r/CanadianAffair

Well I see that you think us Calgary girl are worth checking out! Well good choices so far! I mean I am pretty cool after all.

So I am a pretty down to earth girl who is looking for those butterflies of meeting someone new!

I am looking for that connection… I want to smile when your name pops up on my phone. Wondering if I am on your mind like you have been on mine!

Those butterflies in the tummy!!!!!

I am in an open relationship so I’m not looking for someone who needs a lot of attention as we both have lives to live. Someone who understands that I do have someone else in my life. Someone who will not get offended if we can’t text a more then a good morning and a good night sometimes.
I like to live in the moments in my life at times!

So I guess if you have read this so far I guess I sound interesting enough to maybe want to shoot me a message!

In a dead bedroom situation with my partner. Not looking to change anyone’s situation, I’m happy but seeking something borrowed (ideally someone’s husband or hot dad). Something about the thrill of being with someone else’s partner is really delicious to me right now. Hopefully it is the same for you.

At this point in time I’m not looking for a long term partner, just someone who can help me scratch this itch. Maybe that would change with the right person.

About me:
- chubby (light bbw)
- values discretion and privacy
- young professional travelling often between GTA and Ottawa
-5’8

About you:
- in 30-45 year age range
- in a happy relationship as well
- taller than me
- ideally a sizeable appendage with great experience using it
- kinky and respectful of boundaries/hard limits

If interested in talking more send me a message with a photo of you (does not need to show your face but no dick pics please).

So, I was chatting with this woman (let’s call her TM) that I met through this sub, (she called me “wings”) Banter was amazing...we really seemed to click. We even made plans to go for a hike this morning.

And then… poof… she deleted her profile and ghosted me.

Could’ve wallowed in it, but instead, I went to the trail we had planned and had a genuinely nice hike by myself. Saw tons of cool birds, a snake, and honestly felt pretty great being out in nature. Still stings a little that I did it solo, but I’m choosing to focus on the positives.

So, TM, if you’re reading this: thanks for the inspiration for a great morning! And if any other women in the GTA want to join me for another hike, I’m always happy to chat.

Sometimes the adventure doesn’t need a partner, but it’s always nicer with one.

It seems like 90% of the people online are just here for validation, endless chatting, or wasting time. When it actually comes to moving from a screen to a real-life meeting, most people disappear.

I’m looking for the perspective of women who are genuinely serious about finding a discreet, real-world connection:

What is the biggest thing that differentiates a serious, respectful man from a time-waster in your DMs? What actually makes you take the leap to meet someone?

If you are real, tired of the games, and want to share your thoughts with someone who values discretion and efficiency, drop me a DM. Let’s see who is actually serious here.

Full disclosure: I don’t ride a bike myself. I’m into cars. I just find bike guys very attracted and think it would be fun 😜

33, brown female. Married. Not looking to change your situation or mines. I want us to talk about the good, the bad and everything in between. Be our little secret escape from this world.

I am looking for online at the moment and I’m not looking to rush the sexual side of things, so if that’s what you’re looking for please don’t message me.

No single men please, and please be around my age and white 😌 Hoping to find what I’m looking for!

In a dead bedroom situation, have a bf but not married. Ideally want a regular partner, not opposed to a fling. I don’t really have experience with affairs and I’m pretty nervous so I’m unsure exactly how far I’m willing to go yet.

You:
- uncut
- completely shaved.
- bonus if you are hung
- Younger than me (35 or older is a hard limit)
- send your stats/pics in the first message - I get a lot of messages
- don’t mind if you’re attached but I’d want to know

Me:
- chubbier/thick side
- some tattoos
- 5’9”
- white
- located in Ontario
- travel for work (most often in Montreal or Toronto)

The title says it all.

I'm a married mom of two, and clearly feeling rather risky today. I'm fit, funny with a hint or sarcastic, successful and love to have fun. Always down to try new things, which ultimately has likely led me here.

I'm an open-minded woman looking for discreet fun. I will only respond to men who are willing to include a photo (SFW), can of course be faceless and who are 30+.

Please be attractive and fit. I prefer white, tall, athletic and straight men.

Faceless body photo is on profile. I figure it's best we establish if physical attraction is there straight off the bat.

You: married, parent, my age or older, active, intelligent, can carry a conversation. Can be emotionally and physically available. I would like to meet when the time is right. Country/blue collar is my preferred type. Something about a man that’s good with his hands.

Why I’m here: I have a good successful life but missing the excitement of something new. Not looking to change ours lives just a temporary escape from the ordinary. I know I shouldn’t be here neither should you but I like the mental escape of thinking about you/seeing you next.

I’ve got a mouth on me that is equal parts sarcastic, dirty, and wholesome. Some have used the word trifecta.

I’m short, curvy, and looking for something real. Separated but coparenting.

You should be able to keep a conversation flowing, make plans to meet up at least semi regularly, and be ready to fall in love with me because I’m fucking perfect.

Bring it.

My life looks perfect from the outside, but inside I'm craving excitement and connection. Looking for a secret online affair to add that spark back into my days. I want someone I can be completely honest with, someone who understands what I'm missing. This stays strictly online, our private bubble where we can explore chemistry without consequences. If you're also seeking that thrill, let's talk.

This sub is getting overrun with crap. People posting a title and that’s it. People ignoring the rules. I can’t keep up with it.

I’m asking for help from any of you who have the time and the knowledge of how to set shit up so we don’t have to manually do everything when there is probably a bot for that.

Message me if you’re interested in joining the team. Thanks!

Married, mom of one, seeking something fun, on-going, mutual respect is key. Please have the time and availability to foster a connection like this, because I guarantee I'll have you addicted.

I'm fit, educated, funny, and have the time to pour into this. I expect the same back in all regards.

I prefer corporate-type, preferably fit, live an active lifestyle. If you have children we will likely relate more.

Other than that I'm open minded. Say hi!

Everything was incredible. She's smart, gorgeous, fun, and a great mom... I was hooked.

The plan came together perfectly.

Location ✅

Date ✅

Travel plans ✅

Hotel ✅

Picked up Diet Coke and Cheesy Dill Kernels Popcorn, little surprises for her from our conversations to help make today more special.

"What's your ETA?"

"10:52 haha"

"Perfect. Let me know when you've parked"

10:57 - "last seen a long time ago"

Shit.

Hey 👋 This might have a slim chance of working, but here goes. I am looking to reconnect with someone I met on Reddit in Jan of this year (the cute and sweet guy from Canada). I'm the yoga instructor from Michigan who really misses you. I don't want to share anything more identifying than that, so please excuse the cryptic nature of the post.

I think about you a lot and regret breaking things off. I'm really hoping this finds you.

If this sounds like it could be you... please do reach out. ❤️

-T

I’ve had some good experiences meeting women through Reddit, and most interactions go well. But every so often I run into the same situation: we’ll talk consistently for a week, move over to Telegram, exchange photos, even have some pretty flirty/steamy conversations — and then the moment it comes time to actually meet up, they disappear completely.

I genuinely don’t understand it. If you’re not interested in meeting, why invest that much time and energy in the first place? Has anyone else experienced this, or can offer some perspective on why this happens?

I’m a 43-year-old mom of 2 teenagers. I’m at the stage of my life where my kids don’t need me to except to drive them around, so I’m left with mostly quiet evenings and weekends, when I’m not busy being a sports mom.

 

I’m not skinny, but I’m also not fat. I’m working on myself in and out of the gym. I’ve got brown hair, brown eyes with glasses and freckles.

 

I’m on a fitness journey and love staying active. It would be great to have someone on a similar path so we can support and motivate each other.

 

I’m looking for a connection that feels easy, consistent and real. Communication matters to me. I’m an early riser who appreciates the good morning check-in and I tend to wind down early in the evening. I want someone to fill the void at home and make me feel seen again, hopefully you are feeling similar at home and are looking for the missing piece. My ideal match has time for me in the evenings and weekends even if it’s quick check-ins between sports.

 

What I’m looking for:

-          Consistent communication, not just when it’s convenient

-          A genuine connection that starts with friendship and grows naturally

-          Someone supportive who shows up and matches effort

-          Strong chemistry and mutual attraction

-          Online only for now

-          A man aged 38-50

 

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, send me a message and tell me what kind of music you listen to.

Hellooo,

I am looking to build a connection with someone online and if it works out eventually meet. So please be able to travel, either for work or leisure to yyc, yeg, yqr, or ywg.

I am married, have kids (you dont have to) and work a high stress job with hours all over the place. I have the time and energy to build something ideally long term with one person.

Please be normal, capable of a conversation, willing to put in effort and have time for this. ( I do understand your home life does come first).

To all those who celebrate, are celebrated, or are missing ones to celebrate with, I hope this day is meaningful for you! 💖💐

Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms, mom-like figures, and motherfuckers! 😁