

I’m a down-to-earth girl who’s looking for that flutter of excitement when I meet someone new. I want to smile when your name pops up on my phone and wonder if you’re thinking of me, just like I’ve been thinking of you.

Those butterflies in my tummy!

I’m in an open relationship, so I’m not looking for someone who needs a lot of attention. We both have lives to live, and I want someone who understands that I have someone else in my life. I also don’t mind if we don’t text more than a good morning and a good night sometimes. I like to live in the moment!

I would like to meet someone who is in Calgary, as much as I do love to message back and forth (and sometimes you can never get me to shut up!) I am looking to that rush of a first date, those light touches in real life!

So, if you’ve read this far, I guess I sound interesting enough to maybe want to shoot me a message!

Hi!

A bit scary to post here, but here we go.

I have been with my partner since 2020, and things aren't working out well. I've been experiencing loneliness for years, and I'm looking for a companion. A friend, with the potential for something more. I prefer to take things slow, and use discretion. My love languages (what I give) are: quality time, words of affirmation, physical contact. What I like to receive: acts of service, gifts, quality time. I want to feel cherished in a relationship.

I gravitate towards older men, but if the vibes are good, I can be flexible towards someone younger. I do not use Snapchat, I do not send n00ds — please do not ask me for this.

Lifestyle: I'm pretty boring 😅 I wake up every morning at around 5:30, go for a one-hour walk, do my hygiene/skincare routine and go to work. Healthy routines are important, as I'm on my self-improvement journey. It would be nice to have someone who is also striving for better health & discipline.

Physically (because I know that's important): 170cm tall, 180lbs (lost 100lbs in 13 months!), I wear glasses, I have an hourglass/curvy figure. Most men would consider me high maintenance, so don't say I didn't warn you. 😝

I hope this blurb will suffice. If any of this interests you, feel free to shoot me a DM.

Looking for a woman close in age, preferably married, to feel some spark again.

Been married for years and the spark has been gone a long while. Not looking to end it or exit, just a fun escape. I am self employed and travel all around simcoe county for work. I make my own hours and schedule all my work at a pace that suits me. So I can make time during the day.

I would say im a caring guy who can have a fun time. I love music and cooking. Im into taking care of my health, going to the gym and being outside as much as possible.

I plan to stay in the marriage as long as my kids are around, I came from a divorced home and though things are rather dead, we still make great parents and give off the perfect example of a healthy relationship. Behind closed doors things aren't as.. healthy, and we share very little interest.

But enough about that.

I just want someone who is in a similar boat as mine, looking to have a bit of fun while we claw at whats left of our youth. Im not pushy, nor a jealous person. I would prefer someone who doesnt have multiple AP's as that always complicates things further.

So if you are dealing with a stagnant relationship you cant get out of, but need to have some fun shoot me a message. Lets talk! Maybe we hit it off maybe we dont but youll never know unless you try!

We've just gotten back, I've just locked the door behind us. Already I've pushed your back against it, my hand firm on your shoulder. You struggle for a moment, out of habit, out of sassiness, and I step in even closer, my other hand grabbing your chin. "Weren't you, young lady?"

You can tell by my tone that I mean business, but you think you might be able to talk your way out of it. "Come on, you know I didn't mean anything by..."

I put my index finger over your lips. "Shhhh. You know it's important to daddy that you behave yourself."

I trace your lips with my thumb, the rest of the hand holding your chin. I've previously kissed off all of your lipstick in the cab. "Shhhh. You're going to have to be a good girl now and listen. Here, suck your daddy's thumb while you listen." My thumb slips between your lips, and you open your mouth just a little bit. I smile at your resistance. "You can do better than that, little beauty."

Eyes downcast and submissive, you take my thumb in your mouth and softly suck. You feel both the deep, fleeting embarrassment at being treated like a petulant child, and also something else. You feel that strange mixture of safety and helplessness that come from surrendering control of yourself to your loving and stern daddy.

"That's my good girl. Now listen: it's very important to daddy that you behave yourself when we're out and about. Now you know that I'll never stop you from having fun or acting a little wildly; but you also know that I have to punish you for misbehaving when you get home. Because daddy has to teach you what happens to naughty girls. You know that, don't you princess?"

Still sucking my thumb, you know that your best bet is to just nod. You now know that you've got some discipline coming, and your dominant concern is not making it worse.

"Now pull up your little dress with both hands so daddy can see if you're wearing those panties I picked out for you yesterday."

The blush on your little cheeks deepens even more as you realize your mistake... you're wearing the wrong panties! As you coyly raise the hem of your dress higher and higher, all you can do is hope I've forgotten which pair I told you to wear for me.

But of course I remember. And you're going to have a hard time over my knee tonight, young lady...

I'm looking for a woman who's a little girl on the inside, whatever her age on the outside. I'm just a man who'll spank you when you need a spanking, and let you sit on my lap and feel my arms around you when you're a good girl. Are you looking for your stern and loving daddy?

About me:

Height - 6' \\Build - Medium built \\Weight - 195 lbs Dark Brown eyes

Helloooo,

I have tried this before a couple times with no luck, hoping this will be the last time

I am looking for a longer term on going thing with one person. I am looking for someone who is educated, intelligent, capable of conversation and who is willing to put in time and effort.

I am married and do have kids( you don't have to). I also work a high stress job, so someone who understands that, as well as working odd hours would be ideal. (someone in aviation, healthcare or emergency services would be nice.)

Looking to ideally start online and if things work out, eventually figure out meeting. So ideally please be able to travel.